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Heyy my names Jessica, but most people call me Jess. Im 17 and its my senior year! I love to have fun. I'm always laughing, mainly at myself. When i first meet people i tend to be shy and i hate it, but once you know me you realize how outgoing and crazy i am. I don't swear cause i don't find a reason to. I hate crying, so i never do. I love watching movies. I listen to music everyday. My iPod is always with me. My friends and family mean everything to me.

Ive been on this site for three years now and im in love. I like to give people my advice. I can relate to a lot of things because i've been threw a lot of things in my life. Feel free to drop anything my my inbox or you can e-mail me.

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I have acne on mostly on my forehead but a little on the rest of my face. It is so annoying and I would be so much prettier without it so I would really like it to clear up. My skin peels when I use too much acne medication, its peeling a little now. What do I use so that my skin will pretty much immediately or soon stop peeling and what really helps acne without drying my face? Thanks for any help.

After you use your acne cream, put on a lotion that is made for dry skin it should help. That happened to my friend. Now she outs cream on after she uses hers and shes okay. Im not sure what kind but just do tothe store and look for like a dry skin cream or something

Jess

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16/F i have feelings for one of my very good friends, and he likes this girl who i KNOW for a fact is going to break his heart. (i know her and cheered with her for about 7 years when i USED to cheer )i told him this and tried to enforce it so that he would not go for her. even though i do have feelings for him i am not telling him this for myself but for him. so my question is if i should tell him about liking him and maybe that could lean him off her. but everytime i like him he doesn't like me but when he likes me i don't like him it is very odd and he told me about two days ago that he could see me and him being together in the future and told me that he loved me as a friend and i was always there for him whenever he needed someone to talk to or brighten up his day.. so i'm getting mixed signals and i think i might want to play hard to get instead of just straight out telling him. what do you think? :) rate a 5 for anyone who replys reasonably

I think you should just tell him. It will make you feel so much better, just because then you know how he feels too and you get it off your chest. Playing hard to get might not be the right way to go because if he doesnt like you then he not really trying to "get you" so it might not work.

Jess

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my friend was shot and killed on december 18 and i cant seem to get her out of my head its upseting me horribly what are ways to help

I'm sorry about that. Its deffinatly goning to be hard to get over this but you have to pull threw. Keep going out having fun take eveything off your mind. You deffinatly shouldnt forget them forever but just set off some time to go have fun and now worry about that.

Jess

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i got my period like a few months ago
and i still wear pads
but i really want to wear tampons
but everytime i go to put it in i dont do it right and im pretty sure im doing it right i just dont know how to get it in all the way

It always takes a few trys the first time and you have to get use to it but once you get it then your good. You just have to relax and make sure yyou push it in all the way. There should be directions in the box that will help.

Jess

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i will be going to tennessee with my boyfriends family for 3 days this weekend. unfortunately, the weather calls for a chance of rain. i have long, naturally wavy/curly hair that i usually straighten (it looks HORRIBLE curly, no matter what i do. ha). soo i was wondering what are some cute hair styles i could do for if it does rain. i have side swept bangs that just cover my eyeballs, so even if i put it up, my bangs will curl and look obnoxious. styles for with or without a toboggan or cadet hat would be great!

Well i have side bangs too and i always put my hair up and then do a poof with my bangs and everyone says it looks really cute. Thats the only thing i could think of that would contorl your bangs, hope it helps.

Jess

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I always sweat under my armpits. now i know everyone does but my sweat always seems to go through my clothes and it's really embarrasing. i also put on a lot of deodorant every day. what should i do?

Actually today im one of my classes we were talking about this haha. There is one called clear dry that works really well. A girl i know use to sweat REALLY bad, now she switched to that and she doesnt at all.

Jess

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14/f
im going to a sweet 16 on the 14th and i have no idea what to wear. The hostess told me that the decorations are lavender, and her dress is off white so no dresses in those colors.
I know I should wear a cocktail dress, but what color? strapless, halter, etc? Links would be appreciated, and nothing too pricy. I don't want to spend more than $100.
i have dark brown hair shoulder length hair, blue grey eyes, and light skin tone.
Also, make up&hair ideas?
And would it be ok to give like $50 or something like that instead of a gift?

Its only a sweet 16 so dont get to fancy. A cocktail drsss would be fine. You could get black, blue, red, polka dots are cute:). You could also ask some other people who are going what dress their wearing to get an idea. For hair you could do curls yourself. Or just Straighten it and keep it simple. And 50$ would be great for a gift, money is the main gift at sweet 16.

Jess

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Ok. Well Im 14 and I'm a girl. My boyfriend is just a few years older than me. Me and him have gotten sexual, but we haven't had sex before. I don't want to have sex, but he's older and he would do it if i did. And that kind of puts pressure on me. He isn't making me have sex or purposly putting pressure on me. He is a really nice guy and has a very nice personality and I could so see myself with him years from now and we have been together for 6 months. We have touched eachother in certain places before and like the other night we took it a step further. He touched me between my legs bare but I let him. I always get caught up in the moment and I am afraid I will get caught up in the moment and end up doing something I will regret. I won't have sex till I have no doubts I want to be ready and my mom said that if i want to have sex she will put me on the pill. So I want to wait another year or so and then i will if I'm ready, but I'm afraid he exspects I will have sex with him even though he's told me many times it's will always be my choice and when I am ready he will be to! I am scared! What should I do?

Oh sorry if it was so long, but if you can could you please give me some advice? :)

Honestly if you get to that point just tell him straight up. You are younger so he sould understand that your not ready, and if he is a good true boyfriend then he will respect your for it. You have to make sure you dont do anything you will regret.

Jess

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how can u make your hair grow faster?

Get it trimmed atleaset once a month to get off all the dead ends. And eat lots of good food and vitamins, that will help it grow.

Jess

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what are all the things sims do as kids?

They play with toys, have friends over, go to school (which means they get home) so that have to do tha ttoo.


Jess

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Ok, this is a pretty stupid question, but if i ask any of my friends or anything, i will be a total loser! haha!! Ok, there is this guy at my school and being funny or as a joke, this is what he says "you crazy cracker" wtf is a cracker?? i know its something you eat, lol! but i know it has so different meaning to it. and, oh yea, what does "panzee" (sp?) mean?? sorry this is so stupid, but i would like to know. hehe!!!! thanks people! bye!!

cracker is like a white person.
panzee im pretty sure is like saying someone is a whimp or soemthing like that.

jess

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I love music, but I'm sort of getting sick of the same old bands. I like pretty much anything, but I like emo, screamo, acoustic, and like softrock or powerpop you knowww. But I'll listen to anything. Does anyone know of some really good bands/songs ? THANKS!!!!

Brand New
Breaking Benjamin
Hit The Lights
Plus 44
30 Seconds to Mars
October Fall
This Providence
Secondhand Serenade
Flyleaf
Boys Like Girls
Five Times August

theres a few i like.
if you need more drop it in my inbox:)

Jess

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whats a manipulator ??

A manipulator is someone who can basically talk another person into doing something. They are good at persuading(sp?) people. Getting them to do certain things.

hope that helps.

Jess

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any free websites for first time ipod users with little knowledge on how to use it?

im not sure about that you could try apple.com
but you know the little manuel it comes with, try reading that.

Jess

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who "sings" robbery//This song...


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YKwYVf8Txn8

i googled it and got "Nappy Headz."
i dont listen to that kind of music so im not sure if that what your looking for.

Jess

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It's true that you can't get pregnant when you have sex when you're on your period because your egg releases, right? Or no... ? Thanks!

nope, you can still get pregnant.

Jess

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ok so i was supposed to start my period like 5 days ago and i just started today..i feel like i would normally feel whenever im on my period but im not bleeding like i would...im usually heavier than this..i mean right now im barely bleeding at all. what does this mean?

I wouldnt worry about it. It might get heavier as you go on. Or maybe its just a light one. It can chage from stress, change in dite, change is activitys. So maybe one of those caused it.

Jess

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my friend is in jail and i really want to go see him but i have no idea how...my parents would never let me go visit him but i have friends who are 18+. do i need someone to be 18 years or older to go with me? do i need to make an appointment? and how much trouble could i get in if i lied and told the officers i was his sister just to see him?

I dont thik you have to be 18 but why dont you call ahead and ask .I wouldnt go and like and say your his ister cause you are dealing with cops so if they found out you were lying it might not be good.

Jess

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hey EveryOne
Please Answear Thiis QuestiiOn for me ii need ideas Please



What does customer service mean to you???

T me it means somebody willing to help you when you have a question and will be nice and good in helping me get what im looking for.

Jess

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Hey guys I'm 15 and my name is Jackie. There is this guy that I simply can NOT get over. I've alould myself to get hurt. Everytime I begin to sorta get over him, he says something sweet or flirty that gets me to fall for him all over. My head knows he doesn't like me, but my heart keeps getting tricked into thinking that he likes me. so anyway. I need some tips for getting over him.

thanks
xoxo

Well do you know for a fact the he doesnt like you? Or is that just what you think. Once your heart is set on something or someone its hard to give up. I know, ive been trying to get over a boy for a while now. i've just learned to live with it. Moved on found a new boy. If you have gone so far that you have let yourself get hurt then maybe you need to stay away from him. Dont totaly ignore him but keep your distance. I hope that helped.

Jess

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