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Well my boyfriend was here today and we were makeing out and he got my shirt off and then i told him to stop but i love him so much and we could of had sex but i told him to go home and he knows what makes me feel better and stuff like that well he was kissing my neck (which i like ALOT) and then he took my shirt off. I then told him to go home and but i think i am ready (well at least i think so) What do you think is wrong?
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your just uncomfertable around the subject.. i dont think you are ready.. just tell him your not ready for sex yet... or you guys should sit down and have a talk about it
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Only you know if you are ready to have sex. You could be ready, but afraid to do it. If you are a virgin, then virginity is not something you wanna give up that easily. Wait for when you are 100% ready to do so and you're with someone you love and care about deeply. Take your time, think about it, and decide if you really are ready for this. If he tries to push you into anything, then he may not be the right guy to give it too. Tell him how you feel when you guys aren't gettin hot and heavy, so maybe he won't let his hormones take control, and he'll be serious and take into consideration of how you feel. Hope I helped any! =)
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your just worried about pregnancy, stds, emotional and physical damage. but be sure that you are ready and then make sure he's the one
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*You're not ready. You keep pushing him off because your scared. You'll know when you're ready and it'll be a 'right time' so wait until then.*
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you are HORNY i mean if you like him and trust him have sex with him!
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im sure it was just nerves! haha! believe me! it happens to alot of ppl! dont worry! im sure he understood! =) just tell him that you were nervous and scared about the whole thing..but think your ready. dont rush things! have fun with things now!
x0x-dani
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your juss not ready yet, he shouldnt be pushing you and do what you like to get what he wants
*jesikuh
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You were right to tell him to stop when he made you feel uncomfortable. A lot of girls have had problems with boy friends doing sexual stuff that makes em feel uncomfortable, but they let him. So it was awesome of you to do that. Listen, are you ready? If you don't want him taking your shirt off or anything, don't do it. But if you love him that much and really feel comfortable, go 4 it! But remember, nobody can force you to do anything you don't want to do, even your bf.
XoXoXo Morgan XoXoXo
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hey there... heres what i think about your sitch. If you like him kissing your neck alot.. then thats one step to going and having sex. But if he took your shirt off. then hes way too obsessed with having sex. Talk to him about it. That may be all he wants from you..
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You'll know when your ready - it just happens in the "moment". You have to wait till your comfortable with him, then you could take it to the next step. Your probably just a little scared, that chould be a reason why your holding back from him a little. Try talking to him about it until your very comfortable with eachother. Good luck hun.
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You have to make sure your completely ready. You don't yell out "stop" when you're not ready. Sex isn't something to play around with, even though most people make it out to be a joke. Do it when you're ready and when you feel comfortable, don't let him pressure, it has to be mutual.
Mad Love,
Victoria
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i think you think you're ready, but you'll probably regret it later.
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Okay, here's the deal. You can't just THINK you're ready to have sex. You have to KNOW that you're ready. I'm sure you believe you love him (and maybe you really are in love -- sometimes it's hard to tell). But if you don't know for sure, a hundred and fifty percent sure that you want to have sex with him, you shouldn't. Give it time. Take things a little slower. Make sure you're really ready, or you could be making a big mistake.
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Well, to me, it sounds as if you aren't quite ready. I dunno about you, but when I started to get really serious with my boyfriend and we started talking about sex, I realized I had doubts at first.
Doubts, to me, meant that I wasn't ready. When all my doubts disappeared, then I knew I was ready.
If you freaked out and wanted him to stop, I'm guessing you really aren't ready for sex, and that's probably what's wrong. You didn't even want him to get your shirt off? You've gotta be comfortable naked around a guy, I think, before you have sex...At least, that was the case in my situation. Take it slow - don't rush into sex. You have your whole life to have sex and all that jazz.
Hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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Nothing's wrong your just not ready, it's totaly ok if your not ready for sex but rushing into it just because your boyfriend want's to do it kinda seems like a bad idea. but if you are ready and you feel like you can hadel what comes with sex than do it.But make sure to use protection.
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Your not ready. Your smart... You care enough about yourself stop what was happening. They all say sex abstinance is worth it in the future, so that's what I am doing. Honestly, I think you should wait, but it's your body and you can do what you want with it...So nothings wrong, your jux not ready. I hope you understand! Good Luck & God Bless! Beebyes!
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hey. ur normal you just need a little more time to maybe think about it? it's all ur decision so when ur ready ur ready and it cant and shouldnt be rushed. Take Care...Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
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