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Hey Guys! It has been FOREVER! :(

But I'm back! (as of October 08) If you don't know or remember me my name is Ashley :) Currently 16 years old and a junior in highschool. I don't complain much and you'll always see a smile on my face.

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does anyone know where to get etnies that are less then $40?
will rate 5s for anythingg

I don't get etnies but you can get them at IGBS store(i think thats the name), the mall, or pacsun or something like that. They are around $50. I don't think you can get them for that cheap unless there is a big sale. Good Luck!

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My boyfriend was fingering me last night for the first time, and today i feel quite sore down there, it all feels quite irritated and sensitive. Is this normal? What does it mean? Am i gonna feel uncomfortable afterwards like this every time?

Don't worry, it is completely normal for your first time. Sorry to tell you this but its gonna be sore the next few times too. The irritation will go away in a few days though. Hope it gets better!

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For Christmas I was thinking about doing this 'Christmas Break Survival Box' for my boyfriend [ALONG WITH OTHER PRESENTS] and I was needing some help on what to put in it. I already have:
1. [Hersey's] Kisses and Hugs- for whenever we're not together you can still receive them.
2. A CD- for whenever you're on the road and not with me.

I know it's not a lot so far, but I wanted to think really hard and make this really cute. I needed ideas like the hersey's kisses one where it's like a play on words and the kisses mean real kisses. You get it? I need more ideas like that. Have any?

OMG thats such a cute idea I love it! I'm not very good at stuff like this but maybe you could put a card in there and spray it with your perfume so it has your "scent." You could put some of the stuff that would remind him of you. You could put a picture of the two of you and on the frame write why you love him or a poem. Sorry I'm not much more of a help, I just wanted to let you know I love your idea. Good luck!

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There's this guy I like.. And I'm not sure if he likes me or not. He's got a girlfriend but he'll say I'm cute and pretty and everything. He'll even slap my butt and put his hands on my waist. When I talk to him I don't really know what to say. What are some things that I can say to him that are really flirty and sort of get the point to him that I like him?

Just act cute...
-Play with you hair
-Touch is shoulder and/or arm
-Laugh
-Smile (Guys always love it when you smile)
-Make jokes
-Talk about stuff you have in common (school, sports, friends, interests etc.)

Good Luck!

(This is just my opinion but I don't think you should flirt with a guy like that when he has a girlfriend because I always get jealous and kinda mad when girls flirt with mine but do whatever you like)

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My boyfriend & I have been dating for a little over 2 months. Well that's what it'll be on Christmas anyways! I want to buy him, cute stud earrings, a Dallas Cowboys hat, & make him 100 reasons I like you scrapbook thing. Do you think that'll be enough?

Aww Congrats!
Anyway, yes I think that is enough. I would also get a card and write something sweet inside.
Good Luck!

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Sorry its long if you don't like long questions skip it!!
Hi everybody!
Okay this is kinda dumb but i`m just curious if its something i shouldmaybe be expecting.

Okay well my boyfriend *for a year and 7 months*
was tellin me how he`d like to purpose to me and everything. Yea it was sweet but kinda shocking. well he brought it up again last nite and told me he couldn`t wait. well this is how he told me he`d purpose.

It would be on christmas eve hopefully snowing.we'd be by a fire place and stuff cuddled up and then he'd ask me. So my question is do you think i should be expecting that this year or maybe some other time like in the future. reason i thought maybe this christmas eve is cuz he said he's buying me something special and he can't wait.

I know you guys cant tell the future but im just curious of what you think. thanks alot in advance

Most likely he means this year. Sorry I'm not much more of a help. Good Luck!

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im haveing trouble desideing what to tell my grandma i want for xmas any ideas?
ill rate

Gift certificates to whatever stores you like. I would reccomend these.
::Hollister
::Abercrombie and Fitch
::Charlotte Russe
::Tillys
::Pacsun
OR...
::Starbucks
::Jamba Juice
::Candy store
Also maybe an ipod, CDs, DVDs, straightener, bracelets, necklaces, SPECIFIC clothes, cell phone, of if you have a cell..a cell phone cover, ringtones, computer, picture frames, earrings, lotions, body sets (bath salt etc.)

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Did Steve from Blues Clues die????

No he didn't die, he went to collage. He went on TV and said he didn't die (obviously not) lol.

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oh and to all those people with the ? when is the right time to have sex? its when you are ready.
no body can tell you when to have sex.

and ways my ? is..
how long into the relationship do you have sex.
i rate high for nice people

It is different for everyone. Just MAKE SURE you are very close to the person and not using you. Don't fall for those stupid liars and say they love and then use you.
Back to the point, I'd say about a year or so. Hope I Helped!

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okay well like any normal person i wear deoderant =) but the thing is whenever i get to school i've started sweating immeadiately. i have NO CLUE why and its happened just recently. what should i do or whats wrong with me???

Don't worry there is nothing wrong with you, just buy a stronger deodorant (a guys if neccessary.) If you need to, bring a travel size and stick it in your PE locker. I know a ton of people who do that and put it on after PE. Good Luck!

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Well I'm like tired of making out. I really wanna give head or a hand Job(i have givin a hand job twice but I'm scared to do it again becuase I was kinda high both times). Like how do i get over this fear?

The best way to conquer a fear is to go ahead and do it lol. So just try it and you'll probably lose all the fear. Good Luck!

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I would like some big words and phrases to replace little words. For example, articulate = smart. I would like these words for in the future to be used in school projects and to impress university colleges. So any big words would be good.

---Montrealfan

Whatever word you want to change, just look in a thesaurus because thats exactly what they are for =]

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It's my grandmas birthday on christmas day and i can't even think of one present to buy her. Can anyone give me any ideas? Thank you x

What type of animals does she like? You could buy her something with that animal on it. Does she like antiques? You could get her a vase, tea cup, picture, etc. Does she collect anything? Look around her house and see what she is into. Good Luck!

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I know this looks stupid from what the subject is but plz read!!! anyway I like my ex alot more than I did now than when i was going out with him, and I made the cheerleading team and he made the basketball team and this prolly sounds stupid but I think if we do go out again that it would be so cute the idea that he and i would be like the jock and the cheerleader, anyway i like him alot and my friends say go for, yet they say dont at the same time what should i do, tell my best friend (Jon) to tell him i wanna go out with him again or aomwthin????!!!!

I would go up and talk to him yourself instead of asking a friend to do it, cause then you might seem to shy or childish. The worst he can do is say 'no' which isn't that bad so I say go for it. Good Luck!

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Hi, I want to make my own website. Does anyone know any place I can do that? I already know about Geocities. Are there any others? I want it to be free. Thanks. xoxo

Xanga is like the only one I know. Or myspace which almost EVERYONE I know has one. Good Luck!

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there is a dance coming up at my school. i am against going but i may go with the girls. it is "semiformal" and i HATE wearing dresses and/or heels. i am really conservative so i don't want to show clevage or the dress be too tight or short. does anyone have any suggestions where i should get something to wear or what type of dress or skirt i should wear. can someone give me a good outfit with a skirt?? the dance is january 28. i will not be dancing so that may affect it. would a knee length black skirt and black boots (up to my knee) be ok? i kinda have my own fashion style. can someone please help?? my crush (who is a year younger) will be there so guys - what would you want to see a girl in at a dance (just something to catch his eye)?? thanks in advance...i'll rate high! :):)

These are really fun to answer, lol. Okay Just go to the listed sites. These are ideas, but if you don't like them then I think a black skirt would be fine. =]

DRESSES: (If you want to try them)

http://www.prom-dresses.com/order/9068.html

http://www.prom-dresses.com/order/1111.html

http://www.prom-dresses.com/order/944.html

SKIRTS: (With whatever shirt)

http://us.st8.yimg.com/store1.yimg.com/I/gojane_1873_69911406

http://www.gojane.com/13791.html

http://www.gojane.com/13420.html

I dont know if these are your styles, but I hope I helped!

BTW- You don't HAVE to wear heels to have fancy shoes. You could wear those new ballet type shoes, as my school they are starting a new trend. Good Luck!



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im on the high school girls basketball team. and every year we get sweats. this year were getting sweat pants and long sleeve shirts. does anyone have any ideas as to what to put on them? were especaially looking for a quote. not specifacaly about bball, but more like words of inspiration. any suggestions are welcome! thanks so much!!

1: Don't limit your challenges...challenge your limits.

2: Courage is not freedom from fear, but being afraid and going on.

3: Your flaws do not make you imperfect; they make you human.

4: Live life without fear, confront all obstacles and know you can overcome them.

5: You can't wait for inspiration. You have to go after it with a club.

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Other than a dictionary definition, without using the word to define it, can anyone explain what truth really is? Thanks in advance, will rate 4 or higher.

Truth is something real, honest, and not some made up junk.

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I'm 19/m

I've never masterbated before, and honestly I've never had an urge to.. Am I abnormal?

No, you just apparently don't have a high sex drive.

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is it possibly to get pregnant if you have sex without a condom but the guy didnt cum

Yes it is, always use protection.

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