i recenlt attended a party at my friends house...... im 14 female. anywayz. i went out with this boy ryan for 2 months last winter and then again for 3 dayz in september. we broke up then second time because we became too good of friends and it was "weird" n e way.... at my friends party it started out with talking and he was flirting with me. then i was sitting on his lap and i must have been there for 45 min then all the sudden we started making out. the rest of the night we couldnt keep out hand off eachother. He had his hands on my waiste or butt or he was holding my hand. well i talked to him recently and he says he likes me and this other girl. and i kinda wanna go back out with him. but im confused... we were too good of friends to go out but we can still make out? and obviously we like eachother as more then friends... i dono... what do you think?
go for it! you're either in high school or middle school, so relationships don't have to be forever, and if being with him makes you happy, there's no reason not to be with him!
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ok, well i like my guy friend AND his best friend? i know my guy friend is closer, even thought i think he's mad at me rightn now, but his friend is soo hott!! and he's not THAT hott, but he's pretty good lookin ;)! lol and he has the best qualities!!
Help?
follow your heart.
it knows what to do.
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im 13 and i have a bf. hes really nice and i like him alot but whenever im stressed he tries to cheer me up my makeing out hes 14 so hes only one year older but everyone at school thinks im a whore because i've been presured into having sex once but the person who did it got in trouble but everyone thinks i wanted it....i really didnt and i always think about it but my true problem is does my bf try to go further because im not exactly a virgin??? please help
i don't think that's it... i think that he's confused about emotions so he's trying to cheer you up by distracting you... and if he tries pressuring you into anything you don't want to do, tell him y'all need a lil space. best of luck
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I am always paranoid that people are lying to me. My boyfriend will say something nice like: I think you are beautiful and I just can't accept it. I am always convinced that my boyfriend doesn't really like me and wants to break up with me. What should I do?
honey... if he wanted to break up with you he definitely wouldn't be telling you you're beautiful. he loves you! i don't think i can really tell you to take the compliment to heart, however, i can suggest that if it continues to bother you, you try to get a little help outside an advice forum... it may be something we can't help with.
on that note, when he says it, just tell yourself that he loves you and that you are beautiful. and say thanks!
best of luck
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Well, i have this friend and i mean she is really really nice when it is jsut us two, but when we are with our other good friends or when we are with boys, she always has to be the center of attention. She knows she has the best body, so she always says something about being on a diet, so people tell her that she is perfect, and she knows she is like gorgeous and so she always talks about how she looks bad so everyone can reassure her some more. Me and my other bestfriend have been talking about it constantly and we love being with her alone, but it is really getting on our nerves, especially because it makes us feel worse about ourselves. Please help!!!
talk to her! maybe she doesn't know that she's being an attention hog who is majorly insecure about herself. or maybe she doesn't realize that she does it as often as she does, or that it really bugs people. but if it's bugging you, it's bugging other people, but it's best for her to hear it from someone who cares and can cushion the blow. best of luck.
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Okay.. i have had a secret that only my really good friends know but im not going to tell what it is. Well, in skool one day this kid chase shouted it out loud and everyone looked at me. I asked him who said it and he said it was my bestfriend! Well she promised she didnt do it so i forgave her and she told me my other friend jade said it.. but now i heard that this girl that i really dont like her name is shelby she told 2 of my friends that didnt know and i didnt even tell shelby about it my other friend shannon did. Today we were in s/s and my other friend amanda told me she said it! Im just so confused! should i be mad at all these people or should i just let it go?? please help!
i think it's gonna be really difficult to figure out who started the secret telling spree, but it seems like they all perpetuated it. i think it may be best if you just let it go... it just seems like it could be too difficult to choose the person to be mad at... but if you can't let it go that easily, get everyone you originally told to sit down together and talk with them about how you're disappointed/hurt/whatever. communication is key.
best of luck
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ok here is the thing...im in 9th grade and so are my 2 friends..i know one of my friends since 7th grade and one since last year (8th) and well they went out from like 01/06/04 to yesterday (11/04/04)...she broke up w/ him bc he wasnt a boyfriend type person who didnt do much..they basically acted like friends who kissed (pecked) nothing else...anyways she broke up w/ him in front of me, my friend kevin and becky outside @ dismal...and after this happened becky was trying to get them back together..and it didnt work and he walked off w/ our other friend matt and she started crying as the 4 of us (me, her..becky and kevin) were walking to the busses..and we took turns holding her and all..then i was talking to her on-line and all last night and she said how she was still crying and i said well you made a good point and all about dumping him..dont keep saying to your self "why did i do that" ...and all..today she came into english crying, and my friend and i were just holding her and all....and we stood there for like 5 minutes and all..she showed me a note he wrote to her and inside was a poem of goodbye and all..and the teacher sent her and my friend to the time out room *basically guidence but all they do is listen to ur problems and thats basically all* and they came back after like 5 mins and she was all calm and etc..then 6th period lunch i was talking to my friend about what was gonna happen 9th period bc we all have study hall etc...it came to 9th period..we didnt even sit at the table...we sat on the floor in the corner of the caf..and after the others decided to ask to get a table open they sat at the table and i remained on the floor w/ her..and at one point i got up and went over to him and asked if he was mad at her bc she wanted to know..so i asked and he said "yeahh bc there was no good reason for why we broke up" and i came back and i told her and she says "yeah there is he didnt act like a bf!" and i said "yeah i knoww i agreeee" then i went back and i asked him why he didnt want to be friends w/ her anymore and he said " i didnt say that! im just steamed i need time to cool off" and i said "then?" he said "then we may become friends again" and i asked "like a month?" and he said " i just need time to cool off" and i went back to her and told her..and she told me to tell him something i dont remember what and that she stilled loves him and i went and told him..and he like "i dont caree" and i went back and i told her..and she was holding a braclet in her hand that she always wears and i know she wasnt trying to cry and i could see it her eyes that she wanted to but she didnt want to do it in front of him..and im not quite sureee...
any advice anyways ways of helpin her??? thx
honey, stop being the go between, they're growing up, and they need to learn to talk to each other. besides, he may not see how she truly feels if she doesn't talk to him... and she might not know how she truly feels unless she talks to him. best of luck
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well do u guys know that quote..
let the person you love go and if they come back they were meant to be yours??
well i never believed that quote..until i met *ben* in 6th grade but then i told ppl i didnt like him n then durin 7th grade i kinda forgot abut him but then like the quote said in 8th grade *ben* came back..
were we meant to be??
tnxs nd i rate high
none of us can really tell you if y'all were meant to be, but if you still have feelings for him, go for it, because there's always the chance you are.
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ok... our school is one of 2 high schools in the district... and srry if this is long.. but.. the other one had a "silently loud" protest the other day b/c the principle said they couldn't wear white, black, or pink t-shirts anymore... and the guys had to cut their hair... and the no one can wear black makeup....... like eyeshadow, lipstick, etc..... and now they wanna do that to our school... we are havin a protest on monday and everyone.. well.. mostly everyone.. is wearin black... everything black...... is there any other way to get them to realize that we mean buisness.???? thnx much.... i rate.. InsaneSanityBabi
a jelly necklace isn't a jelly bracelet, so you could argue that point, and if they say that you still need to take it off, flat out tell them that you're obviously wearing the cross for religious purposes, not because you want someone to snap it and have sex with them.
they shouldn't be able to dictate which color of clothing you're allowed to wear, so tell them that by wearing pink/black/white it's a statement of your individuality and what not. if they still tell you it's wrong, call your parents on it...
or better yet and attorney.
to ban half the colors everyone owns is ridiculous, and i'm sure an lawyer in town would take the case
i gotta ask, is this a private school?
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Well, i have an xanga, but whenever i type a new entry, its always in that gross default faunt *times new roman* and its like 12 pt. sick. how do i change it without going platinum?
xOx
go to xanga settings, and there's a bunch of different pull down menus that have to do with font, just mess around until you find one you like
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okay well my ex boyfriend danny and me went out for 2 months..well we were going out he started to hang out with his ex all the time and ye i did get jealous..n then one night he was telling me how he only told me he loved me becuase he was confused about her..so the next day which would be 2 months he dumped me for her..he asked her bak out and she said nobecuase she cant see them together..now danny is asking me back out..and i said yes i will give him another chance..he says he wants to be with me forever and he aid evryday he sees me he is falling in love with me even more and he said when i turn 18 he wants me to move with him..he says he will do anything for me and he is always here for me..i want to go back out with him because i do still love him but i dont want him to hurt me again..n i told him that n he promised me that he wont and he thinks we can last.
do you think i should giv him another chance???
i realli love him alot...he means evrything to me.... i mean wat if i dont n it would have worked out...n then later in lyfe i am wondering wat could have happened
i think you've already answered your question.
it's obvious you really want to get back together with him, so you might as well go ahead and do it. but hon, keep your defenses up for a while at least. talk to him about what he said. tell him that it really hurt you to have him say that he loved you because another girl didn't love him. and keep that in mind before you make the decision... is he just doing the same thing again?
you should give him a chance to explain himself... and if you don't like his answers, then feel free to not get back together with him. if you think they're good enough... then try again...
best of luck
p.s. famous words from a friend, "a broken heart is against my law, he broke my heart, so i broke his jaw"
on that note, follow your heart, but take your head with you
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ok Here I go, I really really really like this guy. I met him at a party (i knew him i just didn't know him know him) and my friends kept telling me that he looked like he likes me. (paying attention to me, flirting) So like a week later I began to fall head over heels for him. I don't see him that often at school and when I do we give a little wave. I just don't have the guts to tell him. I want him to know but now I'm very insecure about when I like guys cause I always get heartbroken. Lets just say, I basically fell for the wrong guys. I know I should just move on. But its always going to be there in the pit of my heart. The confusing part is I want him to know and then I don't. Why? Why do I think that way? I'm thinking to myself I'm way out of his league in looks and everything. (you can see my picture on x0x_surfergirl_x0x) Plus he's popular and I DO NOT like getting that whole attention spaz when I'm going out with someone. Sorry for it being sooo long. I'm just really depressed but when I see him my heart flutters. :) What do I do?
xo0x adriana
hon... follow your heart. you'll regret it a lot more if you don't...
best of luck
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Hey well I met this guy in a chat room and we got to talkin and it turned out that he went to my school , and when I found him in my school he turned out to be the Captian of the Football team and he seamed to like me but I already have a boyfriend...... I love my boyfriend to death but the guy I met lets just say his name is Shawn asked me out and I turned him down , was that the right thing to do???
as long as you like your boyfriend more than the other guy.
it's like "a cinderella story" only with a way different ending.
i have this theory... that maybe you like "shawn" more than you admit... after all, you turned him down and you're still thinking about him.
best of luck, hope everything turns out for the best
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Okay i'm about 5'1" or 5'2" and i think i'm fat because i weight inbetween 125-130 but i'm on a diet, basically just for healthy foods and just cutting it down a little bit, i'm in volleyball theory at high school and cheerleading. everything things im perfect, but i think im fat, i run in my spare time, crunchers and all this abdominal crap, but i don't know what else to do, im a freshman so that means im 14 if this helps any. I don't know if i'm normal or over weight, i was reading a thing in the paper and it said only for my height to weight about 109- and my formal is coming up in December, please help me, I wanna look good.
see, the thing about those kinda of books is that they don't take into account any kind of exercise. because you're so athletic, you're all muscle, and muscle weighs more than fat. darlin', you're an awesome weight, don't worry. besides, any guy would rather have a girl with amazing muscle tone than a twig. i bet you'll look wonderful at your formal!
best of luck
don't think so poorly of yourself!
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well.. i'm in 8th grade. i feel way too old to go out trick or treating, but i have nothing else to do!! plus, nobody is going with me. should i just go for my last time, or skip it?? when did everyone else stop??
hahaha, i went as a freshman, sophomore, and i'm planning on going this year.
growing old is inevitable, growing up is optional!
go for your last time, take a little kid as a favor or something, it's a blast, and once you stop trick or treating, you'll feel old... who ever wants to actually feel old?! best of luck chica...
i'll leave you with the wonderful words of disney!
"i won't grow up
(i won't grow up)
i don't wanna wear a tie
(i don't wanna wear a tie)
Or a serious expression
in the middle of july!"
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i shave my underarms but lately its been gettin irrated and it itchs. wat to do?
it sounds like it could be razor burn. make sure when you shave it's moist, otherwise it wreaks havoc on your skin. try using a shaving cream... best of luck
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What exactly is cybersex? What do people do when they cyber? How do you have sex online?
it's not actually having sex, it's basically just saying what you could do if they were there... leaves a lot to the imagination. some people like it, but i've never tried, so i dunno.
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ok, i had been liking this guy, and i told him that i liked him in a note, but now i havent a clue what to say to him. i feel like such an idiot..im not very good at this sort of thing. i dont know what to do. should i just let it go and hope he brings it up sometime, or do I bring it up, since i am the one who wrote the darn thing. please help me!! im stuck in the middle..i talk to him, but just about everyday stuff and its driving me crazy. thanks guys, y'all are awesome!
he could be as nervous as you are and doesn't know what to say... i think you should bring it up. best of luck
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13/f
hey i wear contacts and i really want colored ones..but im not sure what color would look good on me..is there any way to try it out without buying them first..? Oh and if you think you know a good color..please let me know..I am indian with tan skin..dark brown hair and i have dark brown eyes! thanks!
i think green would look really pretty, or you could always try a really deep blue
best of luck
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Do any of you ever get into those moods where all you can do is think of everything that you hate about yourself? how do u make those feelings go away...? let me know
i have before, and it's hard to get our of. but the best thing to do is think of all the compliments you've ever gotten, and to write those down along with a list of things you love about yourself. keep it to look back to and add on to next time you feel down. i hope i helped
best of luck
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