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does it mean anything....
Okay well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month and everything is going really good.
but well we have been trying to kiss for the last week and well im ready for it and i told him i could kiss him but he said he wants to be the man...but evertime we are about to do it he backs off and we sit around joking about how we cant do it..
does it mean anything bad or....
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Dear does it mean anything,
No, it doesn't mean anything. A kiss is a very intimate thing and you want to get it right ! your b/f is probably scared that he won't get it right. So don't worry. My first b/f kissed me out of now where as i was getting on the bus and ran away ! now what the heck was that about ?
Anyway, a kiss is very special, so it means nothing bad, it'll happen. Good things come to those who wait.
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Aww lol =]
Nahh nothing bad his just really shy and i think his kinda scared he might do something bad maybe when he leans to kiss you and when he pulls back just grab him and kiss him he'll smile after it my friend did it to her boyfriend he still talks about it =]
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It isn't a bad thing. Some guys are self-conscience because they are the man. The man does everything from asking them out to kissing. From your descriptions, you've been with him for a while and that's good. Best to date for a while before kissing. It seems like your ready to show affection. If he doesn't kiss you, then you kiss him! I understand that he is the man, but come on! If he was the man, he would already kiss you. Kiss when he leasts expects it. Maybe he will not get so shy around it after you kiss him. When you say good-bye, first kiss on him the cheek. Maybe when after a date, kiss him on the lips. Do something or he will just back off...pretty sad I think. Good luck and have fun! lol
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I don't think it's anything bad, he's probably just really shy. Next time you're in that situation and he jokes about "being the man," smile at him and say something like "psht well I'm the woman," and just kiss him! It would be cute and I'm sure it will help break the ice. Go for it and I know the two of you will be glad you did!
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It doesn't mean anything bad. Think about it. You are ready to kiss him, how do you know that he is ready to kiss you?
Try spending regular one on one time together - maybe not huge amounts of time, but it might be awkward for him to kiss around other people. Try to open up the possibility of kissing by becoming less shy with touching each other. Nothing pornographic, just flirt with him. Poke him playfully. Place your arm around him waist, or hold his hand. Give him hugs. This will make the whole leap from not touching you to kissing you a lot less weird for him (and possibly you as well). Remember to also enjoy time with him in other ways, and not turn kissing into an issue where he may feel pressured.
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It likely means he is not ready or he is nervous. Most likely both.
It is not a bad thing. It will happen when the time is right. No worries.
ygs-29/f
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i think he's just nervous. maybe just do it yourself. you can't wait forever. it's always awkward at first. its your first kiss. so just do it next time, if he doesn't.
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