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I like this guy. But my guy friend HATES him and i'm so close to going out with this guy but my guy friend says he'll never talk to me again if i go out with him. my friend is begging me to stop liking him but i like him so much! I don't want to lose my friend but i want to gain the guy i like. what should i do? (link)
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you have to tell your friend that you like him, she doesnt have to like him but you do, thats too bad for her, shes not a real friend if she cant accept you liking this guy.
hope i helped
~stef~
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My mom and I got into a fight last night because i was sick and she didnt want to take me to the doctor. my friend is having a party tomorrow night and i really want to go but my mom says im grounded just because i confronted her with the fact that she is the ONLY one allowed to be sick! He is my next door neighbor and i think i should go anyways! She cant show her butt or we will get kicked out and if she tries to hit me she knows i will call the cops because i have before. Its not fair that because she was in the wrong I cant go. What do you think? I need advice, do i go or not? (link)
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you need to go, if this is a party you want to go to then you go girl! you only live once!!
~stef~
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How do you get Cool backrounds for your advice column?...thankz in advance...please answer!
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you go to where it says welcome and you go down a bit... just below where the dividing line thing under there is it says page backrounds. if you want a plain color then go to where it says column settings under welcome, and click where it says: over here. then pick the color you want to use and type it in where you want it. hope this helped
~stef~
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okay..theres this 1 spot on my head thats hurting like really badly!! its swollen and hurts whenever i touch it just like when my hair hits it, it starts to hurt. Any 1 have any idea what it might be??And should i ask my mom to take me to the doctor? thanx
--Alexa-- (link)
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well since i havent seen this spot, i cant really judge what its condition is but i think you need to tell your mom and she can decide if you should go to the doctor or not.
feel better
~stef~
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I've been going out with this one kid for only like 3 days.. and his bestfriend is going out with my bestfriend (If that makes any sense) so we're always hanging out.. and one time we were layin on my bed and her and her bf were makin out, and so were me and my bf..and he has his hand on my stomach and said.. is it okay if i go down? i kno it means down ym pants.. but like what would he be doing.. dont you think it's a lil early? plez help! x333 (link)
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well he asked you so i think thats very respectful of him. if you dont feel comfortable with him going down your pants then tell him your not ready. i think it is to early for that. i would wait at least a month or two min. if i were you.
hope i helped
~stef~
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me and my boyfriend went to a party and all I remaber is like dancing and all but then the next day I woke up next to my boyfriend and we where both naked and we both didnt remeber what happenend (link)
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im guessing you did but if you cant remember anything about it then maybe you should buy a home pregnancy test because you can never be too sure of what you did that night.
hope i helped
~stef~
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My friend and I have always had trouble talking to guys and we don't why. We just start getting all shy and our mind's go blank and just don't act like ourselves. We both like a boy and desperatly want to talk to them. If any of y'all have advice we would GREATLY appreciate it!!! (link)
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its no big deal, they probably are just as nerveous as you are. be yourself and be cool about it and you have nothing to worry about. be flirty and act cute and they'll probably like you.
hope this helped
~stef~
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Me and my boyfriend always end up in these steamy makeout sessions with either him on top of me or me on top of him... which ever way we end up we're usually rubbing our bodies together and i think you get the point... what would this be considered as? please tell me... and do you guys consider this bad? we're both virgins and we both believe in abstinence... we never "touched" eachother in inappropriate ways either.. except for maybe on the butt a few times.... but that's it! (link)
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i dont think theres anything wrong with that, if its not sex then your pretty much safe. its great that your both virgins and believe in abstinence. it seems like a normal situation to me.
hope i helped
~stef~
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okay RANDOM question
does anyone know those jelly braclet thingies?
well what do the certin colors mean..
Red- ?
Black- ?
Blue- ?
Green- ?
etc? please? (link)
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red is lap dance, black is sex, blue is blow job, green is out door sex or cullingus, yellow is hug, orange is kiss, purple is holding hands/anal sex. pink is flash, clear is you pick, gold glittery is make out, glow in the dark is sex toys.
if you have anymore questions them go to www.sex-bracelets.com/color.shtml
hope this helped
~stef~
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i broke up with my boyfriend like a month ago and i felt really low and i slit my wrists with exes on one arm and i really regret doing it now, i mean nobody would ever guess that i would be cutting myself. in gym class some of my friends asked what happened and i told them it was nothing but i think they are going to tell someone. i really don't want to talk to anyone about it because i stopped and it's not a problem anymore. i know now that it wasn't the best way to deal with things but now everytime i need to wear a t-shirt people notice my arm, and theres scars that won't go away. i tried putting coverup and stuff on it [yea i know im a retard lol] but they are really noticeable and i'm scared that if my parents find out they'll get really mad and not trust me anymore. i'm just really confused. what should i do?? (link)
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ok i did the same thing, dont feel stupid. i would just try wearing some bracelets or putting some cover-up on it (i know it seems silly to put cover-up on your wrist but it works) you need to make sure your friends understand whats going on with you and tell them you stopped and you promise it will never happen again. and do not do it again. if they still make you go see a councler then you need to tell the councler you will never do it again and you dont need to see him/her anymore. just make sure they know theres nothing they can do because theres nothing to tell them. hopefully your friends will be loyal and not tell anyone.
hope i helped
~stef~
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First off, I am a girl, and I am dating another girl. Now on to the problem. Ive been dating Molly almost 11 months now. A few months ago, things got really rocky between us, so we took a short break, and things got alot better, and we didnt fight or anything. Now, about 2-3 weeks ago, she, just out of the blue, says she wants a break, a longer one, and when I asked why, she said she didn't know how she felt anymore. She says she is starting to fall out of love with me, and that she needed space so she could work it out. It was really hard for me, at first, but now I am getting better. Now the thing is, she is sending mixed signals. Sometimes it seems like things may be getting better, others, not so much. She even tells me that I can 'do stuff' with other girls, should I choose to (I dont want to) and then when I hang out with someone that something could potentialy happen with, I think she gets kinda jelouse (but I'm not sure if I am reading signals wrong). Now I have 2 questions: The whole doing stuff with other people. Is she testing me? Or possibly she wants to not feel so guilty if things dont work? And my second question is, How long should I wait for her? Our one year is January 20th. Im only 17, I have invested a year of my life into our relationship, I am not ready to give up yet. What can I do? (link)
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i think you should give it some time, things may work out, or they may not. and also, it may be a signal that you need to try looking for a guy, instead of a girl. thats a different story though. so your gonna have to let time decide.
hope i helped
~stef~
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i think i might have breast cancer. there is a lump in my breast and i don't know how to tell my parents or my boyfriend. i dont want to go to the doctor until i am for sure that i might have it. I don't know what to do! please help me!!! (link)
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i would go right away to the doctor because you can never be sure. the longer you wait, the worse your case will get if you do have it so go now.
~stef~
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my name is nicole ok i live in cali and im 15 years old me and my x like broke ^ like on monday i feel like soo tear a part i have been crying i dont know if i should go back with him i was like with him for like 8 months things dont feel the same because his not in my life right now i feel like some other girl could take my place he has been crying 2 so have i i dont know if i should move on or not should i take him back or give me more time i just asked this question but more just happend ok i told him i wanted to get back but he said he wants to wait a month and then he will get back with me i have been crying soo much i mean im soo scared i dont know if i can hold that long i felt like i wanted to hurt my self last night im at the point right now i dont know what to do should i wait a month or what? or move on? i told him its better for me and him not to talked anymore and he said '' ok u want me to kill my self then''? can somebody please help me if u can i would really love that!! (link)
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i think you need to talk to him, if you are both crying things are not right, try going out again and see what happens. if it doesnt work out then tell him it isnt but try to be friends after that. hope everythinbg works out
~stef~
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besides cd's and money what do you get a girl for her 15th birthday? (link)
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maybe some earings or a gift card to somewhere like claires or a nice store she likes. i wouldnt advise a guy to try to pick out make up since they have no idea what theyre doing.
hope this helped
~stef~
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this isnt the same guy thats been saying he wants to kill himself but i do have the same problem i go to your school but you probably wouldnt know me im just some loser that has friends that make fun of me.my family has turned thier backs on me and i cant seem to find a way out except to pull a trigger.
this is my cry for help can you please help me i will be very thankfull. (link)
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you need to find help from someone because even though i dont know you i know that your more important than you think and you need to stay alive. dont kill yuorself!, find some help please!
please!!
~stef~
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there is this boy that i like. well more like 2 boys. one i've nown for a long time but this year we aren't really great friends like we use to be, another i now from my science class. i cant decide who i like more. one is really cute. short and nice sometimes. the other i dont know to well. the question would be should i ask one out. but i have a problem. the guy i like alot has thins friend who was talking about me to him and he agreed to it all. that pissed me off. but i still like him. what should i do? the other i think likes me because l8tly he hase been sitting next to me or is always looking at me. what should i do. it really would help thanks. i m me MarissaD90@aol.com (link)
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well your gonna have to decide which one you like more but if you dont like what the one guy said about you then you should leave him be and ask out the other one.
hope i helped
~stef~
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i've been friends with this guy for like... forever right? ok well, i'm really starting to like him and i don't know what to do about it. we're the kinda friends that hug every day, and he'll tell me i'm pretty and stuff, but still. i don't know if i should try ignoring my feelings or if i should try talking to him about it. a lot of my friends say i should ask him to sadies whenever that is. i think it's soon. so can somebody tell me what to do? i'd really appriciate the help. (link)
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well you can either ask him out and hope it lasts or you could just be friends with him but if you ask him out then your relationship with him will never be the same especially if you break up. i would think it over for a while before i decided if i were you.
hope i helped
~stef~
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hi theres this guy that likes me and wants to have sex with me cool!!!! but theres one problum hes 35 and i'm 14!!!!!! :~( what should i do he said if i don't i'll be sorry help!!!!!! (link)
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ok u need to do 2 things right now. 1. tell an adult such as your mom or dad and 2. call the cops. this is not the guy to have sex with. wait until you have a boyfriend that really loves you and the time is right.
hope this helped
~stef~
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My mom was mad at my dad because a few days ago he went to New York without letting my mom know (he works there he didn't run off). Then like a day later my mom went to go pick up my brother somewhere and my dad thought they were just going to the highschool to pick him up but then they went to another town to another town. My dad didn't know that and he had a meeting to go to so he told me to tell my mom when she came home. Well a couple hours later my brother calls and is like "Tell dad we're coming home now and that we're sorry we were so late," and I'm like dad is not here why didn't you call eailer. Well anyway I got mad and my brother put my mom on the phone and I'm like "You can't be mad at dad anymore for not telling you where he was going," and she got mad and didn't say anything so i apologized and sahe just said bye. Now I think my mom is mad at me and my question is how do I get her to forgive me? Thank you I'll rate fives just for reading this. (link)
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i think you should just appoligize for saying that to her and then ask her if theres any extra chores or stuff you can do for her. don't mention the thing about the comment that you made earlier to her. try to help her out around the house and anything else you can do for her. i dont think shes gonna be mad at you, it will blow over. shes probably stressed out from taking your brother places and then comes home with your dad not there. it can be very stressful.
hope i helped
~stef~
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what do the different color jelly bracelstes mean? (link)
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black - sex
blue - blow job
green - outdoor sex
red - lap dance
purple - holding hands
pink - flash
yellow - hug
orange - kiss
gold glittery - make out
brown - 'toss my salad'
clear - you pick
white - gay kiss
rainbow - rainbow kiss
hope i helped!!
~stef~
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