Question Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 4:45 pm
This guy and i have liked eachother for like 9 months now. He is getting mad at me because i won't go out with him but i dont want to because of how he ahs treated his other gfs and he isnt treating me too well right now. Well I found out today he kind of likes this other girl and I am so upset! But then i am so sick of everything he is doing to me(like things like this) and it's like i don't even know if i like him. I almost don't want to. I still have feelings for him and I want him. What should I do?
summer_is_love258963 answered Saturday September 22 2007, 5:07 pm: wow. well it sounds like hes walking all over you, and its probally because your letting him. if shes treating you badly like you said he is, is it really worth going through all of this for him? he doesnt sound like hes even close to worth it.
and the fact that he likes another girl, well it does suckk but you guys really have no commitment it sounds like, so he has the right to do WHATEVER he wants with WHOEVER he wants. i know this is hard to hear, but it is true.
my advice to you, is to let the guy go. you said you "almost dont want to like him" then why like him? if hes not treating you right, he doesnt deserve you. i really hope this helped, i know its probally not what you wanted to hearr.
p.s. ive been in this situation a few too many times so if you have ANY other questions to ask about this, i can deff. help.
hahamber16 answered Saturday September 22 2007, 11:45 am: face it.. every girl loves being liked, even if it is by the creepy guy in the back of your math class (well, maybe not to that extreme). Its nice knowing that somebody thinks about you and takes time out to notice you. Sounds to me like you are upset because you expect him to wait for you forever, and things arent like that. Guys are human and if we cant get what we want, we find an alternative. Dont base anything off of how he treats his other girlfriends though because your not like his other girlfriends, your you. Give him a chance, if your getting jealous over this then there is some feelings there. You'll probably end up regretting it if you dont give him a chance. Who knows.. he could be the one! Whats the worst that can happen? You find out he is a dick? Move on then, im sure your young and there will be plenty boys that will be in and out of your life. Hope i helped.. :) [ hahamber16's advice column | Ask hahamber16 A Question ]
thelaura answered Saturday September 22 2007, 9:11 am: This is quite confusing.
I assume you're jealous because he likes someone else. If you wouldn't go out with him, it's only fair for him to move on. Now it's like you're holding him back. Why? - because you actually do like him but can't admit it freely because he isn't treating you too well and because of his past.
My personal opinion;
Long story short, you like him, I take it he still likes you, so why don't you give it a try?
You can explain to him you want to see how it goes. If you see no change in him, then fair enough. Move on because there's no point liking someone when they aren't good to you.
Whatever you do, I hope you choose what will make you happy. Good luck. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
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