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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
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Well, I'm 13. I just got my boyfriend
only about 5 days ago. And we just met each
other about 3 weeks ago. We really like each
other. Already, we went to a Football game
and people were chanting us to kiss...and
we did 4 times. I think we're rushing, but
I don't want to hurt anything between us. Though
I know he'll probably be fine with it if I tell him how I feel...I just can't get the guts to. What should I do?
-Mystie
If you can't get the guts to tell him, write him a letter or an e-mail, you chould even say it over the phone. Or if your really shy and can't get the guts to tell him at all, get one of your friends too!
How long does a girl have her period? like how many days?
It depends on the girl, but mostly only a week or 3-5 days.
my mom recently found out ive been cutting myself so now she questions it all the time and along with alot of other people do! i just want them to back off, its kind of a personal problem. what should i do? pleez help n' thanks.
She's probably asking about it aswell as the other people, simply because they care about you. If you really don't want them up in your bizz, just tell them you need some time to think about it and have time to yourself. I'm sure they'll back of a bit. But, just know your friends and family are always gunna be there for you and worried. That's the main reason their asking questions, it's out of love =)
I was watching shorties watching shorties and i was wondering... can u really get high off of sniffing whipped cream?
I don't think you can. Plus, it's not the whipped cream it's self, it's the stuff in the bottle.
I like this younger guy, really younger guy. He's 14 and I'm 16, going to be 17, what should I do? He asked me out but I told him I would think about it. Any ideas?
Hey babe. I had the same problem, but like always I turn to my advice buddys for help. They made me realize a lot of stuff. If you like this guy, don't be scared, be happy you finally found a guy you do truly adore. Tell him, you have to tell him you like him. Age ain't nothing but a number. I think you should go out with him, you might be throwing something great away - so, take the chance and say yes!
I`m 14/f my name is Jess =].. I was wondering ~~ do guys like down there to be shaved? & is it ok to shave down there?
I guess it all depends on the guy hun. Some like it shaved - some dont. But, at lease trim it, or shave if you want to. And yes, it is okay to shave down there, no worries.
There are 2 guys at my school that I like but I don't know if they like me back. I feel like they are flirting with me, but I'm not sure. How do I tell the difference between just friendly conversation/actions and flirting?
Flirting, they'll probably brush up on you, laugh, give you that smile, tap you while talking to you, they're super sweet and such. You chould always just ask them guys if they like you - find out once and for all.
Whatz a good color 4 a blonde to streak her hair - - how should i do it - - what color/colors - - streak/highlight/dye/ - - im doing it b4 school starts up again.
Good color(s) would probably be, a light pink, black or red. Mmm, you chould streak it chunky, or just put some streaks in the front, dye the underneath of your hair, put a red streak then a black one on either side. Just have fun, think up anything and it would probably look great!
if someone is wearing lime green tights, or pantyhoes or whatever, does that mean anything? like does that mean theyre lesbian or gay?
No I don't think so hun, it's probably just their style and how they like to present theirselfs.
There's this boy named cory that goes to my school. Hes really nice when we're alone or somethin is wrong and im pissed (like me and my "friend" got in a fight and he was there to "try" and fix it). Well anyways... I think I like him and I think he likes me, but i jus dont wanna see dumb, cuz i asked him out be4, and i usually dont do that. He is super nice, and flirts with me all the time and i of course flirt back. We spend so much time together, people are ALWAYS like, do u go 2gether. He like picks me up and carries me around and stuff. Do you think I should go with him or somethin? If u need nemore info, jus ask!!
Hun, go for him, ask him out. Sounds like you both totally dig eachother. So go for it. Good luck =)
Hey, My name is Megan, and i'm 15. I've always been treated pretty bad in school. I don't think i'm fat or ugly, but everyone calls me ugly. I don't know why they would say things to hurt me, and it makes me feel bad all the time, though I try to hide it. Today at lunch, someone gave me a joke love letter of someone I know asking me to homecomming. (The one who gave me the note hates me) When I opened it, a fry with ketchup on it fell on my white skirt, and ruined it. They all laughed it up, while a friend of mine yelled at them. I don't understand why people do the things they do to me, I try to ignore them, but you know, it hurts. I just wish people at my school would treat me like a human. I'm not mean to people, i'm nice. I don't talk about people I keep to myself...what is wrong with me?
There's nothing wrong with you. The question is, what is wrong with them? They seem totally mean to you. People who like to pick on others tend to be not too happy with their selfs. They pick on people to make their selfs look good and bost their ego. Just keep on ingoren them, I know it hurts, but you have to be strong. If you show them that everything they have been doing is getting you you, they'll keep on doing it. If finally they realize that you don't give a shit what they do/say about you, they'll stop.
someone at my skool started a website wheres theres a list of top 10 prettiest girls and top 10 ugliest girls.. so yeah its really mean. ive been winning for prettiest girl the whole time so everyone thinks that im the one doing it and im not! any advice?? lol thanx
Haha, people and what they can think up eh? Well, everyones probably mad jelouse that your winning for the prettiest girl. If you tell your friends that it is deffently not you doing it, they should believe you. They are you friends. But, if your not comfrotable with this hole deal, trying finding out who put this site up and tell him/her to shut it down.
im the biggest nerd in the school and i need help. people make fun of me at school, i have like no friends.I go home and i wanna kill myself.I sit alone at lunch and averyone laughs at me, help.
Hun, no need to kill yourself of people that act stupid. You can't take your life into your own hands just because other people are stupid. Just be yourself at school because if people don't like you for yourself, they aren't worth being your friend. Don't try to change your style or how you talk/act, you have to be yourself no matter what. If you aren't comfortable with your style, try dressing a little differently. Be funny and smile a lot. People tend to come to people who are always smiling, rather then ones who are always down and unhappy. If you need more advice, just leave it in my inbox.
hi . ok well im 14 and last weekend my friend and i went to the movies and she wanted to invite her b/f who's 17 . well his friend who is 18 drove here and stayed . well we went into the movie "open water" but then they threw us out cuz we were underage or sum shyt . so we left the theater cuz there was nuffin else betta to see . so we stayed by the guys car and were wondering what to do . so we sat in the car and listened to music and like 3 min. later he's pulling out of the parking spot and he's like " lets go driving round" and i was panicking cuz like what if he got into a car accident or got pulled ova . and i seriously thot i was guna piss my pants literally . so i told him to turn the car around and go bak to the movies . and well my friends paretns idnt evn kno that her boyfriend was meeting us at the movies and my parents didnt evn kno i was that movies and so he turned bak and dropped us off and we got ou and sat ona bench , and then they take off in the car and ditch us .but i feel rly bad lying and sneaking around like that cuz i nevr usually do that stuff , so i can i get guilt this guilt off my chest?????? it means A LOT to me whatevr ur answer is cuz nethng wuld work right now. thanx
I think you should tell your parents. Telling the truth (even if its bad) is way better then lies. They might not trust you for awhile, but you'll build your trust back up. They'll probably understand, after all your the one who didn't want to go and told them to turn around - good job and good luck hun.
well these mean fat chicks at my skool started rumors that im anorexic (which im NOT) bcuz im 5'5 and i weigh 98 and sadly ppl believed them and now there like "o theres the anorexic girl" and other crap like that. :( what should i do
Ingore them. That's all they want is to bother you and they know it does, so they keep saying it. Show them that it doesn't bother you and just ingore them. Don't worry hun, they'll stop. That's a normal weight from someone your height.
okay well see im going to the movies with my 2 bestfriends and they are bringing their boyfriends!! see i dont have one so i feel left out what is a good way to get someone to like you?
You have to be yourself, because if your not, they're gunna start falling for the wrong person and it's not gunna be really you, just an act.
im bi.. 14/f wit a g/f 4 about a month and a 1/2 now.. i love her 2 death but idk.. thingz r just changing between us.. especially since tha skool year started.. she'z afraid of wat otha ppl mite think so itz hush hush @ skool.. nd she dont wanna tell her parentz.. same wit me.. but idk.. she's been actin different lately nd more distant.. she'z broken up wit me once b4 our 1 mth nd got mak a week b4 it.. we were broken up 4 4 dayz nd those were tha worst dayz of my life.. i cried my eyez out nd it hurt like hell.. i guess im afraid that i mite go thru that again.. it doesnt help that she'z mostly in2 guyz newayz.. she just made an exception 4 me cuz she liked me 4 a long tym.. well newayz.. so i just wanna kno.. wat do i do? itz just this huge communication prob nd i cant talk 2 her about it.. there'z either not enuf tym or she dont wanna talk bout that shit.. so yah im confused.. can u plz try 2 help?
Well you have to talk to her about it, you have to get this off your chest. If she really loves you, she'll listen to what you have to say. I say sit her down and just spil out how much she truly does mean to you and how you don't want to lose her. Tell her that she been acting distance lately and you don't want her to break up with you - because you feel like she will. Just talk to her. That's the only thing you can do, so you have to talk to her. Just tell her everything you wrote on here! Good luck hun =)
Ok well I was going out with this girl who i started to really like. Then all of the sudden one day she broke up with me sayin that she liked me and some1 else. She said that she needed to take a break but she liked this othat kid that goes to my school. Im not sure if we broke up cause i did sumthin or cause we go to different schools. But then l8ter that night she asked me if like next summer we could ever go out again.
ooo yeah im 13/m
It doesn't sound like she broke up with you because you did something wrong - so, don't think that. She's probably just really confused about both of you and wants someone closer to her. Just give her some time to think about what she wants to do. You never know, she could want to be with you again. Good luck!
Well my boyfriend was here today and we were makeing out and he got my shirt off and then i told him to stop but i love him so much and we could of had sex but i told him to go home and he knows what makes me feel better and stuff like that well he was kissing my neck (which i like ALOT) and then he took my shirt off. I then told him to go home and but i think i am ready (well at least i think so) What do you think is wrong?
You'll know when your ready - it just happens in the "moment". You have to wait till your comfortable with him, then you could take it to the next step. Your probably just a little scared, that chould be a reason why your holding back from him a little. Try talking to him about it until your very comfortable with eachother. Good luck hun.
Hey guys im a 15 f. At nite it takes me like 45 mins to fall asleep. i have no clue why but its SO frustrating. Neways.... i was just wonderin if u guys had any tricks to fallin asleep (besides counting sheep) that could help me. Thanks so much!
Put on some really really sad/slow music. Slow music always helps me go to sleep. Good luck!