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Question Posted Thursday September 2 2004, 12:55 pm

Ok well I was going out with this girl who i started to really like. Then all of the sudden one day she broke up with me sayin that she liked me and some1 else. She said that she needed to take a break but she liked this othat kid that goes to my school. Im not sure if we broke up cause i did sumthin or cause we go to different schools. But then l8ter that night she asked me if like next summer we could ever go out again.
ooo yeah im 13/m


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MummuM answered Friday September 3 2004, 12:23 pm:
It doesn't sound like she broke up with you because you did something wrong - so, don't think that. She's probably just really confused about both of you and wants someone closer to her. Just give her some time to think about what she wants to do. You never know, she could want to be with you again. Good luck!

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LilBrunette1201 answered Thursday September 2 2004, 5:21 pm:
It depends... Ive been in this same situation. If a long time goes by and you havent heard from her then I would just drop it but if you end up talking to her and you want to go back out, give it a try! She may learn that it was a mistake to break up with you, thats what happened with me and my ex b/f and we ended up going out for the whole summer. Hope I helped some!

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xxoBriannax answered Thursday September 2 2004, 4:55 pm:
Obviously she doesn't like you enough because she wants to go out next summer.










-xXoBrianna

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Siren_Cytherea answered Thursday September 2 2004, 3:57 pm:
Well, the only way to find out exactly why she broke up with you is to ask her straight out. Tell her you want to know exactly why she broke up with you, if she wants to be with you next summer.
Sounds to me like she's kinda fickle. Can't make up her mind. You've gotta communicate with her if you wanna know what's going on!
Hope this helped!
-Siren =)

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xbrunettebabii3x answered Thursday September 2 2004, 3:18 pm:
hey its perfectly fine she just wanst to see what kind of guys are out there i do the same thing yea it hurts but theres something you can do talk to her and ask her whats going on y did u break up with me and etc. and if you really do lik her then say you cant wait for her but give her ac hance and shell see whats shes missin out on hope i helped
Amber xoxo

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l0vinDaRainx3 answered Thursday September 2 2004, 2:28 pm:
Well maybe she jus had to get away from you a little bit and thats not a bad thing...and maybe if you want you guyss can get bac together next summer...!you should talk to her bout it!!hope i helped please rate mii...

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BrunetteBeauti answered Thursday September 2 2004, 1:52 pm:
wow thts messed up. ask her y she broke up w. u. tell her u cant jus wait 4 her 2 take u bac. thts not how its suppose 2 wrk. jus 4get about her

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XxRockon answered Thursday September 2 2004, 1:45 pm:
i think that she is just very confused and likes two people at the same time, i'm sure its nothing u did its just that she wants to be fair to u and not keep goig out with u since she likes 2 ppl. wen she asked if next summer u could go out again, i think that means that she feels bad breaking up bc she still likes and would want to go out again wen she is not confused and liking 2 ppl...hope i helped :)

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*~*Ashlie*~* answered Thursday September 2 2004, 1:17 pm:
ok she probably wanted to take a break since you guys go to different skewls and she wanted to be faithful to you... i know this becasue me and my love of my life broke up because we lived in different states we were devistated but next summer we will go out... just keep your hopes up and go out with her next summer...




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icey0990 answered Thursday September 2 2004, 1:11 pm:
Hey sounds like this girl is really confused. But why would she ask you if you`d go out with her next summer? Shes pretty much like making reservations for a boyfriend. lol. I wouldnt want to feel like im being put off to the side for later, you know? I would talk to her and ask her to make a choice between you or the other guy, give her a few days, and see what she says. If she choses the other guy, dont feel bad. Its better to know she made a choice instead of toying with the two of you. Best of luck..hope i helped out :)
-melissa-

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