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I have this school dance coming up next month. My best friends ex-boyfriend likes me and I like him. I told my best friend that I couldn't do that to her by dating him. She told me I don't care about him anymore. I started to say okay when I had just remembered that a little while ago in fifth period everyone was talking about how weird it was that she had asked him if they could get back together.I thought how long ago that was and then said okay. My first question is should I believe her when she says she doesn't like him anymore? Then at lunch he asked who I was going to the dance with I said no one and asked why he asked he said just was wondering.Second question if he is afraid to ask me to the dance,what should I say in order to dawn to the question want to go to the dance with me so he might just ask me. (link)
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just ask your friend to tell you the truth
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Hi, im dating my ex again. We dated for about 7 months last time. And well, towards the end of our last relationship it was almost like we werent compatiable, fighting about stuff that was just dumb. And this time, its basically the same stuff. I wanted to be with him so much, but i think the dream of it is better than reality. He gets mad if i hang out with other guys, and most of my friends are guys. And i just dont know what to do, i tried to get it through his head that this is going to ruin us, but he just doesnt know what to do, and im the same way.
Help?
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both of you need to learn how to trust one another because with out it there is no relationship.
if he doesn't like that you hang out with other guys tell him to hang out with you and these friends of yours you never know he may change his mine if he sees that your guy friends are not in to you like that
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okay so im 14 and most of my friends hav gotten fingered, eaten out, gave hjs and bjs, but ive only made out... like its just not my style. i only like to really makeout if i like the person.i just dont know when im ready to give a hj or bjor anything related to that. any advice/opinions would be great :] (link)
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I wish that i would have waited when i was your age.
Its ture that your friends may not be telling you the truth they just say things like this so that others will think wow that so cool that your already doing it but in the real world people are looking at you like your a slut.
i think that it is great that you are just not ready for some thing like that and when you are you'll know and hopefully its with some one you really care about and it will be worth the wait.
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Ok first if my boyfriend told me he just wants a break right and if someone asks me do i havea boyfriend do i still say yes ?
Well my boyfriend is Muslim and his fasting and me and him had a little argument his friend kept flirting with me and i was just being an honestr gf and told him anyways yesterday he told me he wants a break until he finnishes fasting that in like 20 days and he said he'll let me know if he still wants to be with me do you think he'll dump me ? (link)
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I don't think that it is fair that you have to sit and wait for him.
i think that if he wants to break up, you have the right to go out with whom ever you want just like him saying " i'll let you know if i want to get back together" you can say the same.
its not only up to hiim, but you as well
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ok so im white, and i HATE IT! but in the summer time i can tan so i dont mind it so its okay, but now that its almost winter time im getting really white again and its annoying as hell! and halloween is coming up and well all my friends and i are dressing slutty and it shows my legs and well my legs are really white and stuff and my my friends are all pretty tan so anyways my question is what is a good way to look semi tan with out going to like a tanning bed because like if i went to a tanning bed you could TOTTALY tell i went and that would be tottaly embarressing because one day i would be pale and then the next day i would be tan and i dont want indoor tanning stuff unless it like ACTUALLY WORKS! and PLEASE PLEASE PLEASEE let it work because i had the worst experience with indoor tanning stuff, please help me i hate being white, it makes my self confidence go down so much! and i dont know what to do to make my self look tan! and there is so sun in the winter! (link)
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i heard of some cream that helps to get tanned with out haveing to go to one of those tanning places i'll find out the name and let you know
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hello,
iam 26years female from INDIA, this is my first month of pregnency conformation.can you advise me whether my husband and me can have sex? (link)
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yes you can have sex during your pergnency i heard that some doctors recomend it
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my friends boyfriend wants to eat her out... but shes embarressed cause she thinks she'll taste bad or smell or something.. and i don't know what to tell her. Advice please? (link)
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all she has to do is make sure that she is cleaned before he does iti mean really clean and she'll be fine and he'll like doing it to her more and shei'll like it to
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I need answer ASAP!
Ok so this can get kinda confusing.
My BFF went out with a guy "Mark", and then he broke up with her last year but she has never stopped liking him. And Mark is also my ex's best friend. I didn't think Mark and I would still be friends because, of my ex, but today I ate lunch with him and some of my firends and I had a balst with him, and we were both kind of flirting with each other. I like him but I don't know if I should or not cause of that whole "girl code" thing. What do I do??? (link)
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oh I know the code a friend should never date another friends ex boyfriend no matter what.
we both know that in the guy world its every man for him self but in girl world you can't brake that code.
but see some times you can't help who you like, find out how much your friend still likes this guy then go from there.
if she really is a true friend she won't really mind she would just like to see you happy and when you do talk to her tell her you want to her to know because she is your friend and your doing it out of respect but if you know that she still cares for him so much and there is still hope for her you know you must back off.
but think hard and remember guys come and go but friends will always be there
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18/m
okay well about 7 months ago i got out of a 8 month relationship and with that girl i found myself always trying to pick a fight just so i could be mad and angry with her
and i hated it but i figured it was just because our personalitys clashed or something because it seemed like she did the same thing sometimes (that wasent what ended our relatinship tho)
oh and i never loved her only liked
but now i have a girlfriend that i absolutly love more than anything and i have been with her for about 5 months but i have been good friends with her for a cpl years
but anyways im finding myself starting to do the same thing i did with my ex. where im starting a fight for no reason
and im hating this so much because i dont want to hurt my girlfriend.
is there something wrong with me?
is this normal?
please help!!!
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talk to her about it maybe the both of you can get thru this.
one away to show her that you care and that you don't mean to be that way is that you tell her you want her to help you and be by your side.
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This is pretty long.
First time asking a question here.
I’m 16/f
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 1 year and 3 months. He’s my first boyfriend. We started dating towards the end of 8th grade and we’re are now in the beginning of sophomore year in high school. Towards the beginning of our relationship he was the one who would always want to hang out and he always said really nice things like “you look beautiful”. And then a little later he would tell me he loved me a lot. I always said it back and I meant it. Then towards the middle of our relationship I was the one who always wanted to hang out and he always had plans with his friends who I used to be good friends with and liked at the time. Well back in middle school I didn’t have many friends that were girls and I was only friends with him and his friends. But then in freshman year I made friends that were girls and I am well aware that I became a little less laid back. But he also seemed a lot different to. His friends became jerks to me and he wouldn’t stand up for me. I wasn’t able to joke around with him anymore he took it all to seriously. He doesn‘t seem to care about anything anymore. Grades, holidays, rules, my interests, and all that kind of stuff. We used to talk online for hours. He is never online anymore. He used to call to hang out all the time. But I found myself being the one to call all the time. I could never see him being one to cheat. But I was always still paranoid. He doesn’t really get along with other girls. I still have a lot of guy friends and he never had a problem with it because he was sort of friends with them. I never hung out with them outside of school. So up to date now, he rarely ever says I’m beautiful anymore or say any of the other nice things that he used to. Unless he’s trying to get me to do something to him. Which I have never agreed to. I just don’t feel ready. Well, actually I don’t find myself wanting to. I don’t find myself as attracted to him as I was before. We don’t seem to have as much in common anymore. During the summer there were a few times where he wouldn’t call me for a whole week or even see me. I would call him but he doesn’t have a cell phone and he was never at his home. He started hanging out with his band a lot. Lately I found myself not being jealous or really being motivated to hang out. We don’t have the same sense of humor anymore. My friends are really fun and outgoing. And I find myself being more like them. Today we had to sit in the auditorium for an assembly. One of my friends that was a male was joking around with him and he got pissed. He has never accepted the fact that I think some of his friends are jerks. He usually doesn’t associate with my friends but today he was talking mean about my friend that was joking around with him and I didn’t think it was fair that I’m not aloud to say anything bad about his friends but it’s alright for him. There are a lot of things like that. Where it’s okay for him to do something in his eyes but then he gets pissed when I do it. When ever we have an argument I’m never aloud to be the mad one. He always makes it about himself. If we’re hanging out and he does or says something that upsets me (which has been happening a lot recently) I just kind of move away from him and just sit there. I would just like for once to not be the one who talks first or apologizes first. He always turns it into some sort of game to see who talks first. It’s always me. If I get angry he makes it about himself and then gets mad at me. Sometimes he curses at me in argument. I told him I don’t like that. I don’t have a problem with cursing at all. But when it’s directed towards me from him in an angry tone. It’s kind of scary. He’s only made me cry once. Well only once in front of him. But he’s made me cry before like after a phone conversation or something. It takes a lot to make me cry. He doesn’t listen to my problems and whenever he does his answers are always to just yell at the person I have a problem with. I don’t think that’s always the best way to handle things. I’ve found my taste in music getting less picky. He loves metal/grunge. I like it too and I grew up with it. But I also like other things and for some reason I can’t even talk to him about that because I know how he acts about that. He will just sit there and tell me how much he hates that band and make me feel stupid for even having the slightest bit of interest in that band. I’ve told him all of this stuff and he doesn’t have much of a response he just makes it about himself. So this is getting pretty long. I guess I'm just venting but I just thought I’d let you know where I’m coming from. I’m not really sure what I’m asking here. But the thought of breaking up has been racing through my mind a lot recently. But the thing is, I can’t imagine being the one to do that. He’s my first boyfriend, I love his family, and I don’t know how he would react at all. Once bringing that up in conversation to your boyfriend I can’t imagine it ever going back to normal. Also we have lunch together and sometimes he doesn’t sit with me which is okay, he has friends too, but I can’t imagine how awkward that would be. We also have art class together. I know those would be horrible reasons not to break up if I’m unhappy. It’s just something that’s been on my mind. My best friend and her boyfriend have been going through a lot trouble in their 2 year relationship and I think that, that might have gotten me thinking about my own relationship. Can anyone tell me what you think and if you have any idea something I could say to him about any of this.
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I think that you should talk to this guy if he doesn't see how things are really going then i think its time that you find some one that really wants to be with you and that actually likes you for you that doesn't mistreats you because i know how thats. try bring with your boyfriend for 6 years and him cheating on you and not wanting you to hang out with you own friends nor his. because that is were things will go. him trying to control your every move who you can talk to, where you can go and even what you can wear.
girl you don't want that trust. well i hope that you do what is right for you remember don't let no man take you down.
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I have a real problem with my hair, i have to wash it EVERYDAY, even if i wash it and dry it before bed the next morning it'll look greasy and feel gross. Any tips so i dont have to wash it everyday because that means i ahve to wake up way earlier for school. THanks!! (link)
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change your shampoo but look at the lable it should tell you for oily hair
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this is going to be long, but i have to tell the whole story.
last november my grandma died. i had a hard time dealing with it. i lived with her for over a year, we slept in the same bed at night. because, we have little money, and lived in a trailor ith my whole family. i had no, no ,no room of my own. my brothers (i have 3) had to sleep, one in the other bedroom, theres only 2 bedrooms. and my other two brothers sleep on the floor in the bedroom with my brother. after my grandma died i went depressed. and i have had a boyfriend for three years then. he was there for me, and always. he was my everything and i never felt so inlove. well, i started hanging with this girl named amanda that everyone loves at school. we were seniors and she wanted to go to a frat party. i wanted to feel drunk for once in my life. i wanted to have fun. and i think i just wanted to fill the empty space that was there when my grandma died. i started just talking to amandas ex then. trying to get them back together. that was bad. this guy, (brnadon is his name) fell for me. and my boyfriend jon, knew i was talking to him and didnt care, he knew it wasnt anything to worry about. but, then i kind of fell for brandon. i think it was mostly lust. i wanted to have sexx with him. and sex with jon was great. what was wrong with me? I loved jon. he never did me wrong? I went to brandons house a few times. like the 4th time we had sex. and this went on for awhile. we didnt have sex until after i told jon i wanted a break though. so i didnt cheat. but, on my break with jon, i went to that frat party that amanda wanted me to go to, this was new years night by the way, and amanda had no idea i had sex with brandon. or that e and i had been talking since late november. its january by then. and she found out new years night, drunk with me. i lied. i thought i had to. ive never made a bigger mistake, ever, im not usually like this. and she ofcourse, stopped talking to me. rumors went on at school, saying horrbile things. most untrue. it was my fault. and sex with brandon tho, was never better. THE best i had. anyhow, amanda gave jon a favor, not sex. something else. and she was trying to hurt me back. poor jon, i hurt him and he did that with her, to hurt me. look what i did.! uhh. end of feruary came, i stopped being DUMB and jon and i got back together. happyily. after my freakout. i never talked to brandon when me and jon got back together. until last week. yes i thought of him sometimes, but duh. i was with him for 2 months. and now, hes been sending me messages on myspace, and i ,i i like to talk to him. why??? im happy with jon, i am. my advice is, can you tell me why, why im selfish, and pathetic. i know, i made huge mistakes. and i still want to talk to brndon why? the day before me and jon got back together, i told brandon i couldnt do it anymore and i was going back with jon. but me and brandon never had the title of girl/boy/friends. just that we were dating/having sex. and uhh. i hurt him too. then him and amanda got more complicated. look what i did /. im going to hell for sining. and i pray everynight, regretting it. yet, i want to talk to brandon now? why? am i dumb, how much attention do i think i need, really. ugh. HELP. (link)
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things like this i know what you mean, i have been through this and it went on for two years.
but see at the end i was the one that called it quits with both not because i cared about them both because i did i loved on and had fun with the other. i to was confused with all of this, but i started to think about what i was doing and in my thoughts i realized that i was not in love with my boyfriend after all and i could never see myself with a person that was still in love with my best friend and that went to other girls for sex.
what i did was i thought not only what would be best for me but for them also what would happen if i kept on.
if you think that you can go on like this then hey more power to guys do it to girls all the time but if you have a heart and it sounds like you do then you'll know what to do.
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I was wondering how to get to second base with a girl. I mean does she have to like tell you to start touching her boobs or just like lead you into or does the guy just have to go for it and hop that it was the right time? (link)
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going to second base, the guy usally makes the first move and it usally starts at her boobs just so that you won't make it seem that you are going for her pants.
sometimes a girl will tell you "you can grab them if you want to" or she willjust puts your hand there but that won't always happen
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