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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.
I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.
Much love, Teza
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is the motorola v3 razr like a guy phone? and do you guys think its an ugly phone or not? i want some opinions.. thanks!!
Not at all! I love that phone && I really want it. A lot of girls acaully have it! If you can get it!!
ok well this guy his name is kevin and we've hung out like 2 times with other people and the first time we played ghost in the graveyard and hes like i got becky (me) and he kept like picking me to be it cuase i wasnt playing and then the second time we were at park with my frend sarah and these 3 other guys and like we were there for a long time and if i said something funny he would always laugh and like he would look at me and he is absoluatly HOT and i like him alot and i dont know if he likes me ... cause im not the girl who would go out with a guy i mean i never have so what do i do?
Aww, I think he does like you!! He is giving you hints and signs that he does. He is majorly flirting. Flirt back and you never know, he might ask you out! Get to know him and stuff. but good luck! =) && even if you do end up getting together dont worry too much though. You will be happy.
how much weight could i lose until aug. 31?and how i will rate high
You could loose a good amount if you stick to your diet and exersise a lot. You have to eat very healthy, do lots of sit-ups && stuff. Go to this website to learn everything.
http://www.toneteen.com
Okay...this is gonna be kinda long, but i really really need help. There's this guy I know, Alan...and he moved here from Utah, and I had a crush on him when i first met him, we go to the same church. well, i was real close to telling him, but one of my BEST friends took him. Then dumped him 8 months later. my mom invited him and his sister to come with us to Great America, a few months later. well, i finally got the guts and told him, and he told me he didn't really really like my friend like he does me. and we held hands on the ride home, and I'm only 13, and our religion says we arn't allowd to have a relationship until we're 16. and so i was really nvervous, esp. since his little sis (10 y/o) was sitting right next to us. It's been a year, and he keeps trying to hold my hand and kiss me an stuff, and i really don't think it's appropriate, and I've told him time and time again, that i think it's not right, and that we should wait a few years. well, he won't stop, and now we're in highschool. I'm really uncomferatable around him, esp. when we're alone. How do i get it through his head, i've tried just ignoring him, and i've tried talking to him. I dont' know what to do. His family moves around a lot, and i really don't want to let him down, cuz i know his past, it's been really rough for him. what do i do, I don't know how long he'll be living here. so I dont' know if I should just let him go, and tell him i don't like him, or just to put up with it until he moves again.
PLEASE HELP, i Rate really really High!
Signed,
Confused and stressed
No, dont break your standards and dont do anything against your religion. I think it awesome that you respect your religon and that you are not willing to go against that. You need to tell him one more team and be very serious about it. If he cant respect your decision then just dont hang out with him for a while! He just HAS to respect you! Since he truely does like you he will and he will wait until the appropriate time. Just tell him that. Dont just drop him because you sitll care about him a lot. But I think everything will work out between you guys in the future. Just tell him and be serious and mean it. I`m sure everything will work out. Good luck babe!
Well... I like this boy... Dillon ... Dillon likes my best friend Denise ... Denise likes Dillon's best friend... Brad ... Brad likes me. If one of us makes a move... one of us is bound to get hurt! Should I make a move on Dillon... because I really really really really like him!!!!
Yea, I think that you should make a move of Dillon even though he still likes your best friend. This is kind difficult so I really dont know what the right asnwer to this would be. You never know if Dillon would start liking you back. Just go for it. ;D
can you masturbate during your period... && this is my first period ever in my whole life...there isnt alot of blood is that normal? what is it like when wou first get it? pleaseeeee hellppp
Yes you can masturbate but I think it will be a little gross and weird. But its fine if you do. And yes its normal that there isnt a lot of blood. Its your first time so no worries. =)
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ok here it goes there are a couple of guys that i am interested in and i cant decide who i like the best ( im 16/f) the first one is reelly hott and hilarious but he gets in trouble alot too and theres this other guy hoos one of my good friends and stuff but he annoys me all the time(hes just a little less hott)in a flirting kinda way and another guy who is so sweet and i know he likes me cause he asked me out before but i said no. So i was wondering if anyone could tell me which guy i should go out with and why *ill rate good for a good answer*
We really cant choose for you, but if I was you I would go for the first guy. I mean you wouldnt want an annoying boyfriend! That would just be so lame! Lol.. and plus you said the first guy is really sweet, hot, && funny. I think that you will have a lot more fun with him so try to see if it will work out! I know you'll make the right choice! Good luck!
Hey. Well, i just bought my hair straightener yesterday at JCPenny's it was $130. And i haven't used it yet but someone told me that u have to buy like some gresse or some oil to put on after or before doing it. Is that true.or can u just do it like that without putting anything. And if true can yall tell me what to buy, and were to get it from. Thanksss.
Brenda
No thats not true. I have hair silk though. I mean its not greese or oil but it makes your hair shiny and healthier so it doesnt get damaged from the heat and stuff. It makes my hair softer and it smells good. But no, you dont have to buy any products at all. If you want to you can get it. I got mine at Sally Beauty store.. and I also got this spray. They are both called Ion and they work great!
my boyfriend wants to finger me.. i've never got it done to me before. I'm not sure what he does, and do i shave "down there"? i'm scared and i'm not even sure if i want him to, but just incase can you help me?
Since you're not sure if you want him to do it then you are'nt ready so dont do it. He just puts his finger(s) up your vagina..and most girls do shave and guys would rather perfure it. Dont worry about it, nothing bad can happen.
ahh its so embarrasing one of my lovehandles is bigger than the other.. ugh how do i get ride of lovehandles??
You can get rid of them by exersising and yeah... eating healthy is always a good idea. Jogging works really good and it helps a lot.
If you really want to get rid of those love handles, you must use a three way approach.
The most important part is what you eat. Take a look at your diet and see how many grams of fat you eat on a daily basis. If fat calories (9 per gram) make up more than 25% of your daily intake, start to slowly replace those calories with something with less fat. Also eat several small meals during the day to increase your metabolism.
Are you doing 30 minutes of aerobic activity at least 3 times a week, preferably more? This will help burn calories.
Finally, doing ab exercises is fine for stengthening your mid section. For your obliques (love handles) you can do side bends or crunches with a twist or other exercises depending on what equipment you have. The thing is, you should be doing resistance training for your ENTIRE body, especially the large muscle groups of the thighs, hips, upper and lower back, and chest. Working these large muscle groups will actually help you burn off fat because as these muscles start to grow, it will require more calories during the day for your body to maintain them. Doing 12-15 reps will ensure results without building up too much.
Squats, leg presses, side leg raises,lat pull downs or rows, chest presses, and back
extensions are all good exercises to start this off.
Have fun though!! Hope I helped!
hey! ok so sometimes my dad is like be careful wat you say on the internet to people b/cuz i know how to bring up ur past conversations..! is there really a way to do that and see past conversations youve had with people? if there is how do i get rid of them? thanks!
I`m not really sure but open your AIM file and see if its there. Sometimes its saved on mine but just try that.
ok so i've gone out with this guy 3 times and i really like him but i think its really over and he smokes weed which i really don't like and knwos that. he use to call me everyday when he liked me but now that he doesn't he never calls me. i try to call him everyday but when i do his friend picks up everytime i call and he is usually stoned. but tongiht when i called him his friend picked up again and i heard him (my x) in the background saying that he doesnt want to talk to me and that im fat and then his friend put him on the phone and then he talked to himself and then he hung up on me. twice, i had my friend call him back and they hung up on her 2. but then osme girl called me and told me she was guna beat the s**t out of me. i dont know what to do, should i jus forgot about him?
I think that you should just forget about him since he's being a jerk!! You dont need anyone telling you that stuff at all. I think he just moved on and I think that you can do the same. Just forget about him and if he ever changes then talk to him.. but hes just being ignorant towards you and dont put up with it!
the kid i like that im about to go out with asked me if i masturbated.. does this mean he wants to finger me?
No it doesnt mean that. Most guys get turned on if you do though.
this is going to sound really stupid, but i've never done it before and i'm scared to...how do you make out? Like i know how to but do i wait for him to stick his tounge in my mouth first? how does it happen?
You dont always have to use tongue to makeout. When you are doing it just follow his lead and whatever he does do it back so you wont mess up. Just relax and have fun!
hi well first of all i know some of you might think why in the world do you want to be a prep? and all that stuff but i dont care what you think if you are just going to like criticize me ok.
and people who are willing to help, how do i be like a prep?
i mean i know i kinda like talk like a prep and all that but i am Asian and stuff and i am not rich at all so i cant really go shopping at Holiaster and American Eagle outfitters and all that and this one person thought i looked like a devil worshiper. like what the heck! i am so not a devil worshiper... i mean i heard of someone telling me that i talk like a prep and everything but how do i really really look prep?
i really really need to be a prep...
its a survival of high school...and trust me, you dont know my school
i rate high for people who tries to help and if you mock me i report you and get you banned
Okay!! Well I will try but listen if you were'nt a prep before and all of the sudded you become one.. people will start calling you poser and fake. If you dont know how to dress preppy then why be one? I mean its not that hard. You are'nt being who you are and you just want to be like everyone else but thats fine I guess.. since you dont care. I`m just being honest and if you rate me a bad score then oh well but I am just telling you what I think. Anyways.. you dont have to be really rich to shop at Hollister. I know most of the things are expensive but they have some things you can afford. American Eagle isnt expensive. Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, Old Navy && Aeropostale are good stores. Just dress girly. Look at magazines and try to match that stuff. Do your hair and make-up cute. Thats preppy.
i want to go for the preppy look this coming school year
like how should i dress to look preppy and what stores could i shop at that are not expensive
and could you please give me the website to the stores
thanks
Sorry but did you ask the other preppy question? Lol anyways preppy is easy to dress and you will find a lot of cute unexpensive clothes!! Try Aeropostale and American Eagle! A lot of cute stuff and not expensive! Just mix and match and you'll look hot!! Good luck!
I have this friend and she hangs out with me all the time and stuff but shes kinda mean to me and sometimes it gets to the point where im so sad that i cry . what should i do?
You dont have to get rid of her or anything but when she is being mean to you, you need to stand up to her and not let her. She probablly knows that you wont do anything about it so you have to. I hate when people do that and please dont let her boss you around or make you cry. But stand up to her in a nice way and she will stop. Good luch hon!
Hey. I like the whole preppy look. So anyone know some stores that aren't expensive. Thanks! Rate 5's.
Well.. I am a prep and I usually get my clothes from American Eagle, Hco, Aeropostale, Charlotte Russe, Forever 21 < not expensive, A&F, any of those stores.
what is anal sex???i really want to know!!!pleaz tell me, thakz!
Just go to this website it will explain everything you need to know.
http://www.minou.com/aboutsex/analsex.htm