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Hi, im dating my ex again. We dated for about 7 months last time. And well, towards the end of our last relationship it was almost like we werent compatiable, fighting about stuff that was just dumb. And this time, its basically the same stuff. I wanted to be with him so much, but i think the dream of it is better than reality. He gets mad if i hang out with other guys, and most of my friends are guys. And i just dont know what to do, i tried to get it through his head that this is going to ruin us, but he just doesnt know what to do, and im the same way.
Help?
THanks
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Hun, I'm going thru the exact same thing with my boyfriend. We haven't split up yet, and we've been dating for a year and about 3 months. We sit there and fight about everything stupid, and he hates me talking to guys. I know it sucks so badly.
What I'm thinking about doing it taking a break from him. Leting him see how much it hurts me that we fight so much, and see how things need to improve or we're gonna be done. You need to talk to him and explain more that things aren't working out and your sick of you. Tell him you love him, and you wanna be with him, but thins have to change.
I'm not sure if this will work for you, or me but I'll give it a shot, and hope you do too. ;)
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You crossed the line you don't like my advice well it's just too bad,you don't want him to see others but you're the same you're a psycho who gets you the one that is going to ruin the relationship is you little dumb girl.Go to hell!
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both of you need to learn how to trust one another because with out it there is no relationship.
if he doesn't like that you hang out with other guys tell him to hang out with you and these friends of yours you never know he may change his mine if he sees that your guy friends are not in to you like that
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First you should talk to him about it, tell him that if the fighting carries on its going to ruin the relationship and talk to him about getting cross at when you hang out with guys, see if you can work passed it but talking to each other and coming up with some sort of solution.
If that doesn't work, and you both still picks fights for smalls things, it could simply mean that you have outgrown each other and its time to end the relationship. As you said it could be the fact that the dream of being with him is much better than the reality.
Best of luck!
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This sounds EXACTLY like my relationship I just ended two days ago. He and I also dated for seven months and it ended with jealousy and fighting. Anyways, I'll tell you this that I hope you'll always remember:
Things Will Never Be the Same the Second Time Around.
I'm sorry to tell you this, but most of the time girl's don't actually miss the boy, they miss the way things with the boy used to be. I've noticed this with several friends. I also noticed this with my best friend and her on again/ off again boyfriend. Eventually, she had to break up with him for good to simply move on a be happy. I'm afraid thats what you'll probably have to do unless you two can handle this relationship like adults and put forth your best efforts. Other then that, maybe call it quits if nothing changes in the next few weeks. Try spending times doing something new, with old friends, or joining a club. I promise you it will be hard, but one day you'll realize he was just a chapter of your life. Best of luck to you and your heart.
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