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im bi.. 14/f wit a g/f 4 about a month and a 1/2 now.. i love her 2 death but idk.. thingz r just changing between us.. especially since tha skool year started.. she'z afraid of wat otha ppl mite think so itz hush hush @ skool.. nd she dont wanna tell her parentz.. same wit me.. but idk.. she's been actin different lately nd more distant.. she'z broken up wit me once b4 our 1 mth nd got mak a week b4 it.. we were broken up 4 4 dayz nd those were tha worst dayz of my life.. i cried my eyez out nd it hurt like hell.. i guess im afraid that i mite go thru that again.. it doesnt help that she'z mostly in2 guyz newayz.. she just made an exception 4 me cuz she liked me 4 a long tym.. well newayz.. so i just wanna kno.. wat do i do? itz just this huge communication prob nd i cant talk 2 her about it.. there'z either not enuf tym or she dont wanna talk bout that shit.. so yah im confused.. can u plz try 2 help?
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Well you have to talk to her about it, you have to get this off your chest. If she really loves you, she'll listen to what you have to say. I say sit her down and just spil out how much she truly does mean to you and how you don't want to lose her. Tell her that she been acting distance lately and you don't want her to break up with you - because you feel like she will. Just talk to her. That's the only thing you can do, so you have to talk to her. Just tell her everything you wrote on here! Good luck hun =)
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I think that your girlfriend is definitely scared of what everyone else thinks -- and she has reason to be. I mean, not everyone will just accept that you're together, and you have to understand that. I think you should talk to her and see how she's really feeling. See if she wants to break up, or if she is confused about what she feels for you (or girls in general). It could end in a breakup, but that's better than being with someone and not knowing how they truly feel. Good luck.
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hey it doesnt matter wut ppl think it's ur decision to be wutever u want and everything...but yeah write her a note about it if u can. im her invite her or leave her a fake message and meet her saying ur one of the guys friends and talk to her about it see wuts going on and that you sooo confused. it should work let me kno how it goes it u can Take Care...Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
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