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im a 16 year old guy and anytime i do physical activities (i.e. gym class, basketball, baseball, running and other sports.)i end up soaked afterwards and some of my friends are somewhat sweaty. I would assume its because im out of shape but i beat most other atheletes. I think it might be because i am fat. Im 5'9 and weigh 197lbs. Some is muscle but some is fat so idk. Can anyone tell me why this is and what i can do to be less sweaty?
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dude i do the same thing so if you figure out what it is and how to fix it tell me. i would say try to like run more.


HELP!! My semi-formal is on the 17th and I justtt got a cold yesterday and now I have a runny nose, stuffed up. It would be OKAY with me, except I have to sing at graduation!! What do i do?! Its LESS than a week away now..Im so mad and I dont know what to do. How can i get better besides resting? (link)
get cold eeze. its like a cough drop. get some it works. you can get them at like happy harries, walmart,or rite aid.

get well soon


okay.. well im 14/f and imk 5'3 and 86 lbs. and i really need to gain some weight because i am not comfortable wirh how skinny i am. like every day someone says omg your so skinny! or something like that and its so annoying and i hate it.. and im definitely not anorexic or belemic.. i could never do that. but the thing is that i eat a lot every day and i dont gain a pound! does anyone know what i can eat or do to gain a few pounds? thanks! ♥ (link)
ok you say you eat a lot. How many double cheeseburgers from burgerking can you eat. A casual amount is about 3 (including fries for each). thats how you gain weight. Or you could like work out a lot and gain tone and muscles. That would be the best way. Hope i helped.


Ok. I'm overweight and i want to lose about 30 to 40 lbs over the summer. I've tried adkins but it isnt workin. I was wondering if there are any diets i can do to help out while exercising (because just that isnt workin either). If you have any ideas i would appriciate them. Thanks. (link)
ok to add to what the person before me said, dont drink soda at all. Ok the next thing is eat less. I dont know what you eat now but you might want to cut down. Next is no fast food. Also only have a snack 2 hours after each meal and it can only be a fruit or vegitable. Dont work out right after eating. I recommend eating after a workout 30 min or so (wait until your body cools down).


i'm usually teased and pushed around at school, and i'm a bit of a push over. its weird tohugh.... the people who are mean to me, are also the people who only get good things coming to them, and they expect me to be nice to them!
i end up being nice though, because i know what its like to be treated nastily (link)
These people who do this do it in order to make themselves feel better. Keep being nice. What goes around, definitally comes around, but usually it comes back later in life in multiplied form if that makes sense. ahh. Trust me they will get theirs and you yours.. Just wait. Sorry if i cant help more then that.


my dad just got me a new cellphone yesterday and its a Verizon - Audiovox CDM8600. I like it and all besides the ring tones. Anyone know where I can get free ring tones for this phone, all the free places I have been dont give service to my phone. like bestones.com and sonnerie.net- thx (link)
try going to smash the tones-- http://mobile17.smashsworld.com/

one of my friends said it works but i dont know. Give it a try then tell me how it goes.


okay ive been so self concious about my wieght and all.. im not fat but i have a little gut that i wanna get rid of and i just wanna flattnen my stomach so like whne i just stand up its just like flat but i hate going on diets and i dont really care abouta loosing wieght i just wanna flatten my stomach anbd thin out my legs so they're not all flabby and just tone my body.. but some people told me that i can just eat as much of whatever i want but then at night just do alotta crunches and kicks and excersise and even though i wont loose weight and all.. i'll still be toning my body.. is this true? (link)
diet wise eat 3 meals a day. Cut down on your lunch and dinner slightly(not to much). Only have one snack at least 2 hours after and by snack i mean fruit. Now workout wise start running one mile a day. Then in a week or so move to 2 miles and so on. Do a lot of crunches and sit ups. Do leg ups and stuff like that. Hope i helped.


Is it right for a girl to ask a guy out? please answer..i rate!! (link)
hell yea. im a guy and let me tell you that guys are incapable of understanding girls so it is great when we dont have to go through the trouble of asking people out.


Okay people think that i stuff my bra when i really dont and then people are like oh i saw it but i really dont what should i do?
Signed,
Screw this
.P.S. I rate high (link)
next time they say something respond"even if i did stuff which i dont, im still bigger then you." Or get a boyfriend and flash him too prove it.


I have these big bee-stung lips...they are so poofy and ughhhh I hate them..is there any way to make my lips look thin like normal people?? (link)
one person... angelina jolie...puffy lips are sexy.


13/f
Okay well there's this guy I really like and I want him to be my boyfriend but the thing is that one of my friends likes him a lot too. So when I told her I liked him she made me promise that I wouldn't go out with him. I think it's kinda stupid for her to make me promise that so I told her that if he asked me out I was gonna say yes. But then she got mad at me and I think she told him that I liked him because he has been avoiding me ever since. I wanna talk to him about it but I haven't gotten a hold of him lately. And since he's avoiding me we aren't really hanging out. I'm really sad since I've liked him on and off the whole year. And I'm kind of jealous of my friend cuz he's been flirting with her a whole lot. So what do I do? Do I talk to him or her. . .Or both of them? Was it wrong for me to not promise I wouldn't go out with this guy since my friend liked him too? (link)
let the guy choose. you cant force him and neither can she. who he chooses wins.


17/f ..all the time i cry..about little things and i get upset very easily sometimes i jsut sit in the bathroom and cry...i think about my life and whats going on and i just break down..does anybody know what i can do.or have an idea whats wrong? please help i rate high (link)
there is nothing wrong with crying. If you get worked up just think happy thoughts and remember that the life will still go on.


Hey. 14.f.
ok so we learned about cutting and stuff in a class in school and how its wrong, but i found it a bit intresting.... so i was really mad one day so i tryed it and it didnt make me feel any better. But, i do have a little cut on my arm. Does this mean that im a cutter even though im not going to do it again? (link)
you should be proud. your not a cutter. your not one of those week minded people. sry to you people but its true.(cutting is a mental disorder)not making you weakminded technically but still, get over yourselves. One cut is a bad idea though


im 16 years old and 8 months pregnant..my boyfriend ..which is the father and is 19..wont have anything to do with me..he wont even touch me anymore yea he comes over every now and then but he doesnt stay long..it breaks my heart because i love him so much..he says he loves me but it definately doesnt feel like it..what can i do? (link)
the best thing for you to do is talk to him. Say to him that you feel like he is avoiding you. If he is then the heck with him. Find a guy who deserves you and who you deserve. There are others out there and i know you dont want to hear this but maybe your better off without him. But definitally talk to him because im sure if your pregnant he is in all hell. He probably has a load of crap on his mind and what not. IDK his situation. Tell him and go by his response. sorry about the length in wordy.

♥s to you.
i hope it works out.


My friend Felicia just invited me over her house in like 30 minutes..the problem is, I don't want to go. I just don't feel like going...What excuse could I possibly use? I can't say my parents are making me go somewhere because they're both at work. I can't say I'm hanging out with friends because all my friends are out of town. Please help! (link)
tell her you dont feel good and your going to crank one out and go to sleep. J/K. ok tell her you have a crapload of hw and/or tell her your grounded or tell her you are loseing you mind or thatyour pmsing. Anything works.ahh i would say i cant go out when my parents arent home. sry about the late advice. Maybe for next time.


I got choosen to be an extra in a FEATURE FILM! I was so excited about it, because I live in Connecticut, so I don't really have the oppurtunity to participate in real movies, until now. However I don't know what to do because the day I am called for to be an extra is this upcoming Saturday. On Sunday I am going to New Jersey for the day, for a family party. The Thursday of the next week finals in my school start, as well. No that I have all of this going on, my parents are telling me that they do not think it is a good idea for me to do this movie. The movie location is an hour drive from my house, and it films from 8 in the morning until around dinner time. I just don't know what to do, because my parents say that ultimatley it is my deceision, but they don't think it's right with finals coming up, & me not being home all weekend (plus i have drivers ed all this week). I really want to do this though, because I have never had the experience before, and I don't know if an opputunity like it will ever come again! WHAT SHOULD I DO?? (link)
definitally go for it. how often does that chance arrive. Besides if you dont and someone else does and they get a lucky break you will have major regrets....But if you cant handle it, dont deprive yourself an education. I would go for it but thats me and i have luck killer grades and never study but if you arent like me i would seriously look into it.


hey all today i was skateboarding with my brother and his friend and my one friend made a ramp out of wood and i went to skateboard like go up the ramp and well i fell and the bad part is i landed on my arm i mean on my arm and when i got home my arm started shaking and my hand to and know it hurts alot i think i twisted it when i fell to so what should i do should go to the hopspital or go to get it x-rayed or should i just leave it alone. i will rate 5's for reasonable answers thanks kindly. (link)
go directly to the hospital. do not pass go, do not collect $200.

ok you definitally busted your arm bad. Go to the hospital and get x rays. i had a friend who really messed up his arm but didnt go to the hospital. It turned out really bad. you need to go!!@!


okay theres a girl in my class whos really anoying i hate her and i know this is imature but wishs she would die. she likes me and im afraid that shes going to ask me to dance with her. (we have this stupid rule that sais you are not alowed to reject someone to slowdance) give me some good ideas of how to avoid her. thanks (link)
ok you have a few options:

1) Bring a squirtgun and when she asks you, unload.

2) Publicly humiliate her (superly not recomended)

3) Dance with her.

4) Be bruatally honest

5) wear those hill billy teeth and eat onions and garlic so your breath reaks and when she asks breath on her hard and agree and give her a night to remember...(funest)

6) my brothers fav. -- hit it, quiet it , and never admit it.

7) duct tape

8) Try to understand her(lame)

HOPE I HELPED.. IF NOT YOUR SCREWED.


Okay, I'm just a bit curious. Everybody thinks cutting is so freakishly horrible and everything. Well in all honesty, I don't see the harm in it unless you're making cuts deep enough for stitches or something. Otherwise, you may have a mark or a scar - but no real damage done..? When I get extremely upset - it usually helps calm me down, in a BIG way. What is all the hype about..? (link)
cutting is bad because of the psychoeologic aspect of it. When you cut you are drowning emotional pain with pysical pain. When this happens too often you become "addicted" to cutting because your body will forget how to deal with emotional pain in a healthy way. Actually cutting yourself is a mental disorder. Cutting yourself for the enjoyment or to flood your emotions is a self-mutilation type thing. It is DANGEROUS because your psyche forgets how to normally deal with the pain thus leaving you in a downward spiral. Please stop. Learn a different way to deal with pain.
YOUR BLISS WILL WONT BE FOUND THAT WAY..

IN LIFE I PART AND ALWAYS TRY TO FIND AN ETERNITY OF BLISS


I dance everyday for two and a half hours and seeing as I'm so used to the routine I don't get tired that quickly.
I was sick last week and had to take a week off dancing and I did my dancing today but after an hour I was really hot and bothered, tired and had a headache.
Is it because of my week off or something else?
and if it's because of my week off is there anyway I can get back into my routine? (link)
ok first of all its not because you took a week off that you are tired. It's because you were sick. Chances are if you had to take a week off because you were sick then your sickness isn't completely gone yet. When the symptoms of a sickness are gone the cold isn't nessisarily gone too. Just work at it for a while and in about 2-3weeks you'll be just like before. Also if your takeing any medicines, that might be the problem. Some medicines will make you tired and others will slow your reaction time. When I do sports I usually wont take any type of medicine before so my reaction times are up to speed, but some medicines are ok and its you choice (remember medicines have different effects on different people.)




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