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~A little Advice for the broken hearts~
You are afraid and hurt and you dont know what to do. You feel empty and alone, like the whole world has just ended. You have a hole in your heart one that feels like it can never be repaired, but just know that in time that hole will be gone. Getting your heart broken is like getting a deep cut. It hurts really bad, and no matter what you do you cant stop thinking about it because you know its there and its hurting, but with a few stitches and a little tlc (friends and family helping you through) and some antibiotic ointment (ice cream) soon that cut will only be a scar (a memory) it will always be there but it wont hurt anymore, you are strong and you can make it through this!!

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So I am 14 going to be 15 and I have been told many times that I am an amazing singer. I love to sing and I am sure that it is what I want to do. I play piano and guitar too. Anyway, I want some ideas of how to get in the music industry. I don't care if it makes me famous or not I just want to sing and get some stage experience. The reason I am starting so young is I want to get a head start on it. Any ideas on what I could do?

you can record a few cds and send them to different radio stations... go sing at church, also you can sing at community events ... someone will notice how awesome you are and want to help you out :)

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Hey so i havnt dated a guy for a while or really had a thing for anyone i wanted to have a relationship but i started talking to this new guy.. We have been talking 4 days straight and he subtly flirts with me i think saying he like a girl thats silly and im cute and he like talking to me so my question is any tips to tell if this is either going to go anywhere and if he is more just wanting to have sex..Advice would be nice.
He has a bit of a bad history with a lot of things but his life is getting straightened up i am starting to like him a little just wondering your thoughts. and advice.

My advice is to tell him that if he wants to continue talking then he needs to show you that this isnt just a "hit it and quit it" kind of thing... go out on dates, hang out more... and if you want to know if he is not just there for sex... dont give him any and see if he stays around good luck

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I am a 13 yr old girl.Okay so my boyfriend and I recently broke up because he smokes weed and drinks and cuts. Anyway, when we broke up I took it really hard because I didn't understand why us broke up with me. Then like 5 days later I get a voicemail. from him saying sorry for something but I didst know what for. So I finally get hold of him and ask him what that was all about he tells me that he was gonna kill himself, and of corse I say you broke up with me. And he was like not because of you. So I was like well why, you know you can tell me anything we'be been friends since 5th grade. (We are now in 8th) and he didn't tell me. Now whenever we talk its just "hey" " what's up" "nothing much you". And that's pretty much the end of it. So now I like don't know wjato do I've told him how I'm sad that we aren't best friends anymore and he is like we are I still love you. But its just not the same as it used to be. And o jist don't lnow what to do anymore. Please help and sorry for it being so long :/

sit down and explain to him how you are feeling and tell him that there needs to be some change you need more communication and time with him... if he doesnt understand and is not willing to change then I suggest you move on good luck I hope everything works out

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I'm 15 and I'm going into 10th grade I've been in high school for a year now and I go to a VERY small school...and everyone except for 3 people hate me because of one mistake I made 2 years ago. And I can't really apologize to someone because its everyone who hates me because of it. I don't want to go another 3 years with everyone hating me..I know there's always gonna be someone that hates me but I don't know what to do. I've always had very low self esteem and I've always thought I was really ugly and I don't know how to change it. I've gone to councilors and they haven't helped at all. I go in my room almost everyday I think about that mistake and I often cry about it.I don't know how to fix it and I don't know if I even can fix it!?!

If you did something wrong than it is your job to apologize... things might get better if you do.... if people dont forgive you then that is on them you did the right thing... every one makes mistakes and they have no right to hold it againtst you forever.... good luck and dont cry things will work out

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i dnt want to sound all jealous or like a gf that doesnt let her bf have friends or anything but today i was at the mall right? Just hanging with my pops. and outof no where my bf is walking with some chick, i wouldnt really care but the werid thing is that he has been ignoring my texts for the past two days. so i dunno what to believe . they were not holding hands or anything .. what a relif.. but i was thinking , maybe he is cheating on me bcuz he was at the mall with another chick,hasnt texted me in 2 days and maybe he waz busy so mabye he couldnt of texted me but being at the mall is not busy. o ya he texted me saying y i didnt say hi and all and said that they r jus friends . can anyone help me ? do u think his cheating ? thanks for reading

Your boyfriend should have atleast told you that he was going to be hanging out with someone else... and him not answering your text is not right... I advise you confront him and talk to him about how your feeling and if he doesnt seem to care than its time to leave him and move on good luck and I wish the best for you

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My boyfriend and I have been together for three years now. We're not at what I would think is the age to get married. We're 20 and I've got a lot of school plans for myself before that happens. He has no interest in leaving and has said he wants kids in the future but my issue is that I feel that when the time comes that I feel like getting married, maybe in 3-5 years, then he won't find the need to. Are there men that want to get married for the sake of being married or do they do it because women want it? I feel like by then, 6-8 years of being together, he won't see the point.

When my husband asked me to marry him although I said yes I was not ready to get married right away... Engaged to get married seemed good enough... my husband would have waited for me to be ready no matter how long it took... but he wanted to marry me because he loved me and he wanted me to be his wife... I am sure that no matter how long it takes your boyfriend will want to marry you if he really loves you :)

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This guy I love is 24 and in special needs. He is at my level of thinking and is an amazing guy, funny sweet caring and everything I want in a guy. But like I said he's 24 and no one thinks I should have anything to do with him. But if he thinks like an 8th grader its ok right? What do I do?????! Idk if he even loves me, but he's given me gifts so.........???????!!!!

I am sorry but they are right they guy is too old for you if you really want to be with him the best thing to do is wait until you are 18.... If you dont than he can go to jail... and you dont want that good luck and best wishes

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So I started work about a month ago at a day care making 7.40 an hour well I work through the county and they are one pay period behind which means it will take four weeks to get paid instead of two however it only has one pay period on the first check and I will get one check after I stop working. Well my boss lost my payment information and needed to see my documents again to verify I am legal and I had to fill it out again however this was after I had been working for two weeks and I am curious if this means I will get paid the twentieth instead of the fifth now?
I thought I'd get paid the twentieth but yesterday I received my accela pay card in the mail. However their is no money on it yet but I am anxious to know if it is going to appear this next week or if I will have to wait an extra pay period. Help please (:

You might want to go ant talk to your boss about this... It would all depend on when she decides to put it through and pay you... if it were me I would ask good luck

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My best friend, has another group of friends she hangs out with, without me, which is FINE. But, what I don't like, is if one of them is like alone/not doing anything, she will be like "can so and so join us" and i want to be like no. she can't. you don't include me, why should i be nice enough to include her?

what do you think? should i say something? pretty soon she'll be going to college at the end of summer. but its just irriatating, and all my other friends HATE her.

Tell her how you feel... if she really cares for you and is a good friend she would want to know... she shouldnt make you feel unwanted or not included in anything good luck and best wishes

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Im really getting tired of girls acting like they know guys, "oh, he doesnt care because hes a man,and men care less about stupid little stuff, men move on faster" yada yada yada, they are human beings that have feelings, and just because they dont have the same exact body organ that we have doesnt mean anything,atleast thats what i think,lol.. anyways, me and my ex broke up like 1 month and a half ago, all his fault,all the way.. and hes kind of in that confused "phase" where he doesnt know what he wants , and i should give him some time,but i refused, we were together for a long time.. he bought a necklace, half for him and half for me, it says something very special between the both of us,and we both always used to wear it, we said it kept us Connected,i see him around, and he still wears it, all the time, and he doesnt even bother to tuck it in his shirt, he keeps it out all the time.. what do you think this means? if he didnt wanna be with me, why does he still wear it..

He may be wearing it because he still cares about you and loves you... maybe its not a desparite "here take me im yours" kind of signal but he might wear it because he misses you and he wants to feel the "connection" again. Maybe try talking to him... he might be afraid that you want him to leave you alone... good luck and best wishes

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I'm 15 right now and I'm really into the Emo look...I love screamo bands and i like to wear black a lot I also like to put a lot of dark makeup on my face not to much but enough. But my parents and my friends hate it..Should I change? I really enjoy it and I'm happy with how it looks, but my parents want me to change. and none of my friends are into that kinda stuff. What should I do? or How could I help my parent change there mind?

You should go to them and explain to the why you enjoy it and why you do it... your parents are probably worried that you are feeling like you are dressing (dark and depressed) and they want you to be a happy person so maybe they are just getting the wrong idea try communicating with them no yelling or fighting just calm talking dont get upset if they have questions or comments that you dont agree with just talk about it.... good luck

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so i hadnt really noticed it until the past two weeks. but i have been having to go to the bathroom/pee every hour to two hours. during the day night everything. i stopped drinking coffee. stopped drinking so much water. but it doesnt seem to help.my blood sugar was tested a month or 2 ago for another reason. i dont think it would have change this quickly would it? should i be worried? should i make a doctor appointment? anyone have any idea what could be wrong?

Well If you are a girl you could possible be pregnant the babies like to make you pee a lot haha... but also you could have a urinary tract infection as well... if it burns or is hurting when you go then that is most likly what you have call your doctor if it is a UTI you dont want to leave it untreated it may get worse

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How do i write letter to my boyfriend's mother?

Well to help you answer this I am going to need a little more information ... like what are you writing about? If you can some how let me know I am sure I could help you out with this :)

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does it matter what kind of lemon juice you use?

and is it okay if you use lemon juice on little bums on your forhead... will it still work or does it only work on scars or something?

and if it does work can i just put it all over my face?

and when you stop using it will it all come back?

please answer and thank you!(:

No it doesnt matter as long as it is lemon juice and yes you can put it on the little bumps (toothpaste also works on the little bumps) and it is known to treat pinmples and scars so its pretty cool

here is a sight that can give you a couple different ways to use the lemon juice :)

http://www.your-best-acne-treatment.com/lemon-juice-remedy.html

also one your face has cleared you are going to want to continue with a face cleanser or the lemons just not as often because if you dont take care of it the acne will come back good luck and feel free to come back if you need more advice

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when you use mayo on your hair do you wet it frist or leave it dry before doing it?

Dry seems best because when it is wet the mayo runs everywhere :)

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hm, well i've been hurt by manslags and guys who act like dicks but never really heartbroken although i've felt it. I started texting this guy he wasn' anything special but seemed sweet and i didn't think he'd hurt me. at first he was sacry but sweet. but recently he hasn't been texting me as much and is sarcy and mean. he avoids being sweet anymore and i feel like im desperate because i have very low self confidence. saying that I can do better but ive turned a few guys down and i haven't had a bf in 2 years which makes me look pathetic. but i really like this guy although we didn't talk much at school, I say hi and if i explain a bit of how i feel he says im gullable and he wants to text me. But he winds me up smokes weed and isn't the best looking. im starting to get over him but thats not what I want. I told him i liked him ages ago, but he thought i didn't like him anymore, i don't know if hes stopped texting becaus hes not interested or what. but he probably isn't i just cba with relationships :'(

you are not pathetic at all... maybe it is just that this is not the right guy for you... why dont you try getting involved with a differnt guy there is someone out there for you... dont let this guy be mean to you and if he scares you its not a good idea to stay around him... stay away from drugs its not a good thing to get into... good luck

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My Girl friend and I used to indulge in fore·play and now she force me to cum on her face and she's forcing me to have an oral sex.
So is there a chance pregnancy. since we never had intercourse

Forcing?? I think you may have used that word wrong but no thee is no chance of pregnancy

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The first 3 are more recent pictures of me. Please send me some pictures of hair cuts. I don't want to loose to much lenght though.And how old would you guess i am by looking at the pictures?

http://www.goodhousekeeping.com/beauty/virtual-haircut-makeover

here is a link for a virtual haircut you just upload your picture and try out new haircuts before actually doing it to see how it will look on you good luck this program it fun btw ... oh and it is free

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So- theres a friend of mine who Ive known for three years, Im 18, hes 20, we met in high school and when we talk its all day, every day. Everyone we meet thinks we're perfect for each other, and hes asked me out a few times over the course of our friendship, but I wasnt ready for that and I didnt want to lead him on, so I made sure to keep it honest and simple. So three years later he starts dating an acquaintance of mine, and about a month into it I realize; Im graduating and Im ready for that kind of relationship. So I tell him how I feel. While he told me he wasnt breaking up with her, (who I might add, screwed him after 3 weeks. hes 1 of 4 guys. Shes 18.) if they ever were to break up thered be no one else out there for him, (and a maybe in the future we could be together but- line) and continued to talk about how weve never been "just friends" for the next two hours before we had to go to bed. The next day we fought over the fact that I wont play #2 when he obviously likes me, and I dont deserve to be a back-up plan. The fight ended with a resolution of we're just friends, and shes my gf. I purposefully ignore him the next day, and the next morning, he tells the gf. Great. So after a week or so of barely talking- gf goes on vacation for a month. I text him like usual (although I am always making the first move) and things are normal, with him dropping some hints and using the 'best friend' thing a lot. But he never stalls the conversations- we actually have GREAT conversation. I stop about two days before she comes back. Gf comes back from vaca, I try to text him about day two after shes back- barely any reply. I finally just get mad, because he calls himself my 'best friend' but ignores me, and havent really talked to him since.

I know these two and I highly doubt theyre compatible. Weve gone through stages of not talking after I had written him off and hes come back twice before. So my question is- any ideas what the future may hold?

Right now the boy is in a relationship so the best thing to do out of respect for him and his gf is to step back and just be friends... if they dont work out then try again you never know what the future may hold but if he really likes you and if he and this girl break up you may have a good chance good luck and best wishes

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Two days back,My husband and my friend had sex with me together in the same night. But now I'm worried because In case I get pregnant, Will there be a problem with my baby because they were two peoples indulged in sex with me.

actually yes having sex with multiple partners puts you at an even highr risk for sexually transmitted diseases and this can hard not only you but your baby as well

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