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loosing bff
14/f
ive had my best friend since kindergarden and we've been off and on since then. when were off we just dont talk and arnt friends at all, when were on we are the best together. ive had my other best friend since 5th grade and were inseperable. me and S (5th grade bf) are still together and always will be probably. but with K (other bf since kindergarder) she has other friends from tennis and she seems to love them more than us and she always just leaves us for them and never can hang out. shes done this alot of times over the summer over atleast 5 times. me and s and her were like a trio but now were not. i love k so much and i cry because i miss how she was.. but not she is hanging out with the fake girls in our school acting like one. i dont know if i shouldnt try and get the friendship back togther or what. i mean i dont think i did anything wrong she always leaves us. please help so i cant stop being a baby and crying about sometheing that i probably shouldnt feel horrible about.
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People change, you have to learn to accept it. Friendships can die, but memories live on forever. Remember all the good times you used to have with her.
If she's not willing to want to hang out with you, you probably deserve better friends. This is a vague statement but there are plenty more fish in the sea, you just need to find a new set of friends, and take your time, this problem might solve itself.
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ignore her... the other 2 advincenators said it all!
she's doing this to herself.
I had a great bestfriend since 1st grade... now she's part of the "popular" group.. and i'm just being myself. but you know what? when all of us grow up...the "popular" people are going to be stuck in their life because they will go through so much drama... but then the people who are themselves, always happy and never frown... they are going to be the successfull ones in the future.
Leave her! She will realize how fun it was when she was with you... don't try to win her back, let her come back to you.
right now.. you're only 14 and you should be happy that you are with S.
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yeah you said it..you SHOULDNT feel horrible about this,shes doing this to herself,shes the one losing a true freind.Ok this is what you do...Call her up and tell her to meet you somewhere and tell her EVERYTHING...tell her how you guys have been freinds since kindergarten and how you think shes changed and that you miss the old her.Confront her this once and tell her everthing youve been feeling and thinking.If she stops ditching you off and being"fake" then yay!my plan worked heheh^_^ if not then dont even BOTHER to try to get her back because shes not worth it.If she wants to change and be fake and lose a freind then its her lose not yours
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You're right. You shouldn't feel horrible about it, but you're letting it get to you for no reason. She's hanging out with the fakes girls, and so what? Everyone changes. Friends change, boyfriends change. People change! Her not hanging out with you guys is her loss, and she'll learn her lesson once they backstab her.
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