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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave it
I'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=



Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.


I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.


I do not like when people have issues with typing.

iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.

advice

I was due for my period about 10 days ago and it sitll hasnt come...is this bad??and when will it come again?
(i have had it for about 3 or 4 years now)

rate 5's for anything

ohh and im not pregnant

Unless you are sexually active there is nothing to worry about.

The first 3-4 years your period WILL NOT come on a regular schedule. It may seem like it does for a while, then one day it won't come when you expect it.


This is not bad, this is not something you should be worrying about. It is completely normal and happens to 99.9% of girls that just start getting their periods.

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i have these little bumps on my nipples. my mom said they were just like pimples, but yeah, they're not going away. and they're gross. well, not really that bad, they're just little bumps, weird huh? anybody know anything about this? should i go 2 a doctor?

All girls have bumps on their nipples. It's just a part of your nipple.


Sometimes they can be pimples, but I wouldn't suggest popping them. And no, you shouldn't go to a doctor. There is nothing wrong with you.


But seriously... it really is just a part of what a girls nipple looks like. I'm sure if you were to search google and looked at a picture upclose of another woman's nipple, she'd have the same exact bumps on it.


I have them, my mom has them, my friends have them... All girls have them.

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What does it mean when a guy winks at you?

A wink is a "Hello, you're hot, can I get in your pants?". Normally. Sometimes a guy will just wink at you because you're hot. It doesn't mean he wants to get in your pants. But it does like 80% of the time.

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Is there a way to turn the color off of my computer when I print things with a lot of color?


Thanks.

Yes. Click file, print preview, printing prefrences. There should be a tab that says color. Click on either what will say "Grayscale" or "Print with black cartridge only".

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whats "come hither"??

Come hither= Come here
Go thither= Go there

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about how long after someones death do they have their funeral?

Depending on how they died and how fast the person can put together the funeral arrangements.

It could be anywhere from a day to a month even.

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There is this girl I like at work. She seems really cool and it seems like we have alot in common. But she says she has a boyfriend for 7 months. What are some ways that I can get her to leave him and date me? I know its bad, but I think there is a chemistry there.

Don't do that. Please, don't do that.


I'm in pretty much the same situation the girl is in. I'm in love with my boyfriend and have been since the day I met him a year and a half ago. We have been dating happily for 17 months.


So, there is a guy that likes me. I think he's sweet, we have TONS in common. Turns out he lives only a few minutes away from me.


So he's trying to do everything concievable to break me and my boyfriend up. That makes me like him less and less and less and less.


I bet, if this girl wasn't happy with her boyfriend and wanted to be with you, she would have broken up with her boyfriend by now.


Don't break up what could really be a happy relationship. That is such a shitty thing to do, and it makes you look like a dick.


DO NOT break up this girl and her boyfriend. She could REALLY love her boyfriend and really want to be with him. He could find out about you, and then he could break up. She'll HATE you for that. So then she's hurt in the end too. Seriously dude, just don't do it. I promise you this will come around and bite you in the ass. Karma- What goes around comes around.

So let's say she does like you, she does break up with her boyfriend for you. Because of Karma.. A guy will like her she'll like him and they'll go out. Or, she'll want to go back with her boyfriend. Again- what goes around comes around.

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i was just wondering how old you were when you had your first kiss....im 14 and i still havent had mine so i kinda feel like a loser but plz put real age...ty

Don't feel like a loser. I know girls that are 16+ and have never had their first kiss.


I was 12. Yeah.. It was young. But the kiss was absolutely horrible. So I didn't enjoy it much.


But my first real kiss that was GOOD was when I was 13.

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How do you get an ex-friend to stop fucking talking to you. I'm usually good at getting people to leave me alone, but this guy is insane. He stopped talking to me for a while but now he is starting again despite when I tell him to leave me alone. Any ideas?

This is going to sound insanely harsh. But if you don't want the kid to talk to you just do this. Repeat this sentence "[insert ex-friend's name here], I DO NOT like you, you piss me off. For the love of GOD and the sake of my sanity, STOP EFFIN (Or fucking) TALKING TO ME!"


This kid that I was never friends with somehow found my screen name, saw my myspace and would talk to me every day in school. He annoyed the ever living shit out of me. So, one day in school he came up to me and started talking to me. So, I said this: "Dude, I don't know you. I don't know HOW you got my screen name and why in the hell you started talking to me. But you annoy the SHIT out of me. And I would greatly appreciate it if you didn't talk to me. If you don't stop talking to me, I'll duct tape your mouth shut.. We clear?" He didn't say a word, and I walked away and he's never spoken to me since.


Try that.

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My boyfriend and I had sex last week and my period usally comes on around the 24 or 25. It is the 27 and my period still haven't come on. I have been have cramps and back pain. So am I pregnant or not?

It's only 2-3 days late. You actually become pregnant 5 days to a week later. And you start showing signs 2-3 weeks after you become pregnant. Sometimes a month to a month and a half.


Did you use a condom? If so, it isn't that likely but there is always a chance.


You have cramps and back pain. You were supposed to get your period around the 24th or the 25th. PMS sweetie, PMS.


You are only noticing that your period is late and freaking out about it because you had sex.


As long as you did use a condom, you really should be fine.


Wait a week, if you don't get your period (Which I bet tomorrow morning or the day after you'll have it) take a pregnancy test.


But for now, CHILL OUT GIRL SCOUT! You freaking out isn't going to make it any better for you.

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I'm 14/f and I'm a virgin. I have only kissed and had a guy feel up my shirt. Recently I have found little white bumps 'down there' and I don't know what they are. It's starting to worry me. It kind of hurts but not really. I sort of look like a white head. The kind you can't pop. Of course I didnt try popping it. I had one between my thigh and it went away. Now I have 1 around my womb and my vagina part. I don't know what to do :-( ... help plz

Please, for the sake of you freaking out, do not listen to iiluvpiink15. (First person to answer)


This person clearly does not know what they are talking about.


You CANNOT get an STD unless you have sexual contact of some sort with a person infected with the disease.


1) You don't have a womb. You aren't pregnant. And a womb is on the inside of you, not the outside. So you mean you have one on your stomach near your bikini line?

2) You have only been kissed and felt up. It is close to impossible to contract an STD from that. If the guy(s) you kissed had their face in a girls vagina, they could have contracted some sort of STD from her. But it wouldn't be showing up in your "no no zone". You'd get it on your mouth.

3) Odds are they are just pimples or ingrown hairs. Do you shave yourself down there? Because if you do, the odds of it being an ingrown hair are even greater. But, it could still be just an ingrown hair or a pimple. Nothing to worry about.

4) Stop worrying. There is NOTHING wrong with you. It is NOT an STD. Just keep yourself clean down there. Use soap a nd water and a washcloth. Or, you could even buy yourself baby wipes to keep yourself clean there.

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I want to get my hair cut. And I was thinking about "side swept bangs" and layers, but sorta those "spikey" layers (sorta like some "punks" have), does anyone have any idea what those layers are called?

Pics and/or websites would be greatly appreciated!

thanks much!!

(and i tried googling it.)

It's called a shattered bob.


You mean something like this but a little shorter? http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/_MG_8877_250h.jpg

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My English teacher once told me, 'Don't marry someone you love, marry someone who completes you.'

Does anyone have any idea what that could mean, in a way? Like, how can someone complete you?

Alot of people do not feel like a whole person.. If they are lonely they feel like a part of them is missing. And when you find someone you truely care about, you say that they complete you.

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Okay. I just got the nerve to try out a tampon. I was all relaxed and read directions and I finally got it. So, I was excited I did cause I wimpped out before. and my mom got all mad at me cause she said i could get toxic shock syndrom and like something in my vagina broke? What the heck is she talking about? Im scared to use another one cause she freaked out. So help me please!!!!!!!!

The whole "toxic shock syndrom" I have no clue what the hell she is talking about. The thing in your vagina that might have "broke" is your hymen. Which is just a thin layer of skin inside the vagina. Which, by the way, can break just about at any time.. Riding a horse, sitting down, standing up, getting your first period, falling.. Anything. Most people refer to it as having your "cherry popped".



I searched google, and I found websites on Toxic Shock Syndrom: http://www.cdc.gov/ncidod/dbmd/diseaseinfo/toxicshock_t.htm

http://www.toxicshock.com/


I read it... And it is highly unlikely for any of this to even happen to you. But I would suggest you read the site anyway.

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i had two dreams of me getting raped. i it wat does it mean and wat should i do help me plez.

A dream is just a dream. Dreams mean nothing 90% of the time, so odds are it's just a dream. Most people dream of what they fear, some people dream of something that happened earlier on in the day, or something that has been on their mind a few times in the past.


That's it. It's just a continuted thought of what goes on in your mind when you aren't sleeping.

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well i am really shy how do i get the guy i like to like me

Well that's just the thing. You can't MAKE a guy like you. It just comes to them. Just try to be as nice as you can, and try not to be so shy. Alot of guys really don't like girls that are shy. Some think it's cute, but I know that most don't like girls that are shy.


Just keep talking to him, flirt a little more and be extra sweet.


-Emily

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i like this guy wat should i do??

Flirt, get to know him better.. And tell him you like him. That would really help out your situation.

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im getting my nails done tomorrow for a formal and i was wondering if i should get gel nails, tips, or acryllics? (sp) i have had gel nails before and i really liked them but what is everyones opinion? easy 5 =] xO

Well if you want to be taking them off really easily, then go with Tips. If you want them to stay on longer, but still be able to take them off, then go with acrylics. If you want them to stay on practically forever, then go with gels.


So, depending on how long you really want them to stay on, you could go with any of them. I would personally go with Acrylics, because they look better than Tips and gels are just a pain in my ass.

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i got my period for the first time on auguest 15 (this past auguest). i didnt have it last month, but now i got it again on the 15th, and still have it. is this normal?

Yes. The first 3-4 years of having your period it will NOT come on a regular basis. So, I would suggest you keep extra tampons or pads and underware with you AT ALL TIMES just incase of an accident.

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k for halloween i'm being a cowgirl. i have a cowboy hat and stuff but i'm just not sure how i should wear my hair. it's not very long.. it just touches the top of my shoulders when it's straight. i was wondering if i should put it in pigtails or if i should just leave it down? what would go with the 'cowgirl' theme more? thanks

Wear it in pig tails. Even though your hair is short, you should still wear it in pig tails. All cowgirls have pig tails.

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