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Hey, I love to sing, i take voice lessons and stuff so i know a lot about music, so if you have ne questions about music in singing or instruments, I would be more than happy to answer them. you can IM or email me(IM is below) I am also a poetry and song writing fanatic so you can ask questions about that too. My favourite topics are music and bois (two most difficult exciting things)I am practically happier than i have ever been but i do know what it is like to go through really rough times. I have had a series of extreme problems that i got over and i would like to help anyone get over their problems. I am mostly good with people with any sort of personal problem like an eating disorder or ADD or something like that.

You can ask me anything, i'll answer it.

FUTURE: GONNA BE A SINGER (SO REMEMBER ME)

AGE: 14

FAV SONG: IMPOSSIBLE, STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN

FAV BAND: LED ZEPPELIN (CHRISTINA AGUILERA)

HAIR: ALWAYS DIFFERENT LOL

~*LIZZY*~

advice

I like this guy named Joey and he is an 8th grader and I am a 6th grader and I really like him but I don't know what to do! People are like ask him out but I don't know what to say what should I do?

It can't hurt to ask him out. If he says no it is probably because of the age difference but don't worry, in high school, age isn't that big of a deal, so wait till your a freshman. Good Luck
Lizzy

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i am really good friends with this guy. i never really thought about it, but he comes up to me one day and tells me that he likes me. now, dont get me wrong, but hes a really nice guy and i will feel really bad about saying no when he asks me out. worst of all, my neighbors are his aunt, uncle, and cousins. im basically in a loose-loose situation. what do i do?

Just tell him you would rather be friends with him. Tell him not to waste his time trying to get you because you would much rather be friends. Then ask him out as a friend, sort of like a test to see if you do like him.
Lizzy

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I really like this guy and I asked him out yesterday and he said Not Today what does that mean?




FRom PLease HElp ME

Not Today? Well that is weird. Ummm, you don't wanna seem desperate so do what i do, get your friends involved. Somehow, good friends always can tell if a guy likes their friends
Good Luck
Lizzy

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i went to camp with this guy and i slowely fell in love with him. i liked him for three years and now we rarely talk anymore. im not sure if i like him in a crush way, i like him more as a brother. i miss us talking. i dont want to go up to him and start randomly talking, i'd look like an idiot.what should i do???

Just ask him a simple question that would just take a second to say and casually turn it into a conversation. Good Luck Hon
Lizzy

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I'M MOVING BUT THE GUY I LUV STILL LIVES HERE AND I AM MOVING TO CANADA BUT I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO?

That is a tough one. Ok, this is gonna sound dumb. I saw this one episode of Boy Meets World and Topanga was gonna move but instead she stayed with her aunt so she could still be with Cory. Why don't you stay with your mom for a few weeks and then see which you like better. Hey, you never know if you fall in love with someone where your mom lives. Good Luck
Lizzy

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There is this boy that keeps calling me. He called me 5 times in 2 days and left a message asking me out for the whole world to hear. I told one of his friends to stop calling me..gently though. His friend was a little harsh and i don't think he likes me anymore. What should I do?

Well, do you like him? There's a question, but also, wouldn't what he did be considered horassing if you asked him to stop? Answer those two and your problem is solved!

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I am caught in a love triangle I like 2 guys that go to my school they are both my friends but I don't know what to do Who should I choose. THe person my age or the 8th grader?Plese help

well, age really doesn't matter. I think though, if you want to go by age then you should choose the person your age because it is easier that way so there is nocontroler of the relationship like there would be if there was one older one younger. Of course, if you really like both of them, find out if one likes you back, it will be easier that way. If they both like you, go on a date with both and see which one you like better. Good luck
Lizzy

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I have a boyfriend, David. His ex-girlfriend is my best friend. I made the mistake of allowing him to come over while she was over. I know that he has no feelings for her what-so-ever, but she likes him. She was hanging all over him. I couldn't get her to stop.Now she is saying how she wants him back, she won't get him, but how do I get her to leave us alone without being mean?

Just tell her that if she is truly your friend then she would let him and you be with the person you truly like. Good Luck with that hon!
Lizzy

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Does anyone else ever get an itchy spot on their hand that, even when you scratch, doesn't go away?

HOW CAN I MAKE THE ITCHING STOP!?! Its brutal.

put ice on it. don't scratch but don't let it near any heat okay
Lizzy

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well i used to live with my step mom. she was very abusive in many ways (ie) telling me i was worthless, throwing things at me, forgeting about me all kinds of thing she once made me stand in a corner from sunrise to sunset for 6 days straight but im getting off topic...im now no longer living there i was able to move in with my father who i realized that i wanted to live with after i could see through all the brainwashing done by my mother.... now its been a few months since i last saw her let alone talk to her...yet after all of the pains she has caused me i keep trying to reachout and make contact with her. i called her to wish her a happy new year and merry christmas and she never called me back to even say hi. yet im still filled with a conpulsion to call her once more and try all over agian. each time i do this im thrown into a depression that is hard to get out of. should i keep trying to reach out or should i go about it another way. please help

lost in fl.

Your stepmom was probably just angry with something going on in her life and has no one else to take it out on but you. I think she probably was embarassed for doing all the stuff she did to you so she doesn't really want to make contact with you. Tell her you are still frightened by her but you are trying to still devolope some sort of relationship so you can start over again. Good Luck
Lizzy

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Okay, So there is this teacher at school who is always triing to get into a students business and it's so anoying. Like about two weeks ago he made this girl stay after class to have a talk, so I decided to snoop and he saying things like you don't have to quit eating to be beautiful and I'm thinking "does he think she anorixic or something cause she isn't." I mean I see her eat all the time. I think something needs to be done. what do you think should happen?

I think that the teacher is just being needy and wanting to help people who don't even have problems. I also think either you or that girl should have a talk with him to tell him that she is not anorexic if she eats all the time. By the way, that teacher is a complete moron!
Good Luck
Lizzy

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Um...I'm sorry but I'm not quite clear on what oral sex is...or ejaculation...it's all so confusing because I thought oral sex was simply saying the actions, not actually doing them. I didn't know you could get HIV and all of that stuff from it. Can someone please explain it to me???
From~
Curious

Ok, it is not something to go around doing all the time and you will learn about it in health class before you are old enough to do it anyway, otherwise, if you don't take my advice, you will definately end up with HIV or AIDS. Believe me, if you don't know what it means, you aren't old enough, make the right decision.
Lizzy

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Last week for some reason I'm still trying to find I kissed my best friend. First kiss evar. My best friend is female. As am I. I have a boyfriend. Last night I told him about the kiss. He said he had to leave and hung up. I don't want to lose him and the kiss with *Sarah meant nothing. Has anyone been in my situation? How do I tell my boyfriend I want him over *Sarah and the kiss meant nothing and have him believe me?

I'm sure your kiss with Sarah*was just a way to get a first kiss with someone. This does not make you a lesbian or anything but don't you think your first kiss would be more magical if it was with someone you loved. Just tell him it was a stupid mistake, you also have to tell him the real reason that you kissed her for whatever the reason was and that a bad girlfriend would not be honest and tell him. Maybe you should try to get him and Sarah and you together to talk the whole thing out. maybe get Sarah a boyfriend or something.
Good Luck
Lizzy

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just before christmas i had a fight with two of my at the time best friends my mum was there and everything one of my friends called my6 month pregnant mum a f*****n fat mole and i whent off my head at her like any daughter would about 3 days after that we came back from our x-mas holidays to find a notice in our letter box asking either me or my mum to ring the police station. the next day my mum rang the police and a cop came to talk to us the bitches had put out a report on me saying that i said i was going to kill them and i was going to stab them which i DID NOT say the cops let it be and said that she is just trying to get attention. now they have gone around telling other people that my mum said she was going to stab them, but she told the police it was me so they are lying to everyone trying to press charges on me so i really need some advice on what to do here please

If you did not say anything, the best you have is their word against yours. Go around telling your neighbors that you are sorry for your friends actions but it is not true or just try your best to pretend it never happened. This is probably not going to go to court because you are probably just a teen, right, so it'll probably get to a counseler or something, just tell the truth, sooner or later the lyers will crack, what goes around comes around, remember that.
Good Luck
lizzy

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Everybody's always getting colds and the flu and stuff in the winter... my question is, how do you know if you're so sick you should see a doctor?

If you are too sick and need to see a doctor, it's not just the ordinary tummy ache or cough. You should wait a couple of days and see if it is happening constantly, if you just had a tummy ache for a day, you caught a bug or ate something bad. Also, if you are constantly regergitating, you might want to see a doctor.
Lizzy

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how do u give oral to a guy????

~> confuses!

If you don't know how, perhaps you aren't ready yet, believe me, this is gross, ask a friend, or something! Nasty!
Lizzy

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Is it wrong to copy software to your computer that you don't pay for?

Yes it is, but everyone does it and it can't be that bad. Just try to do it, it'll be fine. Also, what software is it, some is illegal but some it is not. Just check and make sure it is not, then if it is not, it'll be fine.
Good Luck
Lizzy

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Okay for spacefem.com Im having a hard time finding some perfect fit photos. I shrink them and everything but they dont seem to want to fit. So my question is where are some good sites to find perfect fit photos? Pleeezzze HELP!!!!

Just go to google.com and click on images and put in what size you want. They have some hot pictures of Johnny Depp on there too! JK
Good Luck
Lizzy

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How do I win back my ex boyfriend that cares for me and I care for him but he doesn't want to be in a relationship right now? I mean we flirt, cuddle, play around,and hug.I'm very confused.

Give him some time. Maybe he doesn't want to be in a relationship for a reason, whether he is scared or just needs a break. If you do all that stuff you just said, I'm sure you'll get him back.
Lizzy

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I am confused because I like this kid and I think he likes me but i can't tell how do i know?

Dear Confused, if he really likes you than most likely he will be extremely obvious or he will eventually make the first move. If he doesn't and you still feel it, ask him out on a small 'freind' date and see where it goes from there.
Good Luck
Lizzy

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