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Question Posted Saturday October 15 2005, 9:23 am

my friend is a freak how can i stop her from going out with this guy who is bisexual?

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Mackenzie answered Sunday October 16 2005, 2:46 am:
Not to seem rude, but it's not up to you. It's her life, for which she make my her own choices. I understand you want what's best for her, and I commend that. However, what YOU think is best for her and what SHE thinks is best for her might be the complete oppisite of each other. Truthfully, the only thing you can truly do about this is to kindly pull her privately aside and tell her how you feel. If she is still firm in her desires, I'd hope you'd accept and respect her wishes. [:

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Vendetta answered Saturday October 15 2005, 11:42 pm:
You can't.
Fucking deal with it.

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celeratethetimescomeon answered Saturday October 15 2005, 9:09 pm:
First of all does she know he's bisexual? I'm not trying to be rude but if she wants to go out with a bisexual why can't she? If it bothers you that much explain to her why you're so annoyed and the risks they may be involved in her relationship.

*Hope I helped*
xoxo

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maria2653 answered Saturday October 15 2005, 6:51 pm:
theres nothing wrong with going out with a bisexual person. let her do what she wants bitch.

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mob-boss answered Saturday October 15 2005, 4:23 pm:
yea i know its kind of wierd of her but let her make her own choice

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hopelessly_devoted answered Saturday October 15 2005, 2:52 pm:
well if hes bi and she likes him enough what does it matter? sheeesh

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gina answered Saturday October 15 2005, 2:50 pm:
Well what you need to do is just be there for her! Unless he's a jerk to her, don't get involved! It's not worth it, if she really likes this guy and she can sense that you don't accept, then she might not talk to you anymore! If the guy's bisexual it doesn't mean he's a freak, it's just sexual orientation, nothing more nothing less, he doesn't bite and he's not harmful! If anything i think you should stand back and just let them do their thing! Trust me, you don't want to lose a friend over this! Good luck!

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LadyGoodman answered Saturday October 15 2005, 2:42 pm:
Quit being so damned close minded. Who cares if he is bisexual?! Mind your own business! JEEZ

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FunnyCide answered Saturday October 15 2005, 1:47 pm:
You can't really STOP her, it's her choice. However, you can calmly explain why you think it is a bad idea for her to go out with a bisexual guy. If you shout at her, she'll simply ignore you. Shouting isn't a good way to get your point across. Therefore, you could try telling her why you think it's a bad idea for her to date a bisexual guy, and she can tell you why she thinks it's a good idea to date a bisexual guy. Use good logic, good sense, and be polite! After all, it is her choice. You can simply state your opinion.
-FunnyCide

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Mckick answered Saturday October 15 2005, 12:47 pm:
If your friend doesn't mind being with this guy who is bisexual then you shouldn't try and stop her. I would just be her firend and be there for her. Maybe down the line she might break up with him and if you get in the way you might lose her as a friend. Just stand back and be a friend. If this guy isn't cheating on her and if faithful then whose to tell her who she can and can't be with.

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sbloemeke answered Saturday October 15 2005, 12:26 pm:
Unfortunately, love is a thing that is too strong to be broken by an outside force such as yourself. You can state your opinion, and it will do a little damage, but love cannot be broken by someone else. If they threaten to break a friendship, they choose the love.
It's too powerful. Just state your opinion, and let them be.

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x_mystery answered Saturday October 15 2005, 12:06 pm:
You can't. Your friend is NOT a freak for liking somebody bisexual! The guy does not like ONLY guys, or ONLY girls, he likes both. So he can have just as much love for your friend or any other girl - or any other guy. Its not a big deal. If you try and stop your friend from going out with somebody just because YOU are homophobic (biphobic??) your "friend" shouldn't even hang around you.

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hitler_the_goat answered Saturday October 15 2005, 11:55 am:
why? she's a freak, so why change the status quo by getting her some preppy date? I'm sure they have a lot in common, like their taste in men.
-gunner

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mpmsweetie answered Saturday October 15 2005, 11:21 am:
Im sorry to say this, but you should let her be with him. It is her choise, right? And if he is a bad guy, your friend will break up with him on her own.

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