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well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

ok there used to be this movie on disney channel, i think it was wish upon a star or something ? idk, but anyway,it was about 2 sisters who wished they switched places and they did, etc.
well could someone tell me the name of it, and since its NEVER on tv anymore, can you rent it ?
thanks

yes it is called "wish upon a star" i lvoe that movie and i hate the fact that it doesnt come on anymore.

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i was just wondering if you can give me any advice on a good place to take a girl out on a first date. which would be better,the movies or the mall. if a movie what one would be the best. if the mall what oculd i do there.

a fun place to go besides the movies and ythe mall is to the park. (if your into sports) you can play her a game of basketball or w.e) or you can take a walk around the park and talk ad something else you can add to that is make it like a lil picnic. hope i help.
*~Stephanie~*

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What do you think is the average age to get your first kiss?

well i first got my first kiss at 13 so i am thinkin it should around 12-18.
*~Stephanie~*

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14/f. My boyfriend just turned 17. I am a virgin, he isn't. He's had sex with 2 people. We have been together for probably about 4 months. He respects me and I know he loves me and always wants to spend time with me. I know that he wants to have sex but tries his best to repect what I want. I sort of want to have sex, I know he loves me and cares about me. But there is another guy who I talked to before I knew him and he was in love with me. For some reason I stopped talking to him. And I'm just confused about what I want. Please give me advice, and when you have sex, do you immediately start to bleed your first time? and how much? I will rate.

it isnt always the first time you have sex you bleed. it could be your 3rd or even 6th time when it bleeds. it just depends on how big a guys penis is and if it hard enough to pop your cherry to then bleed.and no there shouldnt be a whole lot of blood just a little. and if i were you i would wait on sex. sex isnt everything and should be put on hold. think about it what if you get pregnant. or what happens after the sex he will want more and then sooner or later u will get pregant.hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok.soo i had sex kinda not for long at all or nothing.first time,no condom.besides noo period what would be first signs of b/n pregant just in case.

well if you havent started your period at all then there is a little less chance of you being pregnant. but if you havent had your period for a month then i would get a pregnance test and check to seee if you are pregnant or not. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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I picked up a free copy of AOL from Office Depot, one of those free for 90 day things. I installed it about two weeks ago, but uninstalled it after half an hour because I did not like it. According to every website and all my friends, you cannot remove AOL completely from your computer unless you reformat, and my dad has the Windows XP disk, so I do not want to tell him about my idiocy with AOL.


Two friends told me that if I did a System Restore, AOL would be gone. I've found System Restore on my computer, but I can't figure out how to work it.


Any tips or past experiences would be excellent.

shit i have had my computer for a year and a half and still cant uninstall aol 100% of my computer. i have tryed everything. my next step is gettin help from a professional. system restore only works if you installed something small and want to go back in time to a date that you didnt have it on. aol will not go away wit that.
*~Stephanie~*

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will a girl get pregnant if you have sperm on your penis but do not blow it in her.

if it doesnt touch her viginia then no. if it does there is a lil possibility but not much.
*~Stephanie~*

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y friend has a new bf and they have only been togther for three days and they have already kissed and well when she hangs around him she pretty much ignores us and well when she is older and she meets a guy then i dono she is 12/f and i am 13/f when she is older i hope she makes the rite decisions with a guy cause if she goes this fast when she is this old then well think about when she is older i just need some advice the guy is 13 and is a grade older than her and he is going to break up with her and she never got broken up with before i need advice on whether if ui should warn her or what

this is kinda of difficutl because you dont want her to be mad at you about it but then he dont want to be the one causing the probelms.my answer to this is just hint her about it. like in a joking way tell her that he will break up with her. and when he does leave her be a good friend and help her out. and about her doing things to early it kinda depends. if she kissing him on the check or a peck on the lips that ok but if it is the whole kissing then you got to talk to your friend and tell her to slow down. i mean i didnt kiss my bf until the third DATE.. so yea..
*~Stephanie~*

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I went out to have lunch with a male friend of mine. During our meal he asked me where I was going to meet Mr. Right, and that Prince Charming wasn't going to knock on my door. He also said that if I was still single in 5 years that I wouldnt be happy. The whole time he was looking at me romantically. At the end of our meal I applied a fresh coat of lipgloss and he couldn't take his eyes of me, like he was getting turned on. When we left the restaurant it was raining and he held his umbrella over my head.
Do you think that all the questions he was asking me was him hinting around that he was interested in me? I think he was thinking long term, why else would he be talkig about 5 years from now?

hey girly! from everythign he said he is hinting you that he likes. and tryign to tell you sicne he has known you and gottne to eb friend that eh wants to yourboyfriend and be there not only as a friend but as a lover.
*~Stephanie~*

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well i have been on advicenators for like 5 months now....and at first i only gave people advice..but then i started asking stuff and lately i ask a ton of questions and dont really answer as many as i used to...will my account get deleted because of that?

nope it cant.
*~Stephanie~*

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on the phone bill does it show outgoing numbers and does it show imcoming numbers?

verison doesnt. cingular does. if the house phone no. only long distance it shows.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay. since i cant let my computer have any viruses.

what will happen if i download limewire, download 10 songs or so and then uninstall it. then just install it whenever i need it.

im willing to do anything not to get a virus. because my mom said if i crash my computer one more time then i cant get it fixed anymore..
and walmart.com has nothing to chose from!

thanks..

download it once and keep it. it doesnt ahve any virus. honestly i have had limewire for 2 years now and nothing has happened. it is totol awesome and the only thing i would auggest is for you to have a firewall.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey! I'm going to Disney World on Friday morning because we don't have school on Friday or the following Monday. We're driving back on Monday. It's a 7-8 hour drive. Well, I found out today that we're having a huge test next Wednesday! Since I'll be in Disney World, I don't know if I'll have time to study a lot, and there is a ton of information for the test (like at least 5 pages typed). What should I do in order to have fun and be prepared?

i agree witht he person below me. take the information with you and study on the way there and back. and then you can studdy on tuesday some more.
*~Stephanie~*

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i am frightened to drive behind the wheel with the instructor. i'm afraid of the instructors yelling at me. please help, i need serious answers. how can i make myself less scared?

first and most important relax everything will be fine. just do what you are told and dont eb so tens or stress out about it. hun the best way to solve this is to relax everything will be ok.
*~Stephanie~*

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i was wondering how you get songs, like mp3's that are already download on your computer, to play on your xanga. is there any sites i have to go to to host it? i rate 5's.

angelfire.com
that website you can host it. or if you want go to singingfihs.com and find your song and get the link for it.
*~Stephanie~*

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Well my gf broke up with me then the next day made out with her ex. then me and her loved eachother again and we kissed and stuff and had a good time. then she told me she doesnt want love or a serious relationship but the next day has a bf that she had just told me the week before how she hated him so much. so i guess the question is really just what should i do next try to persue her or forget about her cuz ive tried that and its workin i guess but i still cant just forget her shes saved me from too much and has been there when i needed her but now we seem detached but i still luv her so idk just want some opinions please.

my advice to you is forget this girl. she playa all those guys. and you shouldnt eb played like that. leave her and find your self a lady and not a girl that only goes after lust.
*~Stephanie~*

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this girl i like has a boyfriend. i was gong to ask her out but he beat me too the punch. im not one to usually get jealous but i was going to ask her out the same day he did. now i cant help but feel jealous because i really, really like this girl. i dont know what to do. I will rank high:-)

try talking to her about it and telling ehr how you feel about it. dont be shy to tell a girl how you it shows that you are strong and a man when you do. =)
*~stephanie~*

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how would you define cheating??

kissing, sex, multiple relationships, etc etc??

i was juss curious.

thanks!!

everything on that list you have. anything having ot deal with doing something else with another guy that shouldnt be done unless it is your boyfriend.

personally i think when soemone cheats on another it means the person that did it was to chicken to tell his boyfriend or girlfriend that they didnt want to be with them and wanted the other person to feel bad. but that is just me.

*~Stephanie~*

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ok so my boyfriend always asks me what i like about him and why i like him. but come to think of it i can't really put it into works like hes always there for me hes caring.. but i cant put it into words its actually really hard. i know this probably sounds corney but do u have any reasons why u like your bf or whatever just to sum it up?

finally someone else who understand me. to me i can never put it in words. my boyfriend is wonderful.. he always makes me smile, laugh and never cry( only tears of joy) i love spending time with him. i feel like he can protect me form the whole world. sometimes when i do get mad of him not callin me back right when i hear his voice and he tells me he loves i fall twice as hard. i get sad when i cant talk to him or see him as much as i want to. but i know that in the end he is BEST friend and lover. he means the world to me.

one more thing to prove to your bf you love him show him. actions mean more then words. i am not telling you to have sex with him if your not ready. i havent even done that and i have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. just show him with a kiss or by doing somethign sweet.

hope that helps you out. if you need anything else on this subject feel free to drop it in my inbox and will help you out with whatever you need.
*~Stephanie~*

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This guy that I really like in my senior class has been dating this girl who behind his back makes fun of him. He is so in love with her, he'll buy her a dozen roses for no occasion and bring them to school for her. I also heard he spent hundreds of dollars on a bracelet for her birthday. I know what she's been saying behind his back because she's in my french class. The other girls wanted to see her new bracelet and she just rolled her eyes and said "this is the THIRD one he's bought me"!. She is such a superficial bitch. She's also said she's only with him because his family has money. She's also a bigot, I've heard her making derogatory comments about homosexuals and african americans. I also heard she's cheating on him. I don't know what he sees in her. She is very popular and pretty, but has the personality and kindness of a dead squid. He would be heartbroken if he knew what she said about him and did behind his back. He is such a nice guy, I feel sorry for him. Should I tell him or just keep my mouth shut? Or, before I forget, HIS friends make fun of him behind his back for how hard he's fallen for her.

if you tell him it might just ruin your relationship with him. how about you try flirting wit him and try getting him to like you so it will slowly faded away his love for his current girlfriend.
*~Stephanie~*

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