hey ok im 14 and um female... n e ways... my best friend and i have been friends since 1st grade and we have litterally been thro EVERYTHING together. im the type of person who will give u room to grow and branch out but be there for u when u decide to come back. and thats kinda how its been w/ me and her. no big right... well i am also very well known for my apt ability to give advice and stuff. i have helped my friend out of nearly every problem shes ever had and i have no problem w/ this but she freaks out and suspects things of me if i dont have the perfect advice right away. like if im dealing w/ something else and i come back to her she freaks or if i am shocked and momentarily dont know what to say she thinks i dont care... what do i do?!
Xtakexmyxbreathxawayx answered Friday June 18 2004, 2:21 am: remember all friend ships dont work out, people change N move to dif parts of ur life...but still hang out wit her...do things just dont atke all that crap she throws at u! i wish ya the best luck N remember theres always somone out there thats right 4 u in friendships N love...hope i helped!! e-mail me if u wanna... iluvyou3784@yahoo.com [ Xtakexmyxbreathxawayx's advice column | Ask Xtakexmyxbreathxawayx A Question ]
Anubis989forlife answered Thursday June 17 2004, 11:42 pm: well, you need to let ur friend know that you have a life as well and you cant always be there.
as far as the part were she thinks you dont care, well that is mostly her problem. you guys have been friends for a very long time and you havent done anything wrong and just because you cant answere a Q right away doesnt mean you dont care.
really you just need to sit down have a talk with her. [ Anubis989forlife's advice column | Ask Anubis989forlife A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Thursday June 17 2004, 11:41 pm: Tell her you are at a loss for words and you are at a loss for words and dont know what to do just like she doesnt know what to do. or you could come to any advienator ask our opinion and feed it back to her. -trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
ika_sclub answered Thursday June 17 2004, 11:10 pm: You just tell her that you are not her advice column. I know that you guys are best friends and you always give her advice. But you also have to tell her that you are also a human being and sometimes you can run out of advice. Remember, no one is perfect. Good Luck! :D [ ika_sclub's advice column | Ask ika_sclub A Question ]
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