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~A little Advice for the broken hearts~
You are afraid and hurt and you dont know what to do. You feel empty and alone, like the whole world has just ended. You have a hole in your heart one that feels like it can never be repaired, but just know that in time that hole will be gone. Getting your heart broken is like getting a deep cut. It hurts really bad, and no matter what you do you cant stop thinking about it because you know its there and its hurting, but with a few stitches and a little tlc (friends and family helping you through) and some antibiotic ointment (ice cream) soon that cut will only be a scar (a memory) it will always be there but it wont hurt anymore, you are strong and you can make it through this!!

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(Rating: 5) Thank you! I feel stupid for believing. :)
(Rating: 5) i am sorry i say gal wrong i am from india please dont judge me for having not the best english. :(
(Rating: 5) I can tell from reading your column that you really know what you are talking about. Thank you so much!
(Rating: 4) Thanks for answering! I've told my mum about one of my friends, I'm going to tel her about the other tonight, she said that if it gets any worse then she'll tell their parents (one of which who already knows)... It took me over two months to tell my mum about the depression, so I can't guaranty, that I'll tell her straight away- if I do... I know I should tell her, but her sister already self harmed and she literally told the doctor I know my daughter would never do anything like that, and I'd feel like I was betraying her if she knew... So I'll try, but honestly- I probably won't have the courage to, and I'll try my hardest not to self harm again, but again- no garantys, thank you so much for your advice!
(Rating: 5) thank you! this really helped me out a lot :)
(Rating: 4) Thank you (:
(Rating: 5) Thanks It makes me feel so much stronger reading that, you have no idea how much it helps so thank you, I will try to be strong and stand up to my fears,
(Rating: 5) Hi there! Well, actually, I didn't send that to you... Here is what happened: About a year ago when that question was posted, I dropped a note in the inbox of the user who was mentioned in the question. What happeend next is hilarious: The user just returned to teh site, answered the question I pointed her to, and accidentally passed this question on with the "can't answer this?" tool. :-) I have deleted the other copies, and I guess I better build in something that makes it so people can't forward inboxes that were sent by moderators. First time this has ever happened! Sorry for the inconvenience.
(Rating: 5) You are just simply AWESOME! Thank you for your incredible reply which helped me more than I can even tell you! Thank you! :)
(Rating: 4) Thank you for your advice, she's had this habit before I was born. And its not like I dont want her to live with because of that, I just want to be grown and do grown things without my mother being there. I dont want her to think we're going to live together forever because she cant work.
(Rating: 5) Thanks for the answer, the congrats and the babycenter suggestion!! I'm already a "regular" at that site and I love it! You just told me exactly what I needed to hear so I can leave the guilt behind and enjoy this awesome opportunity like this one, THANK YOU!!!
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much! This advice really made me feel like I have can cope up with all of this:)
(Rating: 5) Absolutely right on, you clarified the issue to its simplest components, which helped us talk about it without blame or judgment.
(Rating: 5) thank you! you saved my life and i wanted to come back and say THANK YOU!
(Rating: 5) that's a great point you made. Thanks!
(Rating: 5) Thanks
(Rating: 2) Thank you
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for your advice :) It means alot.
(Rating: 5) thanks :)
(Rating: 4) Thanks!!
(Rating: 4) Thanks for your help! While some of your advice I probably won't follow (sorry), sone of it is really good and will probably help me! :)
(Rating: 4) was great advice thank you
(Rating: 5) We ended up breaking up today. But thank you so much for your advice!
(Rating: 3) Well they have creams for scar removal. So u can avoid that. And I do love someone a whole lot. I still just don't thin life is all tht worth it
(Rating: 5) Thank you.
(Rating: 5) thanks but apparently,IM TAKING ONE FOR THE TEAM and protecting his FRIENDS!..and im not sorry for what i did..and still yet..all i get is FUCK YOU!..so,what should my response be to that?????
(Rating: 5) Okay! Thanks Y-Mom! :)
(Rating: 5) yep, told her, i feel better, she is on a "break" while she thinks about this. i hope she makes the right choice, but whatever makes her happy makes me happy
(Rating: 5) I listened to Mean, and I really felt better.. the song is almost like my life. I just hope that someday my life will get better and that I will have at least one person I can always depend on. But thank you for the advice :).
(Rating: 5) Thanks!!
(Rating: 5) thank you so much, I think you're absolutely right. :)
(Rating: 1) im 19 about to be a sophmore in college. please dont lecture me. weve been hooking up for 4 months. ive been on birthcontrol for 4 years and have never had unprotected sex with any of the 6 guys ive been with so dont try to act like im 12 and dont know what im doing.
(Rating: 5) thank you
(Rating: 5) Thank you, I agree with you mostly, I suppose if he has changed then I shouldn't hold it against him :)
(Rating: 5) thank you so much. you're amazing.
(Rating: 5) Thank you very much, you explained it in a way that I could actually UNDERSTAND. The egg thing helped immensely. 8D A big thank you to your pastor friend too. You have no idea how relieved I am now. -3-! You rock, God bless!
(Rating: 5) thank you :) i think that would be the best option also :D
(Rating: 4) Thnx. I find boy shorts in comfortable so I'm sticking with thongs
(Rating: 5) Thnx now I understand
(Rating: 4) I wear them because they feel way better than regular undies and they are SO comfy!
(Rating: 5) Thnx for your advice! sorry I keep asking. I don't go around telling my friends and I am not planning to they all say they are gross! My thongs are perfect size not to tight not to loose
(Rating: 4) thanks (: but i live in an extremely small town, so there is literally no options for friends... im kinda stuck :\
(Rating: 4) Thnx for the advice! Well I didn't wear them all the time when I was ten, just every now and then
(Rating: 5) Thnx for your answer!
(Rating: 5) AWESOME ADVICE! Love to know when people go out and do a little research to help people out. Probably some of the best advice I have gotten in a while! Thank you!
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much, you are amazing.
(Rating: 5) What a confusing situation. Thank you so much, though!
(Rating: 5) thanks
(Rating: 5) Thanks for the ideas, but I'm working on getting him to the point where he can get me there entirely on his own. God ideas anyway though.
(Rating: 4) thanks
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much... =)
(Rating: 5) thanks :D though i kinda told him that i didnt want to have such a relationship like that with him considering we're not together and I didn't want him to hinder my feelings for anyone. He barely talks to me now, so I guess that was the only thing he was interested in.
(Rating: 5) Thank you. You are right. I already knew the answer it is just so hard to let go. Thank you for you advice :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much, and it is really hard for me right now...
(Rating: 5) thank you so much for your compassion and excellent advice :)
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