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ok so my periods started today, agh what a pain. but im supposed to go to a theme park tonight and i LOVE rollercoasters and going upside down and stuff. if i wear a pad (cant wear tampons for some medical reason) would i like leak going upside down or something? haha idk really i was just wondnering if itd be stupid or something
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thanks to anyone who can help :-D (link)
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Nah, shouldn't be a problem. But if I were you, wear pants, bring extra pads and a jacket to tie around your waist - just in case! But you'll probably be perfectly fine. :)
-FunnyCide
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i got mi period last month and this is my second month and it started up again last night and there is a lot i mean ALOT of blood from my period it seems to be uncontrolable is that normal!? ( and when i woke up in my pad the blood was all over the place)! sorry this is kinda gross
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Completely normal!! The second day of my period is always the heaviest - sometimes I have to go to the restroom and get a new tampon every two hours. However, I hate pads, but that's just me. I find it utterly repulsive to sit in my own blood, so I prefer tampons.
Perhaps you could use a junior sized tampon and a pad? At least at night, that way you'll not wake up with blood all over your sheets and pants and stuff. You have to remember that a junior sized tampon is really small, and won't hold much. But that's okay - for small girls, it's fantastic. (I'm a small girl - it's fantastic! Haha..)
At night, if you usually wear pants, try sleeping without them. Put an old towel on your bed and just sleep in your underwear, that way if the blood does go through, it will mostly get on the towel. You could also try using an overnight pad, which is longer and thicker. Also, you could use white sheets that way if they get blood on them, you can let them soak in bleach and no one knows that blood got on them.
You're perfectly normal. Your period is still irregular and will go through many changes yet. It'll probably slow down within the next few days. :)
-FunnyCide
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my friend is a freak how can i stop her from going out with this guy who is bisexual? (link)
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You can't really STOP her, it's her choice. However, you can calmly explain why you think it is a bad idea for her to go out with a bisexual guy. If you shout at her, she'll simply ignore you. Shouting isn't a good way to get your point across. Therefore, you could try telling her why you think it's a bad idea for her to date a bisexual guy, and she can tell you why she thinks it's a good idea to date a bisexual guy. Use good logic, good sense, and be polite! After all, it is her choice. You can simply state your opinion.
-FunnyCide
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i need a polo shirt, for a party. i dont have any, not the preppy type. where can i buy the shirts? how much are they? easy 5's (link)
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You can get one at any one of these fine retailers :
- Wal*Mart
- Target
- The Thrift Store
- Abercrombie
- Hollister
- JC Pennys
- Kohls
- Aeropostal
... and others I'm sure. The price range is between $2.15 (Thrift Store) - $35+ (Abercrombie, Hollister etc.)
Wal*Mart and Target have decent polos for about 15 bucks. That's where I'd go. Well, I'd go to the Thrift Store first, but hey. Who cares. :)
-FunnyCide
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is your first kiss the first time you make out or the first time a guy kisses you on the cheeks or lips or something? (link)
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Well, I suppose it depends. Like, I've been kissed on the forehead, but I've never kissed anyone anywhere. So, in a way, I'm not sure. I think that your first "real" kiss is when both parties are involved (like kissing on the lips or something). However, it's still a kiss, even if it's only on your cheek or forehead. Sorry, I'm not much of a help - I'm just as confused as you are. :)
-FunnyCide
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what do i wear? the invite says "dressy casual"?
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Dress pants, nice shoes, button up shirt. You might could get away with wearing a nice polo. :)
-FunnyCide
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if i wore baggy sweatpants(either black or gray) and like a band tee, or logo tee and really cute sneaks that are like torquise, would i look ghetto? (link)
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Hmm.. well, maybe. I think you'd need a ballcap and wear darker shoes, but that's just me. And go for the black sweatpants. :)
-FunnyCide
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In art, I am about to paint a 6 panel glass window with acyrilic paints and I need some ideas about image to paint. People with experience with aycrilic paints...please answer...
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I'm an art fanatic. YOU ROCK! Anyway.
- Recreate a famous piece of art (IE, The Last Supper, The Mona Lisa, Starry Night, etc.)
- Landscape
~ Beach
~ Mountains
~ Old barn / rustic farm
~ Covered bridge / rustic town
- Patriotic piece (for instance, paint different presidents, soldiers, the Purple Heart Award, American flag, Statue Of Liberty etc.)
- Faces of famous Americans down through history
- Faces of famous people from all over the world
- Different things that interest you (certain animals, musical instruments etc.)
- Abstract "stained glass" look
I like acrylics. :) I once did a painting that was an abstract "stained glass" look with acrylics. It was really fun.
Good luck!
-FunnyCide
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hey i am 13 and i waz just wunderin how do u exactly dry a bra i rate well real well so...plz help me (link)
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Well, sweetie, I wouldn't put it in the dryer. That can shrink it - that's bad! You don't want to be in a tight, uncomfortable bra all day do you? The best way to dry one is to hang it up in a warm dry place, like your closet. Or, if you don't live in a crowded neighborhood, hang it up outside and it'll be dry in a few hours. :)
-FunnyCide
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Ok. I like to answer questions but i can't figure out this one. I am a 13 year old female. I really like this guy at my school and I think he likes me. I've asked him out before but he said maybe and then never answered me. Last year he went out with a slu* and she used him and now he doesn't want to go out with anyone. Do you think he still likes me? He says that i am really hott but he didn't get over the slu* from last year. We are like BFF's! What do you think? I need your help. (link)
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Well, based on the information given, I cannot say if he likes you or not. However, there is a decent chance that he does, indeed, like you. He's probably really worried about getting used and getting hurt - because that's what happened to him. He may never really get over that, it'll always be in his mind; but he'll be able to move on. Give him some time, be supportive, talk to him alot. Get to know every little detail about him possible. If he's right for you, he'll come to see that you're really great, and he'll not regret being your best friend. My boyfriend is my best friend, and I certanilly don't regret that. During the time while we were "just friends," and I didn't know he liked me, and he didn't know that I liked him, it was fun. Yeah, it's fun now too - don't get me wrong. But I love getting to know him better, even the silly, simple things like what kind of juice he likes best. :) I'm really glad we took the time to be good friends first because I know I can trust him, I know I can depend on him, and I know that I really, really like him. It's really cool, and we built trust on a basic friendship, which later moved into a relationship. Perhaps it is meant to be this way?
I think that the boy you like will be able to trust you more as you get to be better friends. It just works that way. And if he trusts you, he'll be more likely to go out with you because he trusts you not to break his heart or use him like the other girl did.
-FunnyCide
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Well, I adore singing.. to me.. it's a way of life. I do it 24-7.
I don't really know if I could ever do it infront of anyone other than myself! I'm so affraid that I will mess up, or people will hate my voice. Personally? I love my voice... but they always say, "Sometimes, you hear what you want to hear, not what is heard by others." I don't know what to do. In a few months.. I'll be moving to Tennessee to live with my Father. He says that Nashville is a land of opertunity for me. (he and my step-mother are the only ones I've ever sang infront of) Well, my Step-Mother, is persuing her singing career. And I'm SO happy for her. She has the prettiest voice.. EVER I'm not sure what to do..
Anyone have good advice for me?
Thanks..
Confused Vocalist (link)
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Confused,
Get out there and try! Your father wouldn't lie to you and tell you that you have a chance unless you did! Dad's don't usually want their kids to look dumb and get hurt - he wouldn't lie to you. Your step-mom can probably help too; if she's pursuing her music career, she will probably know good singing warm-ups and such. She'll be able to help you protect and perfect your voice, which is good. You already love your singing, and, more than likely, so will hundreds of other people!
I'd say that you should tell your dad that you'd like to try singing in front of people. Get your step mom to help you practice, and pick a good song that you're comfortable with. Then, sing! Good luck!
-FunnyCide
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i'm 16. i'm on birth control. my boyfriend of two years and i had sex the other night and he came inside me. i was just wondering if it is 100% positive that you do get pregnant if you get came inside of, and the whole birth control thing. thanks in advance for thoes who help. i'll rate good. (link)
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When you're on The Pill, or any other birth control method, it is not promised 100% sure to keep you from getting pregnant. Some birth control meds are better than others, some methods are better than others, but still, not one of them promises 100% safety.
You're probably okay, though.
I'm sure you know this, but birth control doesn't prevent or protect against STDs... just be careful.
You probably have a 1% chance of getting pregnant. That 99% chance of not getting pregnant is quite large. You probably don't have anything to worry about.
-FunnyCide
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What are stretch marks? How can you get rid of them? (link)
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Stretch marks are perfectly normal. Most teenage girls and some boys get them. Most pregnant women get stretch marks also. Stretch marks are caused by rapid growth or weight gain, as that of during puberty. In fact, that's probably the first time you'll notice stretch marks is when you hit puberty. Many girls get stretch marks along their breasts, hips, thighs, and butt. Many stretch marks will fade over time.
A stretch mark looks like a purplish line, perhaps it is jagged or crooked, that is indented or "shrunk." They come when the skin is stretched too rapidly by weight gain or growth.
I know girls (myself included) who got stretch marks in some form or fashion in the months after puberty. This is because of the hormonal changes that cause most girls to have a growth spurt, and most girls will gain weight around their hips and thighs.
For more info :
http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_body/beautiful/stretch_marks.html
There are some lotions or creams that say they get rid of stretch marks, but the best cure is time.
-FunnyCide
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Is it true if you ignore a guy, chances are he'll want you more?
It sounds strange, LOL.
Guys, they never seize amazing me. (link)
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I guess it depends on the guy, because most guys I know pretty much hate it when girls play "hard to get," but some guys like it.
If I were to "ignore" my boyfriend, not answer his phone call or dodge questions, he would KNOW something is wrong. However, that is in a relationship.
Although, I was watching the Today Show and they had some authors of a book on the show. The author of the book said that when you're breaking up with a guy, to stay away from him, don't talk to him etc. for 60 days. That's kinda like a signal that you've turned away, you're giving him the cold shoulder etc. I think it's probably the same way for when you are trying to get a guy to like you, if you ignore them, they think you don't like them. But hey, what do I know? I'm just a girl. :D
-FunnyCide
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okay, so this guy i am "together with" which means we are pretty much going out without the label. anyway, he says he likes me alot, but doesnt think we would be able to have a relationship because he doesnt think i would want him to finger me, or i wont give him head. and the truth is, i just think it would be akward.. but ive gone out with him before.. and i really want a relationship with him.. he doesnt want to have sex with me.. just do everything else. but ive never given anyone head, and ive never been fingered.. im 14.. and i didnt think i should be doing that stuff.. what should i do? (link)
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If you don't want to give him head, you shouldn't. You need to be with someone who has the same moral principals and values as you - meaning, they feel the same way in most aspects - especially sexuality - as you.
You and I are both fourteen, it's a good age. ;) My boyfriend is sixteen, we've not even kissed. There's no way that we're going to do all that other stuff - that would, in my opinion, be more than awkward. Embarrassing is a better word!
If you don't feel comfortable with the idea of giving head, or being fingered, then you need to make that clear. If he really likes you, he will understand and wait until you're older and more ready. If he doesn't want to wait, then, sad to say, he wasn't worth it anyway.
Most girls who have had sex early on regret it. You don't want to regret anything about your childhood and teenage years, do you? You're only young once - yes, but once you're out of your teens, you are legally responsible for anything and everything you do, and you are (hopefully) wise enough to make good choices.
I recently met a young mom in a museum. Her baby boy had what is commonly referred to as "Elephant man disease." Despite his deformed face, I found the child to be quite lovely. He was so happy and carefree, good natured and gentle. He smiled and laughed a lot. He and his mother were in the museum three hours, and he never once cried even one tear. He was quiet, the only noise he made was laughter. Sadly, he will not be accepted in our society because of his facial features. He seemed to be a bright child, and would probably do well in school, when old enough. It was apparent that his mother loved him, even though he was not perfect. Every young mom dreams of having a perfect, beautiful baby - we all do. That's just what we want. We want a healthy, beautiful, normal baby. Even though this child was not perfect or 'normal,' his mom loved him. That's real love.
I read an article about a man and a woman who'd been married for 15 years. They had 3 lovely children, a nice house, two good cars, great friends, everything in their life seemed perfect. The man was a firefighter, the woman was a stay-at-home mom. One day, the man was terribly injured in a fire. He lost both ears, his nose, one arm, two fingers off his other hand, several toes and all his hair. There was little healthy tissue left on his body. 75% of his body had third degree burns. He did recover, though he didn't look the same. However, his wife stayed with him. She loved him, and so did the children. He even went back to work as a firefighter, though a fire almost took his life. His wife was supportive and caring throughout the whole ordeal. In fact, after the fire, the man and woman went on to have a fourth child. That's love.
My pastor told me a story about a couple he talked to once. They came in for marriage counseling, before their wedding. The man kept referring to how beautiful his bride-to-be was, how lovely her figure was and the like. The pastor had a slight inkling that the man was not truly in love, he was in lust. To see if he was correct, the pastor asked the young man if he would still want to marry and live with his bride-to-be if she were badly injured and disfigured in an accident of some kind. The young man could not answer. He did not love the woman for her mind, he loved her body. The woman broke off the engagement.
You need to know, does this boy like you for your mind, or for your body? If he's simply infatuated with your body, he will not be willing to wait for you. He will simply want a sexual relationship, and if you're not willing to give it to him, he won't wait. However, if he likes you for your mind, he'll be willing to wait for you - he will go out with you but won't pressure you to have a sexual relationship with him when you're still so young.
You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't mess it up! You'll have between 25-40 years to make up for the 18 or so you that you weren't in a sexual relationship. It seems much wiser to me to wait for the right one. When you wait until you're married, you don't have to worry about a baby that won't have a father, STDs, HIV, AIDS and the like - because you're only having sex with one person, and that one person with you. There's no room for a disease because neither you nor your partner would've gotten one. The results are worth the wait.
You make up your mind for yourself, but is that boy going to stay with you for a long time? Or would he just do stuff with you until he got bored and then move on? Make a wise decision.
-FunnyCide
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Omgg..Im really nervous beacsue my 30 pound dog at a tootsie pop today and I really dont want he to dieee..Will shee (link)
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Chocolate is not good for dogs, but it shouldn't be enough to harm her - unless she ate the stick also. If she DID eat the stick also, and shows ANY signs of distress, I would RUSH her to the vet! If she is not passing stools normally, eating, drinking, or is acting sick or as if she has a stomach ache, call the vet. ASAP.
She should be alright though. One tootsie pop probably isn't enough to hurt her, considering her size.
-FunnyCide
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Hi, um i cant dance at all and im wondering does anyone know any dances websites that i can go to to learn how to dance??? i rate 5's!!! thank you
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Well, I'm not sure what dance you're trying to learn, so I've included links to different kinds of dancing.
http://www.centralhome.com/ballroomcountry/dancesteps.htm
^ That's for ballroom dance. I like ballroom. Alot. ^
http://www.learntodance.com/
^ That's for ballet, jazz, tap, ballroom, party dancing, break dancing, hip hop and others. ^
For more websites, try http://www.google.com - works like a charm.
-FunnyCide
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16/m Alright. Today in Gym, we were playing soccer. However, we tend to play tackle soccer. So, I was going for the ball, and ended up falling on my knees. My right knee has severe tendinitis, FYI. Well, I went hard and my knees went to a squatting mode, you know, lower legs on ground, upper legs on feet? I felt a pop, and got up a few seconds later. My friend was there when it happened, and was like "Steven, are you alright? It seemed like you got burned" (AKA, slid on the floor). I said I felt a pop, but I'l lbe fine, and stood up. My other female friend heard that and was like "Stay out a bit, that can be really bad." Well, it was pity attention.
Well, I didn't think it was that bad, as tearing something is hard for a male. However, it felt really unstable that class and ever since. And I'm looking now, and it seems a bit swollen. Yet, there's no additional pain from this, just the tendinitis type.
What is it? What did I do? And what should I do until I can get to the doctor? I'm really scared. (link)
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Ouch. I have tendonitis in my right knee also, and that sucks. I feel your pain. Literally.
You should probably take it easy, don't play sports hard, don't do anything exerting that you don't have to do. IE - don't go play touch football if your knee is swolen, etc.
When I was first diagnosed with tendonitis in my knee, the doctor said to put heat on it in the morning and ice it in the evening. It gets old - real fast - but when it hurts, it does help a little.
Try to put heat on your knee in the mornings and stretch, and ice it right before bed to cool it down. Ice it ASAP to make the swelling go down and take a few Ibuprofen or Advil.
If the pain / swelling / instability continues, take the next step : Go to the doctor!
You probably irritated your tendons (which are already riddled with tendonitis...) which is what caused the swelling. However, you might've pulled something or even torn it slightly.
So basically a good battle plan would be :
- Ice it down
- Heat it up
- Take it easy
- See a doctor
Feel better soon, man. :)
-FunnyCide
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every friend i have, i talk about, except one who is a grade younger than me. i talk good things about her but sometimes she can really make me mad and sometimes i get teased cause shes only in 6th grade and i need to "get some friends my own age". there this girl i really like in my grade but im like the only person in my skewl that likes her, and im trying to fit in so i pretend i dont really like her. i talk about everyone. its really bad! im a real bitch. i want a best friend. its pathetic!
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I did sorta the same thing... but not really. I don't go to public school, but you get the idea.
I get teased ALL the time. Sweetie, I know that it sucks. It hurts, it's just cruel. But that fact is not going to stop the teasing. There are basically two things you can do :
Option one : Be who you are, like who you want to like, go out with who you want to go out with, dress how you want to dress, hang out with who you want to hang out with.
PROS : You'll have the time of your life, you'll not regret anything, you'll have TRUE friends and real fun.
CONS : You might get teased, you might not be as popular.
Option two : Do what the "in-crowd" is doing, follow the popular people, make fun of people etc.
PROS : you have a better chance of not being teased and a better chance of being popular.
CONS : You will be a "slave" to the media. You'll be forced to do what everyone else is doing to maintain your status, you will probably never have a best friend.
I went through the phase where I wanted to make everyone happy, I wanted to fit in you know. But the "cool kids" didn't like me. At all. But the "outcasts" did like me. So I bucked up, and decided that I wanted to do what I wanted, wear what I wanted, hang out with who I wanted etc. Still do.
While I only have three "real" friends, those are the best friends I've ever had. One of them is my boyfriend, one is like my sister, the other is just a good guy friend. But I trust these people with my life - literally.
No one is perfect, everyone will make you mad once in a while.
I have friends that are in seventh grade, and I'm a freshman - do I care? No! They and I aren't really good friends, but we talk, E-mail and stuff. If you like the girl that's a year younger than you, then I say hang out with her. If you like that girl who's in your grade, I say hang out with her and get to know her - you never know what one smile and a friendly greeting will do for someone. You could even save someone from killing themselves with a smile and a kind word.
Just remember that while you may be popular in middle school (you're in eighth, right?), when you go into high school, none of them even give a care about your formal social status. Really, I would know. Yeah. And if you make it to the "popular group" in high school, that only lasts four years. Four years, is that worth it? Because after that you're a nobody again. Everyone has different interests and will go to different colleges. None of those guys in your college are going to care about your formal social status either.
You make the choice.
-FunnyCide
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My boyfriend wants to go to a college thats like an hour and a half away and he found out from my best friend that i dont want him to... but the only reason i dont want him to is cuz ill miss him. But thats normal now he wants to stay here and be with me how do i convince him i really want him to be happy at the college he wants to go to..
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Although my boyfriend is only a Junior in high school, I know what you're thinking. Because he and I have talked about colleges and stuff, and the one he's interested in is a good while away. However, I've told him - repetedly - that I want him to have the best possible education; no matter how far away the college is.
Yeah, I know it's really hard to have to let go of someone like that - someone that you love - and let them go far away. Of course, there's always those "wild college girls" that he'll come in contact with (unless he's going to an all-men college...) and you'll have to TRUST him with all of your heart and mind that he'll not cheat on you. I know I trust my boyfriend that much.
Once you're comfortable with the idea of him going away, and you trust him and trust him not to cheat on you, you should feel a little better about him going away.
Ask him to promise that he'll come home as often as possible, and call when he can, and write if he needs to, etc.
Tell him - TELL HIM!! - that you want him to go to college and get a good education. That way, he'll be able to get his degree in whatever his major is, that way he will be able to get a good job, enjoy the job, thus being able to provide for his wife and family. And if you marry him, you'll know that you REALLY want him to have a good job so you can be provided for.
Let him know that although you'll miss him, you want him to go to his choice college. Let him know! He needs to know.
-FunnyCide
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