well this guy that i am going out with
says he loves me and that he cant wait
to have sex with me and stuff! which i
would love to have sex with him but some
times i get worried, does he only want
in my pants or does he really like me?
so my Q is can lust be stronger than love
in a relationship in my case?
thanks katie, you always help :D
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? bLue_in_tHe_faCe answered Sunday May 6 2007, 8:53 pm: It can be. I'm no expert but this is my opinion. I believe that its hard to have one without the other. Try, really try to love someone that you find completely unattractive. People say that you should look on the inside and its shallow to go off looks, but its true! Ask any one if looks matter and im sure they say they matter. And when you lust someone, like say you see a hot guy... if he talked to you wouldn't your stomach drop and you get all happy? And you'd feel sorta love struck right? So I think that it can be stronger at some points. It can depend on the person. Maybe, try making sure its really love before you make any desicions you can't take back. You can even confront him if you want and just tell him you feel that way. Sorry it wasn't much of advice =/. I hope this helped
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