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I`m Desiree

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i`m 17 years old

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i want a cell phone soo bad but my parents said no cause the last time i had one i didnt use it that much but that was like a year ago and now i would be using it but they keep saying no what are some ways to talk them into getting me a cell phone..
i rate 5

Maybe tell them the reasons that you`ll use the cell phone..Use the house phone alot..Maybe mention you`ll help pay or do extra chores for the phone..

♥Dez

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My b/f and i had sex on March 10 & on March 17. i was supposed to get my period on March 16. i still haven't gotten it. my b/f used condoms both times and there were no rips in them when he 'pulled out.' i have some of the symptoms of being pregnant. AM I????? please help. i will rate high for great responses.

thank you

If the condom was used correctly then there is a slim chance of pregnancy..But having sex can sometimes mess your cycle up..But that doesn`t mean there isn`t a chance so i recommend maybe getting a pregnancy test..&& if possible maybe think about birth control so you don`t have to worry about this again..

♥Dez

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Okay, I had a cellphone but then my parents didnt let me pay for it no more because I did something totally wrong and they found out. Now I want to get my cellphone back but they keep on saying no because I might go and do it again. What can I do so that they can trust me again and I can get my cellphone back?

Watch things you do..Clean up after yourself,Be in by curfew,Don`t do anything stupid that will get you in trouble..Keep your grades up..

Those things might help you..

♥Dez

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Help! I am in terrible need of advice! There's this guy I like and we're graduating soon. This is my last chance of letting him know my feelings for him. But i'm too chicken to admit it to him. What should I do? And if I get the nerve to tell him, how do I do it? Pls.help!

I think you should write a letter && give it to him before school is out..

I wouldn`t wait til graduation i`d give it him before maybe before a class or something unless he is a type of guy that`ll make you feel stupid about it && show everybody this letter..

But if he`s a good guy like every girl should want then difantly give it to him sooner then graduation..

I think thats the only way you`ll find out if he feels the same for you or just wants to be friends or something..

♥Dez

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Okay so i've got a BIGGG habit of biting my nails! what can i do to stop? and don't tell me to put my hand in dog poo or anything like that because thats gross lol!

thankyou sweeties xo

Oh my i have this same problem..

Well actually to help me stop from biting them i get my nails done..&& well thats difantly has made me stop biting them..But i don`t know if you`d want to do that since it can cost some money..

♥Dez

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i got a detention today in school.. ive never gotten one before and i know if i tell my mom she will be pissed off and ill get the comeputer,cellphone and EVERYTHING taken away.. i dont know what to do!!.. pleaseee help ill rate high!

I recommend just telling her because if she`s anything like my mom more then just that will be tooken away or possibley for a long time..

Just tell her what happened..♥Dez

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heyy im new here. where can i get a layout for my column?

Go by what [GreenDayWillRockYou] said that advice is completely correct..

♥Dez

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Okay, I really really really want to have sex with him (a.k.a. my boyfriend) but everytime we are about to "do it", I chicken out.

I don't know why, I guess that it's because I'm a virgin.
But I wish I weren't so scared. And I can never figure
out why I back out.

What should I do? Wait to have sex? Or just hold my
tongue and get it over with?

[p.s.] i'm a female, 16 years old

It sounds like your not ready for it sweetie..
Don`t push yourself into doing this..

So i do think waiting would be the best thing to do..You`ll know when the time is right..And obvious this isn`t the time..

♥Dez

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ok so i just got $360 for my sweet sixteen but i cant think of anything to spend it on besides clothes!! help..what else can i get. any ideas?

I would recommend maybe saving it..Like for a car or license..

Buy something nice for yourself you`ll like..
Jewelry
Shoes
Make up
Ipod
Cds
Get your nails done,Pedicure
Ummm buy a new purse
♥Dez

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what does HxC mean? i see it a lot but i dont understand it...thanks ♥

Hardcore or Hardcore Punk..

♥Dez

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I would like teenagers to answer this one,

My daughter is 13. But the clothes she wears are not...happy. She always is sarcastic. She listens to strange, loud music. Is this the fashion these days? Should I let her be?

She`s difantly being a teenager..

Sounds like she`s her own person && wears what she feels like wearing..I wouldn`t be to worried about it..Also being sarcastic is something every teenager does..Horrible isn`t it but if you want to have a little bit of control over that maybe use punishment if your okay with that..♥Dez

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Ok. I am a 14 year old guy looking for a new hair style. I have my hair parted in the center then feathred back now. Anyone know a good looking hair style with information on how to style your hair to get it? I have brown hair if it helps.

What about a fade hair cut..??

♥Dez

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i am a girl. 1 am 26 yrs. I allready have sex with somebody. but not very deep. but i am not sure i am still vergin. now i am going to married with differen person. now i am very up sad because if the person know that i already sex with somebody else mean sure this person dont want me. my questions is the person can find out that i already have sex with somebody else? please advise me?

Yes your considered not a virgin since you had intercourse with this other guy..

But this guy your marrying will not know you not a virgin unless you tell him..I wouldn`t worry about it sweetie..

♥Dez

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Well I like this guy, Zach & he likes me, well I thought he did. Then we went to this thing our school has it is kalled a Varitey Show it is used to earn money and one of my friends Daniel is there and so was his cousin (Justine) She is really gross she wears no make up and boy clothes and she has greasy hair and it smells like sweat and I had somone tell me that he likes her. & I dont like to make the moves I am pretty sure I he knows I like him but I am not sure. I dont know what to do about Justine she is a gross like bitch (excuse my french) I think she should die.
Please help..

♥ tiFF

Wow somwbody is difantly jealous aren`t they..

Why don`t you just say you like him && maybe he`ll make the move..Since you said he likes you..People also might be lyin to you just cuz they know you like him && want to cause some sort of problem..But still theres a chance he might like her..Just tell him or a friend that you like him..Get it over with..

♥Dez

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I have this pimple like bump on my vagina. But it's not a pimple it's hard. And I have never had sex, so I have no idea what it could be. It just showed up like five minutes ago. Anyone know what it could be?

It could be razor burn like if you shave that area it can get irratated && break out in little bumps..Yes!! i know it can be nasty if you don`t do it right..I wouldn`t freak out because well duh your not sexually active so its no biggie..Also your skin could just be irratated there..If it hurts or uncomfortable then i`d consult a doctor but other then that let it go && it`ll probably be gone with in a couple days..

♥Dez

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freshamn chick-junior guy

this guy in my class is always staring at me like whenever i look up there he is looking at me

do you think he may have a thing for me or does he just like to stare at me?

he's cute and im not very attractive

i am really shy and he is like the complete opposite so if he does like me why won't he talk to me? he talks to me over the computer sometimes.

so just please hepl me out a little, im confused much.

Sounds like he likes you..Even tho he is opposite of you doesn`t mean he can`t like you..[People say opposites attract]Who knows..But umm maybe he is shy && too nervous to approach you..

Even tho guys might not seem shy they can be nervous && shy as well..Even if they might seem like they wouldn`t..Maybe ask why he doesn`t talk you at school && asking him over the computer might be easier for you since your shy as well plus i`m sure you don`t want to make him feel weird..

Guys i know can be confusing..♥Dez

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a big issue with me is i won't be with someone that is a pothead and when me and my boyfriend first started to go out he said that he did smoke pot once but that he didn't like it so he wasn't going to do it anymore. this weekend he spent some time at his cousin's house with his cousin and her boyfriend. one night the got completely drunk and were smoking and he told me. this happens everytime he hangs out with his cousin. i don't know what to say to him. i love him so much and i really want to be with him but i can't be with someone that smokes

Talk to him,Tell hime how you feel about him doing this..Mention how you care for him && that drugs basically mess you up && make you have no future..

If he really cares for you sweetie he`ll stop..

♥Dez

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how do people on here make their advice collumns fancier, like i dont mean the background but some people have their box about them at the top and they dont have the 4 boxes at the top saying feedback and stuff up there and things like that

On the side where you log in at is a link that says [Column Settings] at the top of that page it has some ways you can change the layout of things..

Also codes for things like that are disabled on this site..

♥Dez

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i have stretch marks around my nipples and on my upper thighs near my butt, how can i get rid of them? and are they normal?

Palmers Cocoa Butter..

Being honest,They do not ever go completely away but they`ll defiantly fade..&& will be less noticeable..I mean you might not be able to tell you have any at all but i`m sure if you study yourself you`ll see them..

Put it on twice a day && you can purchase this at walmart or target..

♥Dez

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Does someone know what you have to go through to get homeschooled? (Like do you have to get certain papers andhave people sign them). And how long it takes to register the papers through to be legally homeschooled by your parent/guardian? Thank-you. I'll rate

Yes you`ll have to most likely fill some papers out because they like to know your grades && attendance && things..

Also they like to know your past schools && want birth certificate copy,SS number..They also like to see where your at in learning like what classes have you tooken && such things..

My Aunt homeschools her children && it didn`t seem like it took long or had trouble being able to do it..I would think they`d like to know the parents history of schooling also..

But it depends on the state..

♥Dez

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