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Everything is so confusing.
So I've had this boyfriend for a year and a half and for the first year of being together I truly thought he was the one and I loved him so freaking much. After that things went downhill...we started to be sexually active....and started arguing about everything. I had the worst jealousy issues with him.... anyways about a month ago I met this guy who pretty much changed my life. We hungout for a few weeks and got close. I felt like i had more of a connection with him then my own boyfriend...because my boyfriend would barely ever open up to me no matter how much i tried. So I broke up with my boyfriend for many reasons and started hanging out with this new boy. 3 weeks after breaking up with my boyfriend I said yes to dating this new boy. We stupidly had sex one night and it totally freaked me out. I couldnt get my ex out of my head I knew i wasn't over him...so I told my new boyfriend that we couldnt be togetheruntil I figured things out. So later on that day I had my ex come over and I confessed to him about everything and he still wanted me back. So without thinking I took him back but I have alot of feelings for this other guy. I feel so lost right now. Being back with my boyfriend I still feel as if nothings changed between us....he still barely holds my hand. Now the guy thats treated me so good is depressed. UGHHHH.
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It's sounds like it's time for the old list. You write a list of Pros ( good things that you love/like about each guy ) and a list of Cons ( things that you don't care for about each guy ) Whose list of Pros is longer ? Maybe Guy #1's list of Pros is shorter and the cons are things that you are willing to live with in your relationship. Or vice versa . It sounds like you might want to be with this new b/f, because he matches with you a little more emotionally. However having the sexual connection with both guys, it can be hard to choose. So i'd say try the list. No one can really tell you the answer here, it is your desicion alone. I hope that this idea has helped.
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