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ok Here I go, I really really really like this guy. I met him at a party (i knew him i just didn't know him know him) and my friends kept telling me that he looked like he likes me. (paying attention to me, flirting) So like a week later I began to fall head over heels for him. I don't see him that often at school and when I do we give a little wave. I just don't have the guts to tell him. I want him to know but now I'm very insecure about when I like guys cause I always get heartbroken. Lets just say, I basically fell for the wrong guys. I know I should just move on. But its always going to be there in the pit of my heart. The confusing part is I want him to know and then I don't. Why? Why do I think that way? I'm thinking to myself I'm way out of his league in looks and everything. (you can see my picture on x0x_surfergirl_x0x) Plus he's popular and I DO NOT like getting that whole attention spaz when I'm going out with someone. Sorry for it being sooo long. I'm just really depressed but when I see him my heart flutters. :) What do I do?
xo0x adriana
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You sound like your in love with the guy and that can be good and bad... You want him to know because you really like him a lot and want him to ask you out and you don't want to know because your afraid of rejection and just don't want to go through all that again... <--- that's maybe why your felling confused... Well, if you don't like getting attention from all the populars then maybe you shouldn't ask him out, but it's your choice hun... I think you SHOULD ask the guy out, but if he is just not worth getting all the attention that you will probably get and you couldn't stand it, then you shouldn't. I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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hon... follow your heart. you'll regret it a lot more if you don't...
best of luck
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Don't worry about it being long. I mean I wish I knew how old you were. You like a guy and then you don't... it's perfectly natural. It comes from when you aren't with a guy and you make out with him and stuff it's the whole having your cake and eating it too. Just be like "hey what's up with us?"I know that you are shy, but don't do the friend thing good luck
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Just be blunt. Don't be too assertive but you gotta let him how you feel. Hey, what can you loose?
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