HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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"never take someone for granted hold every person close to your heart cause you might wake up one day and realize that you've lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones"-- what does this quotes trying to say? is it about friendship? or what? (link)
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i think its trying to say that never take anyone for granted like dont love someone to a point that you beilive that they will be with you forever and never change because one day youll wake up from your imaginary world(where u thought this person was yours forever) and wake to the real world and realize that you will lose yourself(diamond) and lose get your heartbroken while you were collecting stones which are the people with no feelings and they never fealt the same about you.This quote can be talking about a valuable person to you.Doesnt have to be a boy or girl friend.
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how can i sharpen up my flirting skills??...how can i flirt more but not look desprete??..wat are some flirting tips??
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www.myjellybean.com will give u allllll the flirting tips u need
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does anyone know of any good rap songs new and old? thanksss (link)
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GO HEAD BY ALI AND GIPP(its awwwsome)
RAP GAME BY EMINEM AND G-UNIT
FORGOT ABOUT DRE BY EMINEM AND DR DRE
TILL I COLLAPSE BY EMINEM AND 50 CENT
ICE CREAM BY THE PACK
im pretty sure your gonna like these songs!
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Is black lipstick too over the top?
I've got light brown hair, and a permanent tint. like foundation color.
I personally like how it looks, but does anyone think it might be too much??? (link)
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waaaaay too much,it will look awful i suggest you dont wear it
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I've had too many friends that have stabbed me in the back. I have done nothing but be there for them. Yes they've been there for me, but I realized I can't do it anymore. My last friend I ended up losing her because I finally told her how I felt about her. At least I was honest to her face. But now she thinks because she's pregnant she's better than everyone. It makes me feel bad because I told her how I felt, but it also makes me feel good because I was finally able to stand up to her and make her realize that I ain't gonna take it anymore. If anyone has any advice PLEASE LET ME KNOW. (link)
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there are many ways why a friend would backstab you or take advantage of you.They can take advantage of you if your way too nice to them like you do their homeworks and stuff like that.They can take advantage of you if they think you have no personality or opinion and just go with the flow too much.Taking advantage of you is the same as stabbing you in the back.OR they can just be bad people.Or if they just didnt like you then they would use you to get to something eles.Thats why you should always try to be sure of the people your hanging out with.As for the pregnant girl that thinks shes all mature and cool for being pregnant,that shouldnt even BOTHER you one bit.Shes a teen with a baby making her a child with a child and both need mothers still.Its good that you stood up to her and told her that your not gonna take it anymore.Dont let it bother you.All these false freindships make you stronger and more wiser in picking your freinds and gets you more experienced.
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ok,i have two bestfriends Aimee and Vanessa, the thing is both of them live in gigogantic houses,both parents togehter,money,everything that i dont well ok i have the looks and attitude but the thing is i always get jealous.its not good for me to feel this way but its hard not to.I dont want to jeapordise our friendships because their lives are better,but what do i do? i dont want to feel this way!! (link)
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jealousy is very bad you should try never to feel it.It eats you up and turns you into a monster that everyone hates.You have something they dont have and they have something you dont!Sit and think about that.What is it you have that they dont?It doesnt have to be money or looks or popularity.It can be something inside of you that they dont have.Nothing remains the same anyways,one day if you work hard you can have the best life ever and all the money you want.Just do well in school get a good college degree and work something thatll get you money.You have the looks and the attitude what more can you want!Money will come one day but personality and looks are really hard to get you know.Be confident and happy with what you got or one day youll lose it all.
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what are some good horoscope websites. like really good.?
i have these already:
seventeen.com
besthoroscopes.com
and thats pretty much it.
thankssss. (link)
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www.astrology.com
http://www.horoscopes.com/
www.myjellybean.com
hope this helps ^_^
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I HATE my parents and I want to move out SO badly like if I don't I swear to god I'm going to murder my mom thats how bad she is.I have no family in my area that I can stay with but my friend(boyfriend) said I can move in with him for a while to let things cool down...is it legal for me to do that ? (Kitchener Ontario Canada)
[Ps.I'm 13/female] (link)
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You say your moms so bad but what did she do that was THAT bad,bad enough for you to move out?I mean,any problem with your parents can be solved nomatter how big.First thing i recommend you do is talk to your mom about how you feel,she cant walk away,if she does walk after her and scream it to her face.Just give it one last try,dont let your anger take advantage of you,think clearly.Your 13,just a kid.If you runaway now,who will you go to??Your boyfreind ok,what if you happen to one day break up with him?It happens you know.What,youll get a job and rent an apartment,all alone??I think if you decide on runing away you should stay at a freinds or your grandparents or one of your family members.
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Dear Sir:
I'm writing 2 u regarding the crises I see that the masterbution is a dirty activity that I've erver faced yet in my life as I'm 19 years old boy here residing in Pakistan that the problem is I can't avoid masterbution, if u can provide some advice regarding masterbution & how do I can avoid this heck activity that would make me thankfull of u.
Urs sincerely
Ahmad hAqIqAtJoE (link)
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well hearing that your names ahmed you must be muslim,and for muslims its sinful to masterbate.Ok this is how to stop...just keep away from anything that has girls acting slutty and dressing unappropiate.If you watch any video clips or movies that has bad images then stop that.It might be hard at first and you wont get over it all at once.It takes will power to stop.
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14/f
ive had my best friend since kindergarden and we've been off and on since then. when were off we just dont talk and arnt friends at all, when were on we are the best together. ive had my other best friend since 5th grade and were inseperable. me and S (5th grade bf) are still together and always will be probably. but with K (other bf since kindergarder) she has other friends from tennis and she seems to love them more than us and she always just leaves us for them and never can hang out. shes done this alot of times over the summer over atleast 5 times. me and s and her were like a trio but now were not. i love k so much and i cry because i miss how she was.. but not she is hanging out with the fake girls in our school acting like one. i dont know if i shouldnt try and get the friendship back togther or what. i mean i dont think i did anything wrong she always leaves us. please help so i cant stop being a baby and crying about sometheing that i probably shouldnt feel horrible about.
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yeah you said it..you SHOULDNT feel horrible about this,shes doing this to herself,shes the one losing a true freind.Ok this is what you do...Call her up and tell her to meet you somewhere and tell her EVERYTHING...tell her how you guys have been freinds since kindergarten and how you think shes changed and that you miss the old her.Confront her this once and tell her everthing youve been feeling and thinking.If she stops ditching you off and being"fake" then yay!my plan worked heheh^_^ if not then dont even BOTHER to try to get her back because shes not worth it.If she wants to change and be fake and lose a freind then its her lose not yours
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A few years ago, I met this girl in one of my classes. I talked to her for maybe five minutes a day. Now, she still talks to me all the time and it's getting annoying. Before you call me a jerk, let me finish. Normally, I'm all for having new friends and people to talk to in school, but she is so incredibly annoying, not to mention rude, that it's driving me insane. It's hard to ignore her because she literally tracks me down in the hallway and she found where I sit at lunch. I try to humor her and I'll have a conversation with her, but it pisses me off when I'll be talking to another one of my friends and she'll appear out of nowhere and demand to know what we're talking about. I don't like having her around because all she does is talk and talk about things she's already told me before. It'd be different if I could get a word in edgewise or if she would at least listen to what I had to say every now and then. So my question is, how can I deal with her? I don't want to completely blow her off, because she doesn't have a lot of friends. Is there a nice way I can point out how rude she is without hurting her feelings tooo much? I'd have no problem with her being around if she wasn't so talkative and rude. (link)
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imma suggest you some things that you can do and you decide whats best....ok first of all you can try to have a talk with her one day and tell her what you dont like about her is that she says stuff that are impolite OR you can just give her the feeling that you dont want her around WITHOUT saying anything...THis is how you do it...like be talking with one of your freinds and when she comes stop talking..shell get bored of following you around when you dont even show interest in her at all.It is mean but its the nicest way you can tell her you dont want her around without actually saying anything.You dont want to have to live with an anooying person in your face every second of your life now do you^_^
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I have several best friends in my life, all of which are beautiful, caring, nice girls. But lately, they've been driving me INSANE. You see, they all have boyfriends, but their boyfriends are complete jerks to them! They convince them to lie to their parents, they take advantage of them when their drunk, they ditch them for their guy friends, they treat them like a piece of dirt, etc. And each one of my friends hates it when their boyfriends do those things, but they still think their boyfriend is the greatest thing in the world. I wish I could make them realize that they deserve sooo much better. I'm tired of them settling for an asshole of a boyfriend just because they NEED a guy to feel good about themselves. It's just not right and I just can't believe they would act so stupidly. How do I deal? (link)
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ok there are several things you can do,do which ever pleases you from the following.1)you can get them all together one day and tell them to first hear you out then comment on what you have to say.Tell each one of them what you think about their boyfreinds and tell them about the times that they came cryin to you about something their boyfreinds did to annoy them and tell them how they desserve better...plan out what your going to say so you dont end up lookin stupid...if you dont like gatherin them all then you can talk to each one of them alone.If you do this and they dont listen then...you can only let them experience this the HARD way.You warned them and they didnt heed your warning so,they have to faace the concenquences,and YOU will have to stay out of this cuz this is only going to get you stressed and get you NOWHERE cuz they might not listen.
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Im 14/f but im turning 15 in Sep. Im thinking about studying abroad in Costa Rica for the Feb. - July semester. Im really hoping I can go because I need to be fluent in spanish (I already know some). There are some things holding me back though. Here are my questions.
-How can I help raise money for my parents? It costs around 8000 dollars, and I have talked to my dad and asked whether we could afford it or not, and he said it is really expensive, but he never said no. So maybe if I helped raise money I could go?
-Im worried like what if the town I go to stay has a really bad school or something with gangs and all that?
-What if the family has other kids that would not like me?
-Also with AFS {look on google} do you think if they did have bad schools or a bad family would we be able to get a refund and have me come home if i was truly scared?
Please tell me all you know! thanks in advance (link)
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i think you should go for it...well its normal to be scared at first cuz your going to a totally different place..But itll be fun and youll get to know new people and see new places and get new education...itll be a whole new expereince for you!And dont forget its expereince that makes a person strong!i think you should get a job for your age so you can help your parents with the money.Try to save as much money as possible to get what you want.
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well my boyfriend is really sweet the best boyfriend i have ever had.=D i am really happy with him. Im in love with him. But suddenly he seems kinda like wanting to have sex with me like when he comes over he takes off his shirt n my. like were about to do it but im not sure if i want to yet. Is not that i dont love him i do a WHOLE LOT. What should i do. just stop him all the time. should i just do it. i kinda want to sometimes but im scarde im still a virgen. pleasee help. (link)
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what you need to do here is make up your mind.ARE you ready to lose your virginity to this guy??If your between12-15 years old i suggest you dont lose it now because your way too young and many people that lose it at that age end up regreting it.If he wants to do it with you best thing you should do is be open and tell him that your not ready if your not...you dont wana end up losing it by force and regreting it do you?!
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My boyfriend told me he loved me the other day.
And I froze because I don't love him back.
What should I have said, and what should I say in the future when I still don't love him and he says it again? (link)
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wow....why are you with him if you dont love him?You wouldnt like it if you loved a guy and he was with you and didnt love you,because you know eventually hell break up with you and break ur heart...Heres what you do you either give yourself a chance to love him and wait for a week OR you tell him the truth and tell him you dont feel the way he does...yeah it will hurt him but the sooner you tell him the better cuz if you wait..hell just love you more and youll tell him later on and the break he will have is gonna be worse!OR you can try to show him one of your friends that might consider dating him and mabey....hell fall for one of them..
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So my boyfriend said I could use his computer to edit photos of the two of us. While I was doing so, I threw one away accidently and went to the recycle bin to retrieve it. I found all kinds of porn movies that he had downloaded. It literally made me sick: especially since he and I took dirty pictures and made dirty movies that he has on his computer. Why would he want to watch other girls and not me? It makes me extremely jealous.
My question is: how do I bring this up to him? I was by no means snooping, but I think it might come of that way. I have a feeling he'll get defensive as well. I just need a place to start from. Do I tell him the story of how I found it? Do I just come out and say "You looking at porn is hurtful to me"? Thank you for the advice in advance. (link)
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just tell him the truth man.Theres nothing to be afraid of its the truth.Tell him you accidently deleted somethin and when you went to get it back from the recycle bin you found porn.and tell him that it pisses you off!Its the truth so why should you fear it?
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There is a research project on five religions:
Buddhism
Christianity
Hinduism
Judaism
Islam
I have to find:
1. The symbol
2. Nation or origin
3. Founder (if applicable)
4. Holy books (if applicable)
5. Place of worship
6. Beliefs and practices (min of 6)
7. Map showing location of the religion
For each religion that is.
I was wondering if anyone knew any sites [good, reliable sites] that could help me find any of the information I listed above. NO wikepedia PLEASE!
Thank you so much for any help! I'll love you forever and ever
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im muslim and i know my religion well so i think i can help you^_^
the founder is propher mohamed,the book is the quran the place we worship god in is the mosque,the beilifes and practices....hmmm well we fast on the holy month of ramadan,we pray the five prayers a day,muslim woman are suppoesd to wear something called the hijab(veil)...theyre suppoesd to cover theyre hair with this scarf...i wear it so you can see how it looks on my profile lol and you can see my website www.freewebs.com/islamteens/ hope i helped^_^
yeah islam is the same as muslim but like...islam means submission to god and muslim is the same thing but when you for example ask what a persons religion is theyll say im muslim not im islam lol if u have any other questions about islam my email is marilyn_monroe_4_arabs@hotmail.com
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My so called "best friend" started slapping me about a few weeks ago. It's over the stupidest things, too! Like, I have a favorite lip gloss that I put on all the time in school. She hates it, so she slaps me really hard across the face for that. Sometimes it doesn't hurt, but one time she left a red mark on my face. I've tried slapping her back a few times, but she always blocks her face, so I just kick her.
She's also been acting like a bitch lately, like she'll be nice to me and then tell me to go away 2 minutes later. Today, I didn't hang out with her at lunch, and she called me a slut because the kid she likes was NEAR me. I'm not even friends with him and we don't talk! I don't understand what her problem is. (link)
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omg what the HELL.You havent done anything back to her to get your revenge??!?!OK heres the plan.Next time she slaps you CURSE HER THE HELL OUT!!!who cares!!If she was your best freind she wouldnt do this!!curse her out and slap her back if you have to!! OR you can walk up to her one day and just randomly slap her and go dont you ever slap me again bitch!It might seem like what im sayin is mean but come on SHE did this first and never thought that what she was doing is mean!You need to learn never to take anyone for granted and treat everyone the way they treat you.
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So I have a pretty good relationship with my Lord and Savior- Jesus Christ. A strange (but not bad) thing happened to me back in september- and I have yet to figure out why He did this.
This is what happened: I was 13 over the summer- and I spent the whole time crying because I was single and I felt unloved and unworthy of having a relationship. I was praying for a boyfriend a lot too. I felt God speak to me and tell me that he would send me a nice boy who was new to my theater group (that starts in september) who would hit on me. He didn't lie- because on the first night of the class this amazingly attractive and nice 17-yr-old guy told me I was pretty and he asked for my number. I felt like I was dreaming. He called me later that night and started talking to me and we were setting up a date and then he told me how he had Asberger's Syndrome.
So, my point is- I don't see why God would send me such a perfect man exept for his mental disorder. When we figured out it wouldn't work out- it left me in the worst depressed state. I turned to alcohol as well.
I'm confused.
If anyone has any ideas- they'd be greatly appreciated. (link)
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ok tell you something.Sometimes when you pray to god for something God doesnt fufill it for you.WHy you ask?It is beacause sometimes what you want can HARM you in a way.Like what happened to you here.You prayed for a looong time for a boyfreind and didnt get one for a long time...that was a sign that what you wanted was not good for you and to prove that...things didnt work with you and this guy.And other times God dont accept your wishes cuz hes saving you something BETTER in the future,so you have to be patient!Your only 13 and you have your whole life ahead of you.Dont rush it.And get away from alcohol cuz it will make your life worse...if you think alcohol is going to solve anything,im sorry to say itll only give you diseases and will harm you and worst of all WONT GET YOU A BOYFREIND!!Just wait and see...who knows mabey the next year youll meet a cute guy that god sent you!!
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16/f
alright me and my friend, dustin, have been friends forever. and like yeah we fool around.. we're kinda each others rebound.
well long story short.. tonight he came over.. and i figured he wanted something.. boy was i right.
at first he said he didnt want anything... and then night went on, we watched a movie and fooled around.. well.. then things started getting hot and heavy and he asked if i had condoms.. i said yea. well yeah i may have wanted it for a long time but it felt wrong because i was cheated on and didnt wanna get screwed over.
also i think that sex shouldnt be the only thing involved in a relationship.. it shouldnt matter. to me its the most distant thing in a relationship.. i guess what im trying to say is that i have morals.
but like did i make the right decision or was that his way of telling me he wants to be with me or something?
i need serious answers.. please and thanks =] (link)
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i think what you did was damn wrong.This guy doesnt want a relationship,he just didnt find anyone eles to have sex with so he came to you cuz he knows your his best freind and wont say no.Doing something like this can not only mess up the way you feel towards him but can also ruin your freindship with this guy.Anyways whats past is past make sure you dont make the same mistake again.Learn from the past to refine your future.
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