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Last week for some reason I'm still trying to find I kissed my best friend. First kiss evar. My best friend is female. As am I. I have a boyfriend. Last night I told him about the kiss. He said he had to leave and hung up. I don't want to lose him and the kiss with *Sarah meant nothing. Has anyone been in my situation? How do I tell my boyfriend I want him over *Sarah and the kiss meant nothing and have him believe me?
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His ego has been hurt ( which is why he had to go and hung up .Keep in mind that men are taught that they don't express feelings with friends in such a way so it's harder for him to understand what you mean when you say "as a friend". I hate to say it, but it sounds like he may have already moved on...or at least "prepared" himself to. Instead of waiting for him to cal...call him. Tell him you need to explain. If he still won't listen, then I'd say his ego is probably so bruised, that chances of your getting "back together" are slim to none. But, DO call HIM and try to get your point across. I think he owes you that much respect.
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If he can't or won't listen or try to understand, then you may have to let him go. You were exploring and thats not wrong. He may never be able to understand why you did it, and may not get over it.
You don't need him anyways.
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oh my god...is your name Kitty?
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Well im still trying to figure out why you kissed your friend? I'm sure it was just a best friend thing to get the "feel" of it..hes prolly thinking right now that your some sort of lesbien of something..just explain to him why you did it and im sure he'll understand
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I think that talking to your best friend might help figure out some of these feelings and give you a clue as to where to go with your boyfriend. I'm guessing that it was just that you wanted to be kissed and that you wanted it to be from someone you care about. After all, you don't seem to be getting that from your boyfriend (what, you're dating and haven't been kissed?!). I really think that you need to spend some time thinking and talking things out with your friend, boyfriend, and even maybe a counselor, you seem to have a lot of conflicting emotions going on.
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I'm sure your kiss with Sarah*was just a way to get a first kiss with someone. This does not make you a lesbian or anything but don't you think your first kiss would be more magical if it was with someone you loved. Just tell him it was a stupid mistake, you also have to tell him the real reason that you kissed her for whatever the reason was and that a bad girlfriend would not be honest and tell him. Maybe you should try to get him and Sarah and you together to talk the whole thing out. maybe get Sarah a boyfriend or something.
Good Luck
Lizzy
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Im trying to put myself in you and your boyfriends shoes right now. So Im wondering why you kissed a friend of your if it meant nothing to you. It seems kind of gross and Im sure your boyfriend thinks so too. Hes probably very confused and wondering if your lezbian or strait. I dont think there will be much future for you two, but I hope for the best anyways.
-shay :-)
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