Hey! I'm Andrea.. my cousin has a column here, DarkChocolate794.
I've been giving advice here for a long long time. I've been through more than you'll know. I've managed to stay normal thanks to Jesus.
I'm nowhere near perfect. I'm a busy girl,so I don't have much time to get on as I used to. I'll hit you up immediately if you inbox me.
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I like my best friends X. They just broke up and it was only 2 months but i still cant like do that to my gurl. and the guy is still like in love with her how can i get him to see me?n not have my friend get hurt or mad? (link)
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well she has no right to get mad,because they are over, and they broke up 2 months ago. if they both still like each other, they shouldhave gotten back together weeks ago. if she gets hurt, then she isnt a good friend. I would just flirt with the guy untill he gets over his sadness
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My boyfriend's brother's funeral was today and after it was all over with he wanted to go to Astroworld (an amusment park). I thought it was totally unappropriate because I thought he should have been with his family. But, I went anyways, for him. His brother had committed suicide and my bf never had any room in his life for suicide. Still though, it was his brother, ya know? Do you guys think that it was weird that he wanted to go there after his brother's funeral? (link)
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Its strange that after the funeral, he wanted to go to an amusement park, but at least he went to the funeral. It is his choice what he wants to do after the funeral anyways, and it would be hard to sulk for something you wouldn't believe reasonable. I know that if one of my brothers committed suicide, I might not even go to the funeral! It all depends on what his intentions where, like if he was trying to block out the pain of his brothers death you can understand that, but if he went to totally forget and blow off his brother, it would be weird, but its his choice.
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ok this is probably the stupidest question here, and if it gets deleted thats ok, im just curious.
now ive never done this, and dont plan on it, but if youre a girl, with a boyfriend, and you kiss(lips or french) a *gay guy* is that still cheating on your boyfriend?
lol. im sorry, im just curious and kind of want to see opinions on it. (link)
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yea pretty much it would be cheating, but it depends. if some girl had a bf and kissed her straight bff wich is a girl, i wouldnt call it cheating exactly, but it also depends on if the kiss was pletonic or if it meant something.
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f/14....is it normal to get "wet" when your boyfriend makes out with you? a little bit of touching below the neck but not past the stomach? (link)
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Yes its 100% normal.
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if i ask a question on here like just a random one like this can you see who its from? (link)
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no i have no clue who writes this.
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What does it mean when a guy winks at you? (link)
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1. he may like you
2. he might be kidding, and if he is he might open the corners of his mouth and smile like hes letting you in on a secret.
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What does it mean to be outspoken? Like examples and definition.. (link)
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basically it means to not hold back or sugarcoat anything you say and not think twice about it. an example of that. A 13 year old is pregnant and doesnt no wat to do. the responce she gets is that she should have never had sex and shes too young and that she should have used protection and that she should tell her parents and that she should keep the baby. outspoken people are also very opinionated and will say their opinion is always right.
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you know the song gold digger by jamie fox and kanye west? well i know this sounds stupid, but what is a gold digger? (link)
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A girl who dates or marries a guy for his cash and goes around with their money buying stuff. Sometimes they might kill their partner to get all their cash.
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alritee im hangin out with a bunch of my friends on halloween (guys and girls) i want to be something cute and sexy but not slutty
if it helps im 12/f 5"3 and brown hair
any suggestions??
thanks
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You can be a dominatrix! Thigh high glossy preferably lace up boots with spiky heels, fishnets, a mask that covers half your face preferably black, a black halter top and a black mini skirt preferably not pleated. A whip and some gothic gloves might do the tric, and just let your hair down. You could be a school girl, just wear a white shirt a mini skirt calf legth socks and loafers with your hair in LOW pigtails so it doesnt look angelica pickles like. You could be a demon with a red halter, red pants red heels, red fingernails, a pitchfork, and horns. Maybe a side ponytail would work well. Good luck!
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what are some cute duets w/ a guy & a girl that are R&Bish & not nivea.
thanks!!!! (link)
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Beyonce and Jay Z,Beyonce and Sean Paul.
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What is fasting all about, and how's it done?
I know loads of girls at school that are talking about fasts all the time (not that I'm thinking of starving myself or anything for the sake of being thin, I'm just curious)
I heard my friend tell her cousin she was gonna do a 5 day fast and her cousin asked her how she lasted so long on a fast so I'm guessing it's got to do with not eating.
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Fasting is a way of telling God that you really want something to happen and you are ready to sacrifice for it, or its a traditional religios thing. It can be as long or as short as u want it to be. Some fasts only allow you to eat certain things, or at sertain times. It all depends on your religion.
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Do guys find stretch marks unattractive? (link)
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Yes they think they're nasty.
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Is semen and sperm the same thing and if not whats the difference? (link)
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Semen lives in sperm i think. Sperm's the fluid that holds semen and keeps it alive.
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I'm underweight, I want to be healthier and stuff. I need to gain weight. Can you help me?
I have 2 meals a day lunch and dinner (No time for breakfast.) (link)
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Eat out. Buy more junk food. Eat carbs and meat, and skip vegetables and fruits. Don't eat salads, and don't drink milk alone.
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Yesterday I was a size 32a non cup bra. I have a bra that is paded and is a size 34 a that used to be my sis's. Yesterday it was like big on me. I woke up this morning and my regular bra that I wear was small on me. I still wore it but its as lose as it can go. I tried putting the 34 a on and it fits me. Do you think it's irnormal to grow a boob size over night? (link)
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Umm, you didnt grow a boob size, your ribcage just got fatter,and that can happen for many reasons. Like eating and breathing. Growing a boob size is going from an A to a B and so on. And pading is just a thicker non cup. Its not any bigger, its just as if you had a non cup bra with a silicon pad over it-doesnt mean you grew. So basically you didnt grow a boob size, you expanded 2 inches on your band size, but you didnt really grow, so your normal.
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I am really shy around guys but I think I come off as standoffish. I don't mean to be shy...I just can't ever think of anything to say. Is this why guys don't like me? (link)
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To be honest, yep probably. Guys are just like us, so theres nothing to be shy about, their just male humans...
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is your first kiss the first time you make out or the first time a guy kisses you on the cheeks or lips or something? (link)
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Your first kiss is the first time your lips touches someone elses lips. Not cheeks, and it can be making out but it doesnt have to be.
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What is Mental Abuse? (link)
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Its when you talk down on a person and make them feel bad without doing anything phisical. for example suppose I called you a worthless peice of crap, and you would feel bad. thats mental abuse. You are not a worthless peice of crap btw it was just an xample :)
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Ok im 13 and I have had sex twice....I know that I want to tell my mom....but i know that if I tell my mom she will tell my dad and I KNOW that he will flip out....But I had ses with a guy that i have been goin out with for 2 years already and we are still going out...so I dont think it is that big of deal...but how do I tell my parents without them like killing me??? Also do you think I am considered a slut or something because a couple people at my school do...
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If you want to tell them, don't present the topic with complete confidence.What i mean is dont say "I had sex twice, and it was great." Leave a condom in front of your room where they see it, and they might bring sex up, and you can tell them then and you can have a good conversation. And as for the slut thing, yes I think your a slut. Thats just my opinion though. But at the same time Im seriously questioning whether you were expecting a straightforward non sugar coated answer for that.
Good luck!
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what are some pretty,and uncommon names? please dont say things like,jessica,jennifer,katherine,there pretty but they are all to common! thanks for the help! i rate to 5's :) (link)
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You don't hear Andrea as much anymore. Michalina
(pronounced Mike-A-Leen-A) is also a kool name. Mahogany, and Bria are also cool names that I like. Keisha seems pretty too.
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