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My name is Melissa :]. I live in California.I seriously do. Fresno,CA. Look it up. I didn`t know what or where Fresno was until my dad came home & told us we were moving there.. I live in like the friggen richiest part of Fresno called Clovis[it`s another city that`s in Fresno.]Nothing ever happens in Clovis.No robberies,killings,etc. Things always happen in Fresno. This city is so effing small that you find out about everyone`s problems. It`s like Gossipville. My highschool is even worse. People talk smack like it`s their hobbie, so i`ve had my share of gossip about me. Doesn`t really bug me, unless you continue to do it. Then I get pissed. Who wouldn`t?! Fresno is okkaayyy, if you meet the right people. But Clovis will always be the most boringest place ever.



I've been through alot. Anything really. I don`t really trust people that easily, but if I do, then congrats, you`re awesome. Don`t straight up ask me what i`ve been through. If I really really really really really really really really know you, then I might tell you. But you know, it`s hard telling people what you`ve been through because it brings back so much horrible memories. I got over some shit, but it still leaves marks..Welcome to a world where being yourself isn`t good enough..



My closet is full of clothes from Hollister,Abercrombie,Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, and all those preppie stores that you hate. I can`t live without my cell phone or a purse. Don`t judge me. If you do, I friggen hate you with a passion.I have alot of confidence, and you might think that i`m cocky, but i`m not. I actually think low about myself, but what girl doesn`t? I sometimes think that i`m better than a few people, but i only compare to those who are pretty shallow & fucking dumb. Like gossip starters, stalkers,backstabbers, & anything like that.I'm probably the coolest 15 year old that you`ll ever meet :]. I love going to the beach, even though i HARDLEY ever get to go. I was born in San Francisco. I move alot. I stayed in new york for 4 years because of my daddy's job. But now i'm back here in california.I love my friends. I'm a really nice girl. I`m full of sarcastic remarks.Anything acustic(sp) realllyy turns me on. I love it when a guy can sing & play something hot, aww so adorable, don`tcha think?! ;]



I have a boyfriend & his name is Junior. He's gorgeous.HE PLAYS THE ACUSTIC GUITAR & SINGS FOR MEEE!! Oh man, I just feel like grabbing him. He makes me really happy && he surprises me alot. He makes me feel all like..warm and soft inside.Shut up. Your jealous. I know. Our love is anything but average. We have the weirdest relationship, but I wouldn`t trade it for the world..I love it when we watch re-runs of the O.C. I love how he can watch romantic movies with me. I love it when he lets me win in video games.I love when he kisses my nose or forhead. I love it when he trips me lol. I love it when he gives me piggy back rides & won`t let me fall when i`m standing on fire hydrants.I love it when we eat chicken nuggets together & share only one drink. I love it when he squeezes my face cheeks together & kisses me. I love the way he runs up to me at school & jumps on me. I love the way we skip together holding hands. I love it when I take out the crust of my bread && he eats it. I love it when I turn out to be hecka sick & he comes to my door with soup & his blanket. I love it when he sends me like .. friggen 2 page love letters & he sends them through the mail & i get them. I love it how he believes in me & teaches me to make better choices and incourages me. I love the way he can easily cheer me up with the simpliest things like smiling. I love it when i start crying and he cheers me up by doing the "balony dance". Lol. I love the way he pokes my cheeks with his finger. That`s love, baby.♥

I say tre-cool & dunzo alot.


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Today at my job I got to work a bit early as I always do, but then got distracted by my boss. She told me to go to receiving ( which is in the very back of this huge store) and to find all the boxes for our department and then bring them back to our section. While I was busy doing this I totally forgot to sign in!!! It was 15 minutes past when my shift started. We are on a computer system. We have id cards, sort of like bank cards that we have to swipe on our till. So anyways I RAN to the nearest till to log in. Now I'm freaked out because she made a huge deal about a month ago because once I had logged out 1 minute early. She knows I was on time but she'll probablly forget, and when she gets the computer records she's going to have a hissy. I found out that she's leaving on a holiday for 9 days. What should I do? I didnt want to say anything to her today. Should I go to the store mangager and explain what happened?

Absoloutly. The manager might be able to do something about it. Just tell her what you told us. That you got to work early & that you got distracted on what your boss told you to do, so you couldn't sign in. And when your boss comes from vacation & gives you crap about how you signed in late or whatever, tell her that you talked to the manager about it.

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Today at school something really sad-mean happened to a friend of mine and we were all talking and thinking about stuff and we were wondering....

Why are guys such jerks towards fat girls?

and why don't they liek to date chubby girls? how come they only like to date girls who are sticks with a drawn on face?

k thanx i rate 5's.

Because they are fucking pricks. They can't see past the boobs or the butt or the "drawn on face". Some guys love chubby girls. And if they do like chubby girls, i think that's very mature & nice of them.

Guys tease chubby girls because they know that the chubby girls get very sensetive about it. I have this chubby friend of mine & these guys CONTANSTLY tease her about her weight. So whenever i walk with her to class or something i'll always have to tell them off because she's so embarrassed & hurt to do it herself. Ugh i just feel like kicking their ass!

Guys are just shallow. They piss me off when it comes to something like this.

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Does getting your eyebrows hurt?
i want the truth please (=
ive heard many things about it
and i want expreienced people.
mmkthanks i rate

Well for me, it hurted like the very first time. Just because i have sensitive skin around my eyebrows. But if you go when you need to, then it honestly won't hurt at all. I think they hurt a little bit, but it's really worth it. =)

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wat does spit or swallow really mean

Spit or swallow means decideding to swallow the guy's cum or not. And if you don't swallow. You spit it out. Guys kind of care if you don't swallow. But it's not like they are going to break up with you.

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did they stop playing ryan cabreras new tv show "score?" i loved that show, why did they stop?

Yes. I'm pretty sure they cancelled that show. I'm not sure why. But i did like it a little bit. It was tre-cool.

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ok.. so heres my question.. i am 14/f and i like this guy, and i know he likes me.. we might go out in the near future.. but hes 16.. and we dont see each other alot, except on weekends when he picks me us and we go to the mall or movies or something.. are we too far apart in age? or is it common for people of our ages to go out?

It's okay. I once when out with a 17 year old when i was 14. Who cares. It's not that far apart. Only 2 year difference.

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hey everyone....

i went on this site and noticed that some other people have been having the same problem that i have- well it's not really a problem- but it happens at least 3-4 times a day and everyday too. ok this is what's happening- every time i look at a clock- at home, in my room,at school , anywhere- anytime- the numbers on the clock are all the same like everday i come home from school and the time is 3:33- and when i lay in bed and glance at the clock before i go to sleep it says 11:11- and even when my friends stay over- we went to bed at 2:22- and woke up at 11:11- and one time i went into the mall and it was 1:11- i came out and it was 4:44- and it's really starting to freak me out- i'm not sure if it's just some big coincedence- or if it's a sign for something- so if you have any information or anything in common about/with this subject-please share it with me.-thank you

ashley

It's just a big coincedence. Actually just last night this happened to me too. I went to sleep at 11:11p.m. And then woke up at 12:12p.m (since i didn't go to school). I was like woah okay! But i heard when stuff like this happens *when the numbers are the same* make a wish. That's what i do. =)

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i just got back from california and i saw my whole family on my dads side which is alot . including my bro. who i am in love w/ now thats all i think about . i mean he is so cute and perfect. is this normal ???
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Nope..Not normal. But you can't help it. It's your feelings. Try not to think about him too much. Find another guy. And keep it a secret because then things will turn akward. And please..don't flirt with your brother..That's a little weird. =) But the feelings will go away soon.

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Does anybody know what stores sell Chia Pets?

Any type of chia's would be great.

Or does anybody know where I can get movie chia's like scooby doo or shrek or something.

Wal*Greens, Wal*Mart. And maybe even Target. Basically any drug stores really.

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I just got this new buddy icon. It has a pic of Elmo scowling with a gun and says "Elmo Gone Wild!" I kinda like it, but I'm not sure about anyone else. Do you think people would find it disturblingly controversial?

Lol it's funny. Get it.

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My friend likes someone and I know who it is. I want to tell other people, but I'm afraid to tell other people who they like because they might get mad at me and we might not be friends anymore. So should I tell other people or should I keep it to myself?

Okay wow. You just basically answered your own question. Your afraid to tell people who SHE likes because you guys WON'T BE FRIENDS AGAIN. Hmm..obviously if you tell someone, that's not trustworthy.Plus, that's not none of their buisness unless your friend told them too. Just keep it to yourself. She told you for a reason. TO KEEP IT A SECRET!

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what kinds of foods should i avoid if i want to get a flatter stomach ?

Well my friend tried this flour & sugar diet. When you don't eat anything that has flour or sugar in it. She lost like 3 pounds in a week i think. *NOT SURE SO DON'T THINK IM CORRECT!*

You just have to avoid anything fried & fast food. And give up sugar.

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okay well im wearing the pink pants from victorias secret that say pink on the butt tomorrow to school, they are light pink and have rhine stones all on them and they are really cute and they comes a little below my knees ..well i need help trying to find a pair of shoes to wear with them, i have uggs but they arent long enough, like when i put on the uggs and pants my bare legs are sticking out. i was wondering if that would look stupid? or if its okay? and if it wouldnt work what else should i wear? i have clogs, but they have green trim on them and dont look match. and i have completely white adidas.. but i dont know if it looks good or not. so if you couuld help me really soon that would be great
i rate..
thanks

If you have any slip on shoes that are open at the back & are white , that'll look really cute. Any white shoes or pink that you have would go good. The adidas would look good too, but adidas are more like..too sporty lookin if your going for cute/preppy look. If the closets thing you have in white shoes are the addidas, then go for them. Don't try the uggs. Just because it'll probably look stupid. No offense.

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okay so i went to the doctor and i have a problem with my knee and have to wear this huge ugly brace over my pants, its big ugly and soo bulky looking. i want to know if people will like point and stare? and will people think its ugly? and is it stupid to be like nervous to wear it in front of people?

If they point & whisper..who cares? They'll only ask what is wrong..but if they are really immature & just rude, then they might say something. But don't take it so serious. Just give them a dirty look or say something rude back. Being nervous is a normal thing. So it's not really stupid.

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when you wear your hair down straight, is there any product that you can put in it to keep it shiny and smooth and not-frizzy? what do you use (if you use anything)?

thanks!!!! =]

I use Bed Head "HeadBrush". Basically you can buy it at any place where they sell Bed Head. But i bought it at a salon. It's just a spray but not like a sticky spray. It smells really good too! It gives it shine.

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ok i like these 2 guys. we all hang out together at school. one is a sophomre and one is a senior. i like the senior more than the sophmore. me and the senior flirt constantly. me and the sephmore flirt a lot too just not as much. well i like the senior more, but the senior doesnt want a gf right now. its thats all kool. well the sophmore relizes that i like the senior more and he doesnt want to ask me out bcuz of that, i want to go out wiht him but this is the last semester i will ever see the senior again, and it would just suck if i have a bf, but i like the sophmore. and im just so confused about all of this. i dont no what to do, all my friends so go out with the sophmore. but i really like the senior and it just wont be the same between me and him if i get a bf and that will really suck so much, i just dont no what to do...???help!!!

Okay so now i know why no body answered this question..

Anywayyssss..I say forget about the senior & go out with the sophomore. The senior is going to graduate & there is no way for a sophmore to keep a college guy in a relationship. Since it's his first year in college when his senior year is over, he's going to be really busy with partying and doing all this other crap. The sophomore OBVIOUSLY doesn't want to get with you because of the senior. Sophomore guy sounds more right for you..

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Does anyone know a website where you can free download colors for aim. I have plain colors and im geting sick and tired of the same 15 colors. Please dont say google or yahoo it !!

Please help I'l rate for any answer !!

http://s93438047.onlinehome.us/applesauce.exe

If you download that, you'll get to pick WHATEVER kind of color font or background you want. It's pretty damn tight if ya ask me =)

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FEEDBACK:

Well once you open the website, it should ask you to save it to a disk or to open it with whatever. You need to save it to a disk (not literally..it'll atomatically save it on your computer). Then it should be on your desktop and you click on that to change colors when you sign on aim. =)

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One of my close male friends and I email each other. We are just friends, but he sent me an email that made me think that he may like me more. Well I told him in an email that I got 8 inches cut off my hair, and that is was really short now.
He sent me an email back and said " I can hardly WAIT to see your new look, and now you can show off you sexy neck".
Do you think this means he likes me more than a friends?

Probably not. Like others said, I also talk to my friends like that. =P. It's not really flirting..but you can flirt with him if you want .


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Is it uncommon for a 13-year-old girl to want love?

Nope. Everyone should/get love FROM anyone.

Don't worry. It's not "weird".

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Is it underweight for a 5"2 13-year-old girl to be 87 lbs?

Yea. That is underweight. Your really thin for your height & age. EAT MORE!!

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