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still love him
my ex is always on my mind. I want to cry and hurt myself and i don't know what to do. he use to love me and always come back to me, but this time no. you see i broke up with him cuz i thought he was cheating again, but he wasn't so i took him back, two weeks later he broke up with me and tol me he found someone better. he hasnt called or anything. he threw away our 4 year relationship for another girl. well its been about 2 months and i have a bf, but i dont' want to be with him. but everyone wants me to and my mom keeps telling me that if i dump him for my ex that she will send me away. she is talking about me and him getting married when i turn 18 in 9 months, and i cant imagine anyone with me but my ex. i just want my ex back. how do i get him back. and keep my mom happy and my friends.
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Ok everything will be ok. You can love whom ever you choose. But do you want to go back with someone that cheated on you . Trust is a very big part of relationship. If every second you're turning around to see if he is checking out that hot girl that just walked past, that will get old. Not to mention that you dumped him because you thought that he was cheating already. Do you want to have to always be on the lookout ? I don't think that you will. and as for this current b/f, if you don't care for him then maybe you should break-up. If you are turning 18 soon there is a whole world of boys out there waiting. Waiting to take you out ! You don't want to be with someone that will hurt you repeatedly. Trust me i wasted 6 years, my freshman year of HS through my early twenties, with a lying, cheater. Thank god i moved on, before i made my life more stressful ! I hope that this has helped you.
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well your mom cant decide who you love and who you dont, so as for her maybe just sit and talk with her and try to get her to understand what your going through and maybe that you think the guy your dating is a great guy just not the guy for you. And as for your ex, im gonna tell you straight up. dont hurt yourself-its not worth it. if he has told you that he has found someone better than you, he isnt worth it. He has made up his mind, im sorry to say. So just act confident, and here's a tip guys love things they cant have. But just dont let anyone choose your decisions for you, they are living their own life and when it is their chance to go through something like this then they can start making decisions- for themselves...
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