Ok. I like to answer questions but i can't figure out this one. I am a 13 year old female. I really like this guy at my school and I think he likes me. I've asked him out before but he said maybe and then never answered me. Last year he went out with a slu* and she used him and now he doesn't want to go out with anyone. Do you think he still likes me? He says that i am really hott but he didn't get over the slu* from last year. We are like BFF's! What do you think? I need your help.
I see what you meen. I really like this guy in my grade but he has dated this really snobby slu* so he doesnt really like me so much, cuz he doesnt feel like dating. Although for you, he still likes u. So what i think you shood do is try to talk to him see what maybe made his nervous about having another girlfriend. Maybe he thinks all grls are like that, show him that they arent. Show him what you want him to see in u.
FunnyCide answered Friday October 14 2005, 9:34 am: Well, based on the information given, I cannot say if he likes you or not. However, there is a decent chance that he does, indeed, like you. He's probably really worried about getting used and getting hurt - because that's what happened to him. He may never really get over that, it'll always be in his mind; but he'll be able to move on. Give him some time, be supportive, talk to him alot. Get to know every little detail about him possible. If he's right for you, he'll come to see that you're really great, and he'll not regret being your best friend. My boyfriend is my best friend, and I certanilly don't regret that. During the time while we were "just friends," and I didn't know he liked me, and he didn't know that I liked him, it was fun. Yeah, it's fun now too - don't get me wrong. But I love getting to know him better, even the silly, simple things like what kind of juice he likes best. :) I'm really glad we took the time to be good friends first because I know I can trust him, I know I can depend on him, and I know that I really, really like him. It's really cool, and we built trust on a basic friendship, which later moved into a relationship. Perhaps it is meant to be this way?
I think that the boy you like will be able to trust you more as you get to be better friends. It just works that way. And if he trusts you, he'll be more likely to go out with you because he trusts you not to break his heart or use him like the other girl did.
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