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on the rocks
Im 16/f my boyfriend of 7 months (17/m) have been fighting alot and we just cant seem to get along. (I'm his first girlfriend) He doesnt' really know how to handle situations where he gets stressed out about things. He just seems to tkae it out on me, and then when i get mad or do soemthing he doesn't like he just gets mad and we're constantly fighting. We took a break a couple months ago and that was just a disaster. But we finally got back together and we're just always fighting and not getting along. Its came to the part where he says why dont we just break up. But we're so in love we dont want stupid fights ruining our relationship. What do you suppose we do, any tips on how to get along better, and not fight so often? Thanks. Much appreciated
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This is my take on it. It sounds like no matter what you do this relationship is a disaster. What brought you two together in the first place? Whatever that was try to remember that when you are arguing. If you are arguing about the same things all the time, maybe you could try to sit down and talk things out together without raising your voices. And if you do raise your voice then the conversation has to stop and you will have to talk about it at another time. If you keep having arguements and all there is is yelling, screaming etc, then no one gets anywhere and nothing gets solved. If you are his first g/f maybe he is just afraid and like you said unsure of how things go. If you have had relationships before, maybe you could help him. ? If none of this works, maybe it is just time to move on. You have plenty of boys ahead of you. You don't want to be in such an unhappy relationship so early in your life. I know that it seems like the world revolves around this right now, but one day you will have a whole new outlook, trust me. I hope that this has helped.
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I think its times like this when you all have to think outside of the box and get a little creative but yet keep it simple. Here are some ideas
-Go to the same place that you all had your first date at
-Reminisce on fun times by making a scrap book
-Cook him his favorite meal and/or dessert
-Write him a poem/song
-Do something you'll have never done together such as rock climbing or anything spontaneous
But the most important thing is to talk it through. You two are in love and in many situations love can overcome many/all obstacles
-Play a game where you guys tell each other atleast 4 things that you love most about each other and atleast 2 things you'll can work on. This way you two can try to understand how the other views you.
-I hope you two can work things out. Love is the most incredible thing and very few people have the privilege to ever experience it. So this means that there had to be something extremely special & lucky about you'll. :)
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