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Q: i know this gurl who is really tall thin and beautiful.. she could so make it as a run-way model.. got any advice to help her get started? thnx

Advertisements on tv, radio, and in back of magazines-trix

Q: I am decent looking, & I am called hot a lot but not very many guys fall for me! I have dated about 5 guys & I want a boyfriend but I want to find the perfect guy so I want to make guys like me so I can get to know them if I like them. Not just looks but personality too. I already love to have fun and hang w/ them & I can be girly & sporty. I have a really good sense of humor but it doesn't feel like a lot of guys like me more than just a good friend. My question is, how can I improve myself in looks & personality as I am going into middle school in a month & I want to make a good impression to everyone first & just also for myself so I'll be happier & be more confident. Thankz, I'll rate you. Sry this is so long but thankz for taking time to read this!

~Lonely and Unconfident :-( 12/f

Just get a cute new outfit and were on the first day of school and do something nice with your hair and smile-trix

Q: How do i tell my parents i have an eating disorder? i promised my best friend i would do something about it after her reading my journal and finding out. im miserable and depressed and cant stop. how do i tell them?

Signed
help

Just tell them i had to tell my mom and it made things so much better they wont yell at you because they arent going to yell at you when you have something wrong with you... would you yell at your daughter or son if they told you? you would be more sad then mad.. so just put yourself in that place-trix

Q: I'm sorry but for everyone out there how do you get a guy to notice you?

Just be yourself!! and be humorous and flirty no other guy should like you more then good humor itself-trix

Q: Hi dose anyone want to become friends with me???
my names Jenipher and Im 15 , Im feeling kinda lonely on here ????

Jenipher.. i am starting to wonder if you arent just making up problems because every other 4 questions i see... i see -jenipher at the end of it.. and i would appreciate that if you are doing it.. either stop doing it or make it more believable that you arent doing it by maybe changing the name at the end of it and im sure the others would appreciate it too!-trix :)

Q: Im sorry this is gross but I really dont get how to put a tampon in...i keep trying but i cant do it....what is wrong with me?
*pulls paper bag over head*

It happans to everybody some point in there life just follow the instructions on that page and you should be ok.. and if that doesnt work as a older sister or plain sister or a parent-trix

Q: I like this guy alot, and he's my friends neighbor there no problem. we both flirtall the time (anthony and me). its just that at sometimes he'll go i don like you what are you doen here but he'll say it sarcasticly. and then at other times he'llplay footsie with me. i like him alot. but idk wheter should i confront him, or just keep things the way they are. i see him alot during the summer so that wouldnt b a problem.and hes a grade aahead of me idk if that might be the problemt too. please help

Well maybe you should tell him... unless you already have then ask him out cuz no relationship is better then starting off already as best friends cuz then your twice as comfortable with eachother then you regularly would be-trix

Q: Are crunches or sit ups better for you?

crunches get to more of the point but you should do both because they both help you no matter what-trix

Q: After a graduated from high school two years ago, i met a girl that liked one of my friends. She started talking to me about him and trying to get them together. OVer the summer she talked to me all the time and she eventually liked me and we got really close. We almost got together but decided that we stay friends and thats where we became best friends. She called me like everyday and stuff and we hung out alot. We go to the same college and during our first year we talked but not a lot. LIke once a week or so. Then she would always give me shit on how i never call her but everytime i did she was off boning her bf that she met that year. And everytime i wanted to hang out she would blow me off for some other guys(not her bf) like frat guys. Then she kept saying that we are "best friends" but she treats me like i dont exist. What do you think?

Well i totally agree with you from what i know.. Maybe if she ever tries to make plans with you maybe you could give her a taste of her own medicine and see how she likes it but that'd be mean maybe you could write her and tell her its time that you either listen up or your gone because you are fed up with being ditched and blown off for other guys. Thats not what you want for or in a friend-trix

Q: hi my best friends diched me for the popular gang , how can I get them back , they dont even talk to me now!!!!!! PLZ help Jenipher

Maybe you could try and squeeze into the popular gang to or just when you see your best friends pull them aside and talk to them be like i totally feel like you guys abandoned me and i dont understand that just hear me out i dont know why we can't still be friends if you are hanging out with the popular gang or whatever... go from there-trix

Q: alright, i've got a moderately small and intricate clique at school. about 6 girls. anyway, we're all best friends, and don't really hang out with anyone more than anybody else. but then someone else joined our little group (lindsay). and joy has been really down(who's usually really outgoing and loud) she just, i dunno, she and lindsay hung out a whole lot. they have a million inside jokes, and they can't be separated more than 2 feet. joy tells lindsay virtually everything... like why she's so depressed and stuff. things she won't tell us at all.
the rest of us feel kind of like she dumped us, i guess. dropped us for someone more worthy or something. i confronted her, and she felt all bad and stuff, but she just went back to lindsay, and i feel like i'm losing a friend... what should i do?

I think you all should comfront her because instead of 1 person just comfronting her then you have the whole gang and that is more bound to get the point across. And to make it a lil bit harder... do it with lindsay with you guys.. maybe she will have an idea of whats going on instead of joy just getting the prespective of it all. They may get a bit mad or something but if you got your point across and you stood up and said what you wanted to say then you cant really blame yourself or anybody because your friends shouldnt treat you like that-trix

Q: Does anyone know where I can get music from for my picturetrail in MIDI File for free with actual singing in it??

I think there is a website for that and i found it through the search engine on my computer at the top of your computer it should say search click that-trix

Q: hey i have seen some peoples site on this site, where, they have music playin. how do i get music on mine

Music links you have to go to but if you were talking about for this website you can... not yet anyways.. that'd be a good idea... but you have to go to the music websites -trix

Q: Hey, I play the double bass, and I was wondering if anyone here knew where to get some good music scores from anime or other movies. I'd really appreciate it! Thanks!

Go to askjeeves.com hes my man! haha hes a good resource or smarterchild on AIM hes pretty smart for a computer!-trix

Q: Has anyone heard of the awesome rock band, Too Late May??? They're wonderful!! You can check 'em out at Http://www.toolatemay.com You can even download some of their songs from their website.. Check 'em out and tell me what you think. ;)

Well awesome! good talent-trix

Q: I want to become an online DJ, but I don't know how to start my own radio channel or how anything like that. I have a microphone, and all of the equipment, but I don't know how to get my own online radio station. Does anyone know where I can get started DJing?

Askjeeves or bored.com they always have wierd things there and could help you lead to any thing of that sort good luck man-trix

Q: Hey. Does anyone know how to get music and a background from a site onto my advice column?

I dont believe you can do that but what you can do is change the looks of your page. Maybe what you could do is get another window to pop-up that plays music when people click on your page-trix

Q: As the question says. :) Not to toot my own horn or anything like that, but I consider myself a good writer, as do my teachers. Essays, articles, parodies and reports get consistently excellent marks. However, I've desired to write creative stories, specifically fanfiction, for a long time, but I'm having trouble writing anything. Last time I've written fanfic was at 14; now I'm 17, and I'm afraid I've lost any spontaneity and skill I might've had. I don't believe imagination to be the problem, but I have trouble writing them out onto paper/computer, and I also have the problem of being too self-critical, so I'm constantly editing and deleting things (which doesn't do much for progress!). Does anybody have any suggestions to help?

First off when you have finish the poem dont go over just give it to a friend to read and get there opinion dont be so critical right away give someone else a chance to read it over because sometimes it helps to get from otheres points of view before yourself-trix

Q: How do you perfer guys hair?

Well the long shagged look is pretty hot but if you got the blue eyes going on i would leave it short cuz if the guy has blue eyes you totally got me. So i'd say if you got blue eyes keep it short and if you got other colored eyes go for the skateboarder look ;) unless your hair is real thin then also keep it short other then that its oo 2 sexxy!! -trix

Q: *~Confesions*~
You say you wanna be true with me
So you start confessing
Befor you start already a tear drops down
You confess everything
It feels like my heart broke
Tears are pouring down
I say how can you do this to me
He says Im sorry
I know Its over
I say Its over
Even though i know i did the right thing
I still love him
But i cant trust him
He lost y trust
So now its over
Maybe someday
My tears will go away.

Thats a good poem i have to say you should maybe think about getting your poems published or something like that i have my poem published in the Golden book of poems but the whole line of I know Its over I say Its over you should put something inbetween that i dont know what but its to close Like I already know its over I dont want to imagine us being apart but i have to say its over before i get hurt anymore or something like that -trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"