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I am really shy around guys but I think I come off as standoffish. I don't mean to be shy...I just can't ever think of anything to say. Is this why guys don't like me?
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Well i dont know..i am like that myself woot now i have sumthin too blam instead of me being bigger in size:) thanks..lol..well u shouldnt think that way..but if ya wanna know a good way to start of small ...just start by sayin hi..or even just waving..believe it sumwut worked for me and now i am almost able to talk to anyone..hope all goes well good luck
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Probably! I'm totally the same way! *sigh* Oh well.
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To be honest, yep probably. Guys are just like us, so theres nothing to be shy about, their just male humans...
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If that is a reson why someone does not like you then to hell with them. You want someone who takes the time to figure out who you are as a person and see if they fit with you as a friend or boyfriend. Trust me a lot of guys like you but you have not stopped to smell the roses and let them approach. When you go out looking for what you want you never find what you needed was in front of you. Relax, love will find you.
I have the same problem around women myself. Once, you get me to talk and or I talk about something that is of mutual interest it works out. Figure out what interests you share and start talking but not non-stop chatter. I hate people that do not give others a chance to talk.
If you want to talk about shyness and more tips on how to get rid of it send something to my inbox. This letter is getting long but start joining groups, student council, anything, etc where you have to get comfortable with guys around you. We do not bite and over time you will get onto this better.
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