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Head over Heals.
I've liked this guy since like last year and over the summer I thought I'd get over him but I didnt.
Now that school is back its even worse than ever.
I've fallen SO hard for him and I dont know what to do. When hes behind me in line, or when he looks at me, or if hes in close proximity I start to shake, my words dont make sense and I feel my face go red and my heart beats super fast.
I want to talk to him. I want to make a move. A subtle one like wink at him or smile at him. But I can never get his eye contact! I KNOW he looks at me but when I look hes not looking and when he looks im not looking. Haha
My friends say he looks at me - a lot. And I wouldn't doubt it. SO many times i've caught him and today was just one of those days. I'd sit in class and I looked up and his head quickly turn away. Afterschool he watched me walk away (according to my friend) just little things like that...
He's done a lot of other subtle things last year but I dont feel like typing it all out.
I dont know what to do with myself.
I HATE feeling like this, but I can't bring myself to do something about it.
I want to tell him/give him a hint. But my body wont let me!!!
Any advice?
He's kinda shy and quiet so its not like he'll be blunt and ask me out or anything.
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Then writing a note maybe your answer. Writing a note and handing it off in the hallway to him is fun, cute and it sounds like he does like you, so he'll probably be relieved that you are talking to him. If you wrote a note to him then you could get out everything that you want without getting all flustered. If a note isn't the answer then you have to do something to get him to notice you. Drop something in front of him, wear a super cute outfit, smile, giggle as you and your friends walk by and then smile at him. Give him a compliment, something, anything to open a conversation with him. Then you can slowly talk more and more. Hope this helps
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Before you get into the flirt stuff, I think you should just try having a regular conversation. Talk about anything: school, friends, sports, homework..
Ask him questions about what he knows best...HIMSELF. Start to break the ice a little, and be a little more flirtatious each time.
Then, in a few months or so, tell him how you feel. You don't have to worry about him not liking you, because it really sounds like he does. Just give him a note saying something like this:
_____(his name)-
I didn't know how to tell you in person, but I need you to know that i have feelings for you (OR i really like you, as more than a friend).
You can even tell him in person. Good luck, and if you need any more help, don't hesitate to ask.
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If you have tried to talk to him and can't get the words out clearly and end up embarressing yourself or something, maybe have a friend tell him that you like him but your too shy to tell him yourself. If you don't want to do that, you could instant message him, call him over the phone, text him, write a letter...whatever there is just so many different ways you could approach this. Another think you might wanna do is confront him and tell him how you feel, if you stumble on words you could have a friend say it for you or something. Im sure they would be more than happy to do this. The only way you can get rid of love, is if you date that person and get to know what they are really like.
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