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All my friends are stupid.
I have several best friends in my life, all of which are beautiful, caring, nice girls. But lately, they've been driving me INSANE. You see, they all have boyfriends, but their boyfriends are complete jerks to them! They convince them to lie to their parents, they take advantage of them when their drunk, they ditch them for their guy friends, they treat them like a piece of dirt, etc. And each one of my friends hates it when their boyfriends do those things, but they still think their boyfriend is the greatest thing in the world. I wish I could make them realize that they deserve sooo much better. I'm tired of them settling for an asshole of a boyfriend just because they NEED a guy to feel good about themselves. It's just not right and I just can't believe they would act so stupidly. How do I deal?
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Your friends are so caught up pleasing their boyfriends, that they don't really care for anything else. I know that you tryed talking to them about this, but if they won't listen to you let them deal with this on their own. You're being a good friend for looking out for them but you have to let them learn from their own mistakes. When they get hurt by those guys, they're going to realize that you were right and that friends always know best.
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ok there are several things you can do,do which ever pleases you from the following.1)you can get them all together one day and tell them to first hear you out then comment on what you have to say.Tell each one of them what you think about their boyfreinds and tell them about the times that they came cryin to you about something their boyfreinds did to annoy them and tell them how they desserve better...plan out what your going to say so you dont end up lookin stupid...if you dont like gatherin them all then you can talk to each one of them alone.If you do this and they dont listen then...you can only let them experience this the HARD way.You warned them and they didnt heed your warning so,they have to faace the concenquences,and YOU will have to stay out of this cuz this is only going to get you stressed and get you NOWHERE cuz they might not listen.
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well people act stupid for guys for many reason one they beleive themselves in love and most dont want to be alone they cant go with out a guy so they put up with the assholes and the guys act like assholes because they know that they can they know that they can walk all over there gurlfriends because they know they can theres really nothing you can do expect all though it may hurt there feelings but be brutally honest tell them that there stupid and there boyfriend really dont love them and there playin them for a fool there using them tell them to get over it they dont need a guy to make them complete there fine by themselves and they always got a friend in you i know its hard to watch this happen to your friends but its a battle that they have to fight and hopefully win all you can do is give advice and be there to pick them up when they fall when they the harsh reality and you were right i hope your friends come around you cant make them change there minds and remeber honesty helps sometimes so be honest and tell them i hope i helped and sorry its so long and confusing my inbox is always open if you need any more help
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Talk to them about it, or let them learn this lesson on their own. I know you care about your friends & don't wanna see them hurt, but sometimes you gotta let them learn for themselves.
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