ok, i had been liking this guy, and i told him that i liked him in a note, but now i havent a clue what to say to him. i feel like such an idiot..im not very good at this sort of thing. i dont know what to do. should i just let it go and hope he brings it up sometime, or do I bring it up, since i am the one who wrote the darn thing. please help me!! im stuck in the middle..i talk to him, but just about everyday stuff and its driving me crazy. thanks guys, y'all are awesome!
Lachiquitaloca9 answered Friday October 29 2004, 8:36 am: The ball is in his court. If he likes you let him do something. If he doesn't like you back then he won't do anything, so just move on and find another hottie. :) No sense in wasting your time, there are plenty of other guys out there. [ Lachiquitaloca9's advice column | Ask Lachiquitaloca9 A Question ]
PresleyPizzelanti answered Thursday October 28 2004, 11:19 pm: ok first of all. you NEVER directly tell a guy you like him. flirt with him. a lot. but play hard to get cause guys will always want what they cant have. but since u've already told him, all there is to do is act the way you did before you told him, or you could just avoid him. but if he likes you back and u avoid him, then you'd never find out. so youre pretty much stuck in a hole. [ PresleyPizzelanti's advice column | Ask PresleyPizzelanti A Question ]
Cath answered Thursday October 28 2004, 7:52 pm: Hi Sweetie,
Depends... how long has its been? (You need to give him time to evaluate his feelings BUT it CAN'T be too long that he forgot about it or something... then you'd look dorky-in a bad way)
You should defenetly bring it up. Being straight forward with him will not only get you an answer but it will leave a good imression on him. He'll see you aren't playing games or it wasn't a dare and that you're serious about it. Say something like "Did you get my note? What do you think?"
I hope someonee is of help and I apologize if my answer provided no help. You seem cool and I hope he's smart enough to realze that and he brings it up. Best wishes! ~Blessed Be... [ Cath's advice column | Ask Cath A Question ]
AsHlEyPiNkY answered Thursday October 28 2004, 7:27 pm: Well I have done that befor and what I did is I asked him what he thought of that note and he didn't say anythig but if you would like an anwser like if he likes you to then ask him if he has aim and then aske him if he likes you to and if he says yes then ask him out
I hope I was a big help to you...... [ AsHlEyPiNkY's advice column | Ask AsHlEyPiNkY A Question ]
ICE11BLUE answered Thursday October 28 2004, 7:18 pm: Oh, yeah, that's awkward. He hasn't said anything about it, huh? I guess you could ask him straight up: "So what did you think of what I wrote you?" Also, say, "I hope I didn't make you feel uncomfortable or anything, are we cool?" And then if he seems like he likes you back, do your thing, work your magic. Good luck, hope I helped!! [ ICE11BLUE's advice column | Ask ICE11BLUE A Question ]
Strawberriilova92 answered Thursday October 28 2004, 7:04 pm: Hey Hunn!!
I do that all the time my hand or mouth takes over and I dont know what I did til I do it.
Well, wait til he brings it up. 'Cuz it's hard for me to start convos. about it..
XxRockon answered Thursday October 28 2004, 6:54 pm: aw ur not an idiot..Justt leave it be for a little qhile and see how he responds to it so he doesn't feel smothered. He's prolly just alittle suprised but flatterd and he wants to think about wat u sed alittle bit but he prolly likes that u made the effort to come out and tell him that u like him. If he doesn't say n e thing in like a wweek or so maybe u can mention somethjing like yeah about that note..and see wat he says..Hope ths helped :) [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
Karen answered Thursday October 28 2004, 6:42 pm: You should definitely bring it up because if you don't do it any time soon, you'll regret it and will probably lose something that could have happened! Just talk to this guy and tell him how you feel again! Flirt with him! Do anything that'll catch his attention so he will know that you like him! Hope I helped! Good luck sweetie :) [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
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