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Q: can i answere my own questions?????

Lets find out.. well you can find out.. your probably can.. by why would you want to do that?-trix

Q: I am so cool.. sometimes I walk down the street and people back down and are all like WOAH!!! YOUR SO COOL... and then i feel like a pimp.. im like WOW!!! give me advice on how to make people faint when i walk down the street

HAHAHA!! THATS FUNNY!! "CHRIS" wow!! well you are dead sexxy im sure people would already faint and if they dont im really surprised people dont faint already. Well maybe you could spice up your look up a bit more and smell mighty good!! haha good luck on making people faint!! Go and brush your shoulders off boy!-trix

Q: sry sent the poem twice by an accident

Its ok its happans and i rejected the 2nd time anyways.. but your poem was pretty awesome i have to say-trix

Q: ok i am in love im sure of it i can imagine getting married to this kid and stuff. but he completely screwed me over. we were going out for a month... i gave up everything for him too like my friends, family, the first guy to give a shit about me, and even skool a little... and then he moved in w/ a friend to go to this skool that would give him a chance. i was happy for him and he made me feel confident that things wouldnt change to much. but well... they did.. a lot. i proly talked to him 2 in 3 months after he moved and i heard all this shit about him cheating right... well i finally gave up and stuff. but i still cant stop wondering about him and the one time i saw him he was at the mall w/ his arms wrapped around another girl and he like ran from me (proly afraid id kick his ass) anyways... i still love him! i kno we could never be together now and that he is a total ass for abandoning me... but i cant help it!!

Plain and simple.. hes a jerk forget him-trix

Q: i had no idea what category to put this under, but im at a sleepover right now and we're bored. it's like 11 pm so we can't go outside.. do you have anything that we can do with just 2 ppl and still have fun.. also her parents are asleep so we can't make too much noise..

if anyone has any ideas please get back to me right away!!!

Do you guys have alot of pictures of you guys and your friends? you guys could make a scrap book of pictures and put your favorites and quotes and a lil info about yourselves and cuz i love showing mine to my friends all the time.. and they really like it too its fun to look at. Maybe you could go to funnyjunk.com funnygreetings.com bored.com and ect. good luck!! and rate me please-trix

Q: Do you guys notice that ppl are writting poems?? What's up with that? It's not like the poems are bad or anything, but THIS IS AN ADVICE PAGE!!!! NOT A POEM PAGE!!! Besides, not many ppl needs advice anymore....

I notice im sure alot of people notice but alot of people want idea's on how bad or good there poems are.. like me for a example i did and i wrote one and i got all good feedback on it.. and if they arent many questions then what does it matter.. sorry if i come off mean but its the truth and people really are aloud to put whatever they want on it. and what if they were giving the poem to someone? what if they needed advice on what to put in it? and how to redo it and what line to? good point huh? i think so -trix

Q: hey ok im 14 and um female... n e ways... my best friend and i have been friends since 1st grade and we have litterally been thro EVERYTHING together. im the type of person who will give u room to grow and branch out but be there for u when u decide to come back. and thats kinda how its been w/ me and her. no big right... well i am also very well known for my apt ability to give advice and stuff. i have helped my friend out of nearly every problem shes ever had and i have no problem w/ this but she freaks out and suspects things of me if i dont have the perfect advice right away. like if im dealing w/ something else and i come back to her she freaks or if i am shocked and momentarily dont know what to say she thinks i dont care... what do i do?!

Tell her you are at a loss for words and you are at a loss for words and dont know what to do just like she doesnt know what to do. or you could come to any advienator ask our opinion and feed it back to her. -trix

Q: i dont know what is wrong with me i can literally jsut finish a meal, and want to eat again.. i have been diagpnised with mild depression does that have anything to do with this? Please help me i think i am geting really... fat.. i weigh 135 pounds and i just hate how i look..

please lend me some friendly advice..

~*~cj~*~

Get help talk to your mom or dad or some close family member or a family friend or someone and maybe you can get pills to help you with your depression. You could also do the South beach diet my aunt and mom did that and lost alot in weeks!! good luck CJ!! -trix

Q: hi again. ok. i have this friend and she is soo nuce and i love her to death but, weve grown in different directions. Shes become like a major punk and tells me all this stuff i dont want to hear. She wants me to do all sorts of stuff with her and i want to its just hard to decide what to do because shes not all that great of an influence. what should i do??

Tell her how you feel and show her ppl who are headed in the wrong direction .. the same as she is and ask her what she thinks of it. and ask her what she plans on doing further down the road so just pretty much just sit down and talk to her.-trix

Q: I'm in the 5th grade and going to be in 6th next year and I like someone whp is going to be in 1st uh help

Isnt that kind .. young.. i mean 1st and 2nd graders are more of the cute type they should just be lil buddies not a boyfriend they all thing us girls have cooties at that age anyways.. are ya sure you like him? and are you sure he is going into 1st grade? and are you sure you ment 1st grade? Anyhoot you should find someone more around your age to like rather then someone who is like 5 grades behind you. He still probably plays with cars and you are now going to start getting into makeup and more gurlie things. thats like... rape-trix

Q: this is a poem I wrote and i wanted to get feed back from peopel i dont know please tell me wat you trully think about it and you may not use it unless you give Ruperts_gurl credit thanx :

Sucked you up
I sucked you up
into a world of heart ache and pain
i told you what you wanted to hear
things i took for granted
I fooled you and myself
into believing i was good
good and caring enough
for a healthy relationship
you believed i cared
and i did until
i realized that i corrupted you
i sucked you up
into my drama queen world
i brought you into the prison of my life
i watch your beautiful tears
stream down your face
as i walk away forever
i love you
but i am spitting you out
so i dont hurt you any more

Hmm its interesting sounds to me and i get the idea from the poem as if you are hurting someone and walking away for good , officially but good job-trix

Q: i just got into a fight with my best friend and i know i am wrong but write at the same time and then my best friend told me our other friend said goodbye forever meaning killed herself and i just dont know how to deal with any of this i know my best friend will read this becuase she is a collumnist on here but can anyone help me please?
~*~ Rachael ~*~

Did you friend kill herself? cuz right now seems like a good time for you and your best friend to go take a visit with your other friend until its to late. And if you best friend does read this then o'well she knows how you feel. i hope everything works out well if you friend happans to live very far away then i would call her and see whats up and i would tell someone asap and get it taken care of-trix

Q: Perhaps I'm just the stupidest person in the world, but I have this difficulty in making cookies.Normally it's that I add too much of one ingridient, or too little of another, or that I set the oven to the wrong time. My whole family is mad, because we were having a party, and Mom told me to make cookies, except they were quite horrible, and one guest threw-up. Is there anything I can do to fix this problematic situation!

Make sure you follow the directions very very carefully and if you notice a mistake that you are about to make take it to mind and remember it for next time or you could cook with a friend and have her watch you and see what goes wrong or you could just cook with a friend.-trix

Q: I'm 16 years old and technically a virgin.

I have tried to sleep with my boyfriend but he keeps losing his erection and we used a condom each time we tried.

His penis has definitely come into contact with my vagina whilst unprotected but there was no penetration or attemt at it.

I don't know exactly when my period was due but it is definitely late.

I'm hoping that it's just exam stress or something (I finished my exams 10-06).

Please tell me I'm not pregnant.

What should I do?

Get a test from a near drugstore and your mom wouldnt have to know about it just be with a friend when your going through it all. or go to plan parenthood-trix

Q: Hi, I'm 15 and I'm gonna be a sophomore this fall. There's this guy I met through my friend. My friend likes him, but he says he only wants to be friends, and she knows that. But, now, he likes me and I like him. I want to go out with him and he told me that he wanted to ask me out. My friend knows this, and she says she thinks it's cute, and she doesn't mind that we wanna go out. But, I don't want to hurt her by going out with the guy she likes. Should I go out with him, because my friend says she doesn't mind and thinks it's cute and all, but I'm just not sure if it's right. Please help me out here.

Well okay i have been in this situation and i guess she is just pulling a non-selfish kind of move which is good for most parts. But i would really sit down and talk to her and question her over and over if she sure and let her know if it starts to realy bother her to let you know. So i would give it a shot because being that your in highschool strong long relationships start now and why dont you go out with her and a couple friends help her meet some guy that way she isnt all concentrated on that guy that you happan to like also. good luck and let me know whats going down-trix (rate me pa-lease)

Q: I wrote the poem which is in one of the previous posts entitled "Everytime" . I was feeling rather depressed today , and so i wrote another poem . Tell me what you think about it ....
Bt\ , to all those who asked ,
i'm 13 going on 14 .

You

I thought that I was contented
I thought I knew you
But that was just an illusion
You took me for a fool

All this pain that I went through
Did I ever mean anything to you ?
All those times I cried
Why weren’t you by my side?

So many nights I spent ,
Sitting by the phone
Just hoping you would call
I was so alone

You told me that you loved me
But why couldn't you look me in the eye ?
I guess this was what made me see
That i was living a lie ..

Sad thats really sad i hope you dont feel that way anymore or its at least fading away at that fact.-trix

Q: Im 14 years old and i hate my fucking pimples. how can i get rid of them? i have this acne pad face wash stuff and it still isnt working after about 2 weeks. Help me please...

Get oxy and clean and clear. that stuff helps and dove soap also.-trix

Q: im fat how can i loose weight...REALLY QUICK! i mean come on..its summer! help me out here!

EXCERCISE! NEW CONCEPT! RUN JOG WALK SIT-UPS PUSH-UPS! Ya tard-trix

Q: Ok, My friend is having Major issues. Like she goes with this boy and like, he is always at his cousins house. Well she was online talking to him but it really wasnt and she thought it was cuz she asked him out and he said yeah. Well she talked to him and he said he was never at his cousins house. But he tells her he likes her. But he doesnt tell her how he feels he just said because he does. And his friend said he thinks he is playing games. She needz help yall..Pleaz help cuz I dont know what to say to her?

-Stephanie

*Please Rate me*

Talk to that guy and see whats up and whats going on and ask his cousin to see for sure if he was at his cousins house maybe he was at a friends house really and did say yes and he is now questioning going out with her so he lied and said he was never online or at his cousins house and his cousin may cover up for him but i dont know-trix

Q: Me and my friends fight 24/7....and now that summer is here....I HAVE NOTHING TO DO!! I mean...I loved going to school to see some, people I was good friends with....but then when I got home and got on AOL IM the gurl I fight with would be on...and start IMing me and yelling at me for nothing. So know that summers here I ahave nothing better to do, then get on AOL.

What tips could you give me about my friends??

Is there anything better then AOL that I could do?

Go somewhere like to the pool with a neighbor or something or to the rink or something and make new friends. or try to straighten things out with your friends-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"