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Heyy ya this quostion is similar to the one from a little while ago i need a new screename and a header thing for myspace my name is kelly and i absolutalyy love cheerleadingg!
Myspace-
K3LL@Y
[KEL]
http://KEL
KEL.com
something from a song if it has your name or something that can rhyme your name. Like Theres a song called.. "Every Thug Needs A Lady" and I changed it so my display name was "Every Thug Needs A KATIE". It was pretty cool hah.
Screennames-
Cheerx3outloud
Jumpxtumblexkel
Haha sorry im not good at the whole screen name thing. I.m me and I'll give you better ones.
I've had the same display name on my myspace for a really long time now. I want to change it. I want something clever.
Any creative ideas?
If it helps at all, my name is Liz.
L!2
Try something cool with numbers. If theres a song with your name in it then thats cool too.
[Liz] {Liz} something like that with cool symbols.
HTML://LIZ
hey! that picture is really pretty=]
Thanksss kels =)
i cant stand it anymore. i want it to be over and i dont feel like waiting for it to 'get better'. i just dont want to feel teh pain anymore and im going to end it. im so sick of nobody listening to me and telling me im stupid and not to 'talk that way'. i just need someone to lsiten. i need someone to ehlp me.
Well, you've come to the right place. Theres tons, litteraly tons of people ready and willing to listen. We are all here for you.
do i have a chance being a cheerleader if i cant do tumbles,pushups (i can do like 2), cartwheels or roundoffs, and i wanted to go for the 9th grade team? and i'm not light enough to be flipped in the air. should i still try out? but i dont want to waste my time or embarse myself... be brutely honest..thanxs
If its a highschool team, like varsity or junior varsity you won't make it. You might make a freshman team (if they have one) depending on how good they are. Tumbling, jumps, stregnth all are really important and without them you have a little chance. Sorry
Okay I really like this song, but I don't know what it is called! It was famous between 2-4 years ago. I remember watching the video on fuse (it's a rock song...or in that category) The music video is of this blue guy, (or maybe he was green?) walking around and there is this dog who gets hurt in the video. The chorus sort of sound like: I'm on a row/but dadeedadeedow
Obviously those aren't the lyrics, BUT PLEASE HELP! I am going crazy!
Thanks!
Hit That- the offspring. The music video is pretty cool.
http://www.plyrics.com/lyrics/offspring/hitthat
my best friend and her ex boyfriend just got back together. i dissagree with teh whole thing. before when they were going out, he cheated on her a couple times and thats why they broke up. well they're togther now. he tells her that he will never do it again but i dont tihnk i can trust him. i dont think i guy can change that fast. i dont want to get in the way of their relationship but i want ot tell my friend that what she is doingg is wrong. she deserves a much better guy than him. what should i tell her? thanks
Try telling her. If she doesn't listen then try again, but don't push her with it. Don't try and controll her relationship because imagine a guy you really like and her trying to get you away from him. Just tell her to be prepaired and make sure she knows theres a chance of geting hurt again. But mostly, be there for her. Getting your heart broken sucks but its even worse when you have no one to confide to. Hope this helped
Yeah I'm happy with my body except that I have a pot belly! My thighs and calves and fine because I play soccer but my stomach is like huge! Well, it's not huge but it's not flat like I want it to be. What can I do to make it flat? It's hard for me to eat healthy because I love junk food but I'm skinny. It only shows up in my tummy a little bit. I eat fruits and stuff but I still need my cookies and brownies. Haha please help me I wanna look good in a bikini!
Try, just really try to not eat as much junk. It really isnt ever good but you can treat yourself once and a while. But just try cutting down, maybe diet pops and candy every once and a while instead of say everyday. Seriously, do crunches! I had a big tummy but I started doing sets of 25 crunches, around 4-6 sets a day. And my stomach really did get smaller. Just try doing alot of crunches, over 100 a day. there are plenty of other stomach exercises.
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/13803082/
Just google flat abs and you'll find bunches of stuff .Hope this helped
how long does it take for a baked potato to bake?
Like a normal potatoe? I just wash it off (incase theres dirt), stab it with a fork all around a few times to let the inside bake, then pop it in the microwave for 3 minutes. Maybe stop it half way through to flip it over. Take it out and poke around if theres any hard spots left. It there is, stab it with a fork in that stop and put it in for another minute or 2. That is Katie style cooking. Hah hope this helped.
well my best friend is like amazing and she is always there for me and she is really nice. we always hang out together. but lately it seems like she only wants to hang out with her boyfriend more than me and my other friend.i cant stand it! i understand their relationship is very important to her but she is like ditching me. for example, i was over at her house. it was me her and her boyfriend. they were like just making out the whole time and like i kept on telling her that likei was getting bored and i want ed to hang out with her and stuff and she was just like no i want to hang out with him. another example is, me and my two best friends wanted to have an all girls weekend. and we were going to go to all these places together. but then she found out that her boyfriend was staying at his moms house for the weekend and so she only wanted to hang out with him and thast what she did. she totally ditched me and my other friend! we were pissed off! i really need help with this because i dont want to lose my best friend because of her boyfriend! xo
I know how you feel. Try just leaving her alone for a little. Maybe she'll miss you and say how she wants to hang out with you. If not, then tell her! Say that its not far when you have to watch them make out and your bord. Shes a horrible friend for doin that to you. She might not notice though, but thats why someones got to tell her. You dont have to yell at her, just say.. "I really hate how you never want to hang out and always ditch us for your boyfriend". She deserves to know what shes doing to you. Hopefully she'll realize shes being a jerk and will go back to how she was. Hope this helped
Okay, I REALLY REALLY need to lost my stomach fat REALLY REALLY soon. And don't say, no, you aren't fat, you just think that. It's not that I think I'm fat, but my stomach sort of sticks out and I kind of want a flatter stomach anyway. Is there a really fast way I can lose it? And I've tried sit-ups. Sometimes, it helps, but once I did it like, every other day for 3 monthes and it didn't seem to help. Our situp bench has an inclines slope too so it really hurts my back. Any other tips?
I do sets of 25 crunches, about over 100 each day. My stomach is pretty flat when I wake up in the morning after doing these. Its really all you need to do. Just if you laying down watching tv , do some crunches. If you can't take 25, go to 20, or 15, 10, etc. Just try doing atleast 100 plus each day and you will see results.
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well there is this one guy who i met. i saw him once in the dark and thought he was ok looking. i started talking to him online and on the phone, i thought he was very sweet and i really liked him. but then i saw him again and found out he isnt so good looking... im not sure what 2 do because i think he is sweet but i dont really think he looks very good. he really likes me though and i dont no what to do....please help
Try hanging out with him in a group of people. If you hang out alone he might get the idea that you like him back. Hopefully if you hang out more you'll get to know him and maybe start liking him. If you still don't like him then you just don't. You shouldn't have to force yourself to like someone. Hope this helped
well this guy that i am going out with
says he loves me and that he cant wait
to have sex with me and stuff! which i
would love to have sex with him but some
times i get worried, does he only want
in my pants or does he really like me?
so my Q is can lust be stronger than love
in a relationship in my case?
thanks katie, you always help :D
It can be. I'm no expert but this is my opinion. I believe that its hard to have one without the other. Try, really try to love someone that you find completely unattractive. People say that you should look on the inside and its shallow to go off looks, but its true! Ask any one if looks matter and im sure they say they matter. And when you lust someone, like say you see a hot guy... if he talked to you wouldn't your stomach drop and you get all happy? And you'd feel sorta love struck right? So I think that it can be stronger at some points. It can depend on the person. Maybe, try making sure its really love before you make any desicions you can't take back. You can even confront him if you want and just tell him you feel that way. Sorry it wasn't much of advice =/. I hope this helped
Ps, thank you =)
the thing is i'm SO DETERMINED when i go to sleep at night and when i'm full, but if i'm hungry, all of a sudden i lose motivation and decide bingeing on junk food is more important than my goal. how do i stop this? i want to lose this weight so bad.
When I eat my final meal which is dinner usually between 5:30-before 8 its hard to not want to snack. If its early like a 5:30 dinner I usually try and get active to burn off what I ate then eat a quick, healthy bedtime snack. I heard things like a cheese stick or a slice of turky is good before bed. If its a late dinner I just drink water to keep me full. Also I brush my teeth earlier so I dont have the earge to eat then brush them again. Hope this helped
alrightt, so there is this guy i like, and hes one of my best guy friends, blah blah usual story, and i turned out liking him in the end. bad thing is, he lives an hour away, and i dont know what he looks like, but i KNOW its him, because hes friends with one of my guy friends at school, and ive talked to him on the phone and i met him back in grade school. he just moved away. but anywho, i talked to him last night, and i kept teasing him about stuff and he got all spazzy, which he never did before. i wonder if what i said got to him, or if he took it seriously? cause i joke around A LOT, and i dont know its just not like him not to take a joke, when he teases me a lot more, and i tease him ONCE, and he freaks out. i dont understand if i should apologize or something, cause before i was like wow i finally got you mad, and i didnt feel bad cause i thought he was kidding when he said he was pissed off, but then again now i have a guilty feeling and its not even a big problem, but its been bothering me..
Just ask him if hes pissed. I know people who get like that. You probably shouldn't be pissed because you're just doing what he does to him... but you still feel guilty. Maybe just apoligize. You mighttt have said something that offended him though. Or hes just sensitive. Hopefully he'll get over it. No biggy
Okay, well I have really crooked teeth and they are turning yellow. My family is on a tight budget so I was told I'm getting braces this summer. Also, I brush my teeth regularly and floss occasionally but this doesn't whiten my teeth. Any ideas what will?
Thanks for the help,
Mimzy*
Crest white strips! Trust me, they work! I just got the crest white strips classic and its only 2 weeks, 2 times a day for 30 minutes. Sure, they can taste bad if you get the gel on your tonge and youve got to be careful not to slide them off your teeth, but they work! Everyone told me my teeth looked really white. They are worth it.
so i really want to make my bf's first time hooking up s[ecial.where can i do it to make him feel comfertable..and letting him just hold me in his arms.anyy ideaS?
Theres bunches of special places. If you want him to remember it, maybe try somewhere in his house like if he has a basement or his room cause then everytime he goes there he should remember it. You can lay out blankets outside (if its nice out) and look at stars. By the fireplace? Hah, theres a bunch of good spots. Try your room. Maybe try and find out what places he likes most so then you can suprise him and go there. Hope this helped
ok so this girl that im not really friend with is taking grad pics before the dance. i reallly really wanna go but idk if shes gonna invite me
Do you have friends that are going? If you are a friend of her friend then just tag along with your friend. You can ask her. Maybe if you have a date and hes friends with her you'll just go with him. If you know each other and don't fight or hate each other she might say yes.
Soo there is this kid that i had met over the summer and we started talking alot and i started to like him and just the other day i finally got the courage to tell him that i liked him and well he never said he did and then he also never said he didnt. we talk alot and from what i can tell and what my friends say that he flirts with me but i just dont know. and i dont know how to bring up the conversation about it again. can you help?
Theres not a "smooth" way to bring up this kind of talk. Unless you think.. "so .. who do you like" is smooth. Hah, but youve just got to try. It's like taking off a bandaid- get it over with quick. If your going to ask a question on this topic then make sure it will lead into a deeper conversation. Dont say something then be like, "soo..." cause its a waste. Try saying.. "so howve eveyrthing" and hopefully he'll say something that can lead to a conversation about who he likes. Or you can just ask "hows the love life" hah something lame like that. But if you really want to know you'd just ask. Hope this helped
What is a quick easy way to lose some Tummy flab below the belly button? i Am physically fit besides a very little bt of jiggle. i just want it to go away! any tips?
Crunches! Ive got flab under my belly button, pretty much all girls do because when they have kids they need extra stuff in that area. But I do sets of 25 crunches over 100 a day. And they do work! Just do sets of 25 if your laying down and watching tv. You can always do throw downs (when you lay on your back, keep your legs straight and bring them close to the ground then back up). Holding hollow positions work too. Lay on your back and fold into a V and hold it. Hope this helped! If you do these everyday you should see results