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what would you say is a normal clothing size for a teenage girl? like 2, 4, 6, 8...
also, for junior sizes, is a 1 equal to a 0 or 2? (link)
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I would say that a average clothing size for teenage girls would be like 9-13. Those are the sizes that i can never find in the store. Of course it happens to be MY size. But size of clothing is just a number. If you are a healthy weight for your age and height, don't worry about the size of your clothes ! idk on the last question, sorry.
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what kind of things do you put on a ice cream sundae?
im just drawing a blank (link)
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Nuts
Whip Cream
Strawberries, any fruit really
Carmel
Chocolate
Sprinkles
Cherries
Candies
M&M's
Snickers
etc.
Hope this helps jog your memory
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okay so i was just wandering is it true kissing or making out comes kind of natrually? (link)
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Kissing is just like art and riding a bike, well sort of. You get the hang of it quickly, you find out the likes and dislikes of each individual person. add that with passion and feeling and presto !!!! A kiss is born! I hope that this helps !
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First off im f/16 (if that helps :D)
I am in this wonderful relationship with my boyfriend, who happens to be my best friend as well.
For a background story, i met him in 9th grade when he was in 11th, we became best friends, we finally got together and been going out for little over 5 months.
Anyways I am in completely LOVE with him, although some may say sixteen doesn't know true love, I am more than hundred percent sure that he is the one i love truly with all my heart.
My problem is, i've always had this some sort of "commitment issue" but don't get me wrong, I am way past that and over that ever since i am with my current boyfriend.
But that is also a backdrop to me pushing off someone I love. To make this long story short, I freak out and just push my emotion to max.
For example, tonight we met up at the football game in our school (we barely get to see each other because he is in college and lives pretty far away and i cant drive), (i dont know if it was caused by me PMS-ing but) I saw him and he said he was going to church near my house after the football game and he asked me if i can go, i said only if your friend would give me a ride. He said probably not without asking him (which i expected kind of) but i guess I was already kind of ticked off from my family and other stuff like getting rain POURED because it was tropical storms coming, so I kind of took it out on him and got mad that he wouldn't even bother asking before saying no to me. (I know it's totally my fault) and I left him hanging and all that, and I started crying and i did tell him it wasnt him but I was still acting like a baby and such.
So I finally got to talk to him and he said everything was alright and that he is not mad at me at all but sometimes I feel like I am going to act upon my emotion like this again and just keep pushing him away slowly.
So what is wrong with me? Am I bipolar or something? (family history... I dont know if that's genetic) Why do i freak out and just push off the one i love the most? How can I handle myself better? Because even the littlest thing sometimes really get to me and I start going off and stuff.
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Stress is a funny thing and it effects everyone differently. Plus you also have to remember the people that you love the most take the biggest beating from you, because you know that no matter what you say that they'll love you regardless. It sounds like you had a rough night already, so it was probably you just exploding on the nearest loved one. the wonderful thing about it is that it sounds like your b/f totally understands that. ( But maybe talking with the nearest GIRL bff might be a better idea, next time. At least my bff lets me just get everything out and i feel totally guilt free !) Your b/f understanding, has to be a huge relief for you. There is nothing wrong with you! It sounds like he understands that you aren't pushing him away, even though you feel like you are. When you are angry about something try and remember who you are angry at and why. So next time you are with your b/f and angry with your fam, remember who you are angry with. It takes a lot of practice and experience to master this skill. So don't get upset if you fail the first few times, k ? . It sounds like you have a loving, caring and wonderful guy. And who says that 16 year olds don't know what love is ? think about it ! i hear about a lot of people marrying thier HS sweetheart and they are celebrating their 50th wedding anniversaries. So don't underestimate your feelings.
Hope that this helps !
K
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This guy and i have liked eachother for like 9 months now. He is getting mad at me because i won't go out with him but i dont want to because of how he ahs treated his other gfs and he isnt treating me too well right now. Well I found out today he kind of likes this other girl and I am so upset! But then i am so sick of everything he is doing to me(like things like this) and it's like i don't even know if i like him. I almost don't want to. I still have feelings for him and I want him. What should I do? (link)
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I say that it is time to run and never look back. If he already kinda likes another girl. Yikes. Aren't you his g/f ? Oh girl i say run away and don't look back. There are plenty of other caring, great looking guys waiting for you ahead !
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Im 16/f my boyfriend of 7 months (17/m) have been fighting alot and we just cant seem to get along. (I'm his first girlfriend) He doesnt' really know how to handle situations where he gets stressed out about things. He just seems to tkae it out on me, and then when i get mad or do soemthing he doesn't like he just gets mad and we're constantly fighting. We took a break a couple months ago and that was just a disaster. But we finally got back together and we're just always fighting and not getting along. Its came to the part where he says why dont we just break up. But we're so in love we dont want stupid fights ruining our relationship. What do you suppose we do, any tips on how to get along better, and not fight so often? Thanks. Much appreciated (link)
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This is my take on it. It sounds like no matter what you do this relationship is a disaster. What brought you two together in the first place? Whatever that was try to remember that when you are arguing. If you are arguing about the same things all the time, maybe you could try to sit down and talk things out together without raising your voices. And if you do raise your voice then the conversation has to stop and you will have to talk about it at another time. If you keep having arguements and all there is is yelling, screaming etc, then no one gets anywhere and nothing gets solved. If you are his first g/f maybe he is just afraid and like you said unsure of how things go. If you have had relationships before, maybe you could help him. ? If none of this works, maybe it is just time to move on. You have plenty of boys ahead of you. You don't want to be in such an unhappy relationship so early in your life. I know that it seems like the world revolves around this right now, but one day you will have a whole new outlook, trust me. I hope that this has helped.
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So I've had this boyfriend for a year and a half and for the first year of being together I truly thought he was the one and I loved him so freaking much. After that things went downhill...we started to be sexually active....and started arguing about everything. I had the worst jealousy issues with him.... anyways about a month ago I met this guy who pretty much changed my life. We hungout for a few weeks and got close. I felt like i had more of a connection with him then my own boyfriend...because my boyfriend would barely ever open up to me no matter how much i tried. So I broke up with my boyfriend for many reasons and started hanging out with this new boy. 3 weeks after breaking up with my boyfriend I said yes to dating this new boy. We stupidly had sex one night and it totally freaked me out. I couldnt get my ex out of my head I knew i wasn't over him...so I told my new boyfriend that we couldnt be togetheruntil I figured things out. So later on that day I had my ex come over and I confessed to him about everything and he still wanted me back. So without thinking I took him back but I have alot of feelings for this other guy. I feel so lost right now. Being back with my boyfriend I still feel as if nothings changed between us....he still barely holds my hand. Now the guy thats treated me so good is depressed. UGHHHH. (link)
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It's sounds like it's time for the old list. You write a list of Pros ( good things that you love/like about each guy ) and a list of Cons ( things that you don't care for about each guy ) Whose list of Pros is longer ? Maybe Guy #1's list of Pros is shorter and the cons are things that you are willing to live with in your relationship. Or vice versa . It sounds like you might want to be with this new b/f, because he matches with you a little more emotionally. However having the sexual connection with both guys, it can be hard to choose. So i'd say try the list. No one can really tell you the answer here, it is your desicion alone. I hope that this idea has helped.
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my ex is always on my mind. I want to cry and hurt myself and i don't know what to do. he use to love me and always come back to me, but this time no. you see i broke up with him cuz i thought he was cheating again, but he wasn't so i took him back, two weeks later he broke up with me and tol me he found someone better. he hasnt called or anything. he threw away our 4 year relationship for another girl. well its been about 2 months and i have a bf, but i dont' want to be with him. but everyone wants me to and my mom keeps telling me that if i dump him for my ex that she will send me away. she is talking about me and him getting married when i turn 18 in 9 months, and i cant imagine anyone with me but my ex. i just want my ex back. how do i get him back. and keep my mom happy and my friends. (link)
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Ok everything will be ok. You can love whom ever you choose. But do you want to go back with someone that cheated on you . Trust is a very big part of relationship. If every second you're turning around to see if he is checking out that hot girl that just walked past, that will get old. Not to mention that you dumped him because you thought that he was cheating already. Do you want to have to always be on the lookout ? I don't think that you will. and as for this current b/f, if you don't care for him then maybe you should break-up. If you are turning 18 soon there is a whole world of boys out there waiting. Waiting to take you out ! You don't want to be with someone that will hurt you repeatedly. Trust me i wasted 6 years, my freshman year of HS through my early twenties, with a lying, cheater. Thank god i moved on, before i made my life more stressful ! I hope that this has helped you.
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um sorry if this is so frank, but what is fingering and what is a handjob? My boyfriend started taliking about that stuff but i have no idea what they are. also, are you still a virgin after fingering? and what is oral sex? sorry if im a little behind. (link)
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Ok when you have been fingered it isn't intercourse. It's just foreplay. So yes you are still a virgin, there has been no penis inside you.
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What are some good songs and books to help a girl cope with the ending of a very long relationship? (link)
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I'm not sure if this will help or not, but my fave author is Nicholas Sparks. he writes really romantic love stories. And the band Everclear has some really good songs about hate their signicant other and stuff like that. There is a song called " Hater " by them and he sings about the girl that he doesn't want to be with anymore. But it's easy to think about it with your own situation. I hope that this helps.
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Is there a website i can go to to see when new cd releases are comming out? (link)
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maybe the band's website, or amazon.com maybe
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ok so i want to know the name of this song i dont know what its called or who sings it i just know it says :and it breaks my hart, and it break my ha ha ha ha- and thats all i know it was on "Life of Ryan" yesteday i had hurd it before but i dont remeber plz thanx (link)
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Go to letssingit.com, on the top of the page there is a search engine, you can search by the lyrics.
Hope this helped.
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Can someone help me??
I need to know a name of a song...
It goes something like "I'll be there for you when you're gone. Something something your last words."
Any ideas??
They sound a bit like escape the fate or blink 182 or something.
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Go to this website < www.letssingit.com >
There is a search engine at the top of the home page and you can search by lyrics. hope that this helps.
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does not staring your period always mean your pregnat (link)
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Have you had your period before now ? If so are you sexually active? After answering these questions, if yes to both, there is a possibility. However if you haven't ever had your period and are sexually active, again it's possible. But, i didn't start my period till i was 17, and i only have it twice a year, usually. So it could just be that you are irregular. the only way to tell is the test, if you are that worried about it. Hope i helped.
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can you give a blow job with braces? i have two small hooks on the inner side of my teeth and my boyfriend wants a blow job but i don't want to hurt him. do you think i can still give him one? (link)
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Yes! Just be aware of where the hooks are and use your lips, everything should be fine. Go slow if you are scared that you might hurt him. It's pleasure for him and a learning experience for you. Everyone wins
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how do you separate like colours? does it have to be just one type of colour? or like tones or colours? so dark and light or exactly red like colours, and blue light colours? i have no idea! (link)
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this is how i separate our laundry.
Lights ( white and gray )
Colors ( blue, pink, green etc. )
Jeans
Darks ( navy blue, dark green, etc. )
Towels
Hope that this helped
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16/f senior in high school
What's the best way to get a guy to ask you to homecoming? (link)
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Discuss homecoming with your friends in front of him. Talk about dresses and shoes and the like. Ask him if he has a date and say that you don't yet, but you are hopeful. Stuff like that. If he likes you he'll get the message.
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Hey!
Im f/17 soon to be 18!
My question is do you think that and 17/18 year old should be datting a 22 year old... like im finishing gr12.. and he's finishing University...
Is that a really big age diffrence to you?
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The age difference matters now, but not when you are older. It's strange really. My Husband and i are 7 years different. I would wait to date him till you are 18 in case something were to happen and your parents got involved. You then wouldn't have a voice since you are 17. If he likes you and you like him, he'll be there when you are 18. Not that you can't talk with him and stuff. Hope this helps
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okay well i like this guy in my art class and he rides my bus. well i'm really into him and i would really like to get to know him but here is the thing: i have trouble talking to him first. insecurity i guess i don't know but i need to know if ther is anyway i could get him to talk to me because we have opposite friends and opposite lives except for art and the fact we live near each other. is ther anyway i can get him to talk first.....please help. (link)
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Okay < walk by him in the hall at school, smile, drop something in front of him. Say hi, wear something super cute, giggle and smile at him as you walk by with your friends! Sit near him on the bus. Ask him a question about homework. Don't be afraid to talk to him. He is probably as afraid of you as you are of him. Sometimes we girls have to be the man. lol
I hope that this helps .
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I've liked this guy since like last year and over the summer I thought I'd get over him but I didnt.
Now that school is back its even worse than ever.
I've fallen SO hard for him and I dont know what to do. When hes behind me in line, or when he looks at me, or if hes in close proximity I start to shake, my words dont make sense and I feel my face go red and my heart beats super fast.
I want to talk to him. I want to make a move. A subtle one like wink at him or smile at him. But I can never get his eye contact! I KNOW he looks at me but when I look hes not looking and when he looks im not looking. Haha
My friends say he looks at me - a lot. And I wouldn't doubt it. SO many times i've caught him and today was just one of those days. I'd sit in class and I looked up and his head quickly turn away. Afterschool he watched me walk away (according to my friend) just little things like that...
He's done a lot of other subtle things last year but I dont feel like typing it all out.
I dont know what to do with myself.
I HATE feeling like this, but I can't bring myself to do something about it.
I want to tell him/give him a hint. But my body wont let me!!!
Any advice?
He's kinda shy and quiet so its not like he'll be blunt and ask me out or anything.
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Then writing a note maybe your answer. Writing a note and handing it off in the hallway to him is fun, cute and it sounds like he does like you, so he'll probably be relieved that you are talking to him. If you wrote a note to him then you could get out everything that you want without getting all flustered. If a note isn't the answer then you have to do something to get him to notice you. Drop something in front of him, wear a super cute outfit, smile, giggle as you and your friends walk by and then smile at him. Give him a compliment, something, anything to open a conversation with him. Then you can slowly talk more and more. Hope this helps
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