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i have 8 welts on my stomach from playen paintball its been 2 weeks and they still havnt gone away. how do i make them go away

i rate high

God heals all wounds my child.

hahahahahahaha

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14/f

Summer is coming up and i want to look the best i can in my bikini. i want to shave my bikini line but i have never done it before and i heard if you do it wrong you get ingrown hairs. i don't know what those are but they don't sound good. so i want to know if there are any specific instructions for shaving bikini lines....

thanks in advance =)

dont shave against the hair and do it when your in the bath or shower, but towards the end like right before your about to get out that way your skin and hair is very soft. or just use some kind of hair removal product like nair. but also FYI you should take it all off. not just the bikini line, its more of an opinion though but all that pubic hair is pretty sick. oh yea, if your going to just do your bikini line still, they also make little do it yourself waxing kits so you should look into that.

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Ashlee, there is this girl whom i like very very much, but due to me gettin kicked out of school recently things have seemed to fade away with our friendship. I was supposed to meet up with her on friday, but my friend read my text messages on my phone and said no to her when she asked if we were meeting up, this really upset me and I don't know how to approach her. I've had feelings for this girl for a long time and can't help but think about her. Also I may not be around for a good while due to previous cases of stupidity, I don't want to hurt her by telling her, she deserves the best, and goes through so much bullshit in her life that I can't even imagine how she goes on, she so nice and careing, I just want to tell her how much I care for her and that she will always be in my thoughts and mind.......

shes going to understand no matter the case. she knows you to well to be uptight about your friends, and she doesnt care what they say either. you always get second chances, and she cares about you a lot. please dont be afraid to approach her because its not a big deal, shit happens and theres always tomorrow.

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every morning when i wake up, my eyes are sooo puffy!! i cant take it! does anyone have an idea about what to do to prevent or treat them?

ok, they make masks for things like this. theyre like a gel and you put them in the freezer so that while your getting ready in the morning you can wear the mask (it has eye holes made into it) and the swelling/poofiness will be a lot better. but it sounds to me like maybe your having some kind of allergic reaction to something. you need to find out what your allergic to and do some research because it could be anything from the animals in your house, to the make of your pillow. so i hope that helps, i always hate when i wake up like that it just starts my day off on the wrong foot ya know?

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Ok so one of my friends went tanning.. and she had gone before.. more than 1nce. But it was her first time going topless. so.. i know this might sound wierd.. but her nipples turned green!... y did this happen? shes really concerned but to embarrased to call a doctor or something. so.. if u can explain this shed be happy!

hahaha! that sucks.
its alright though. its somewhat of a sunburn. its just how her skin reacted to the rays from the booth. the skin on your nipples is different from the rest of your skin. the burn just reacted differently. its all good. funny and embarrasing, but all good.

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I'm scared, i dont know what to do. Should i involve myself into sexual intercourse? Theres this boy, and i've known him for four years.. He has been t here for me through everything. I recently dropped the highschool scene and went for cyberschool.. It was all because of some friends that wern'et being so friendly... And out of all people he dumped his girlfriend because of me and took my side on it. My bestfriend was his girlfriend. I sorta felt bad about it... But then he told me all the stuff she did to him and how she hurt him. She had cheated on him... and she admitted it to us. He has been there through everyhting... We talk all the time and we are each others best friend. We want to take that further but not sex... When it does come up though... Whhich could be at any given time... How should i react? Should i just give it up? I'm scared because i wouldn't know how to telll my mom... Me and her are sooo open with eachother and i tell her EVERYTHING. but what happens when i lose my virginity and need to go to the gyno? We're gonna hangout at his place this Thursday and i get to meet his family... They are soo nice to me on the phone... hope they are in person to... wish me luck...

Please help.

[«3] Just Me

dont do it. its OBVIOUSLY not the right time.

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People say opposites attract, do people who are alot alike attract just as well?

you attract to what your attracted to weather its the opposite of what you like or not.

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I need a new word to substitute for "amazing" because I use that wayyy too much. Any ideas?

sweet. rockin. tight. wicked. cool. twisted. far out. splendid. marvelous. crazy. great. glorious. stupendous. gnarley. fantastic. bitchin. wonderful. super. outragous. outstanding.

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hey i got my belly button pierced on new years....i just took it out a while back and now i want to get it re-done.....is it going to hurt worse the second time because of scare tissue? or will it not hurt as bad because there are no nerves in the skin.....help! hahah

yea i dont really know how it works. but when i got mine done the dude said if you take it out and it heals, you can never do it again. like you cant re-do it. he had a good reason why, i just cant remember what it was. sorry! he might have just been telling me that though so i wouldnt take it out but who knows. thats just what i know.

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i went to get my hair hilited professionally and it turned out really bad, and i was just wondering if i buy a product off the counter and used that, would the hilites go away or would it still be there ?

if you bought a dye it would work. but even though you just got it highlighted your still dyeing those little chunks. be careful not to dye your hair too much or youll do a lot of damage to it. alo they make a type of "shampoo" type dye. where after you wash your hair in the mornings you wash it in and its like youve dyed your hair but all you have to do to get it out is wash it again. the bottles of it last a long time. it doesnt really have anything to do with your question but i thought you might like it. itd give you a chace to try different hair colors.

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ok theres this guy that i might never see again but i think i love him and im pretty sure he likes/loves me too butim still not 100% sure that he does... but what should i do? the last time i will see him is thursday... should i tell him or wait and see what he does?

well you have a lot of emotion flying around here, but never wait. never never wait. if you might not ever see him again then why take a chance at never knowing what could have been. i dont know if im even making any sense, ive got too many thoughts on this. just dont wait, never hold back your feelings.

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Well..i have these two friends lets call themm Tina and Mellisa well Mellisa has been a very good friend of mine for a long time n she has been my bestestfriend for a while.. so the other day me tina n mellisa were hanging out n then mellisa was acting differnt around tina n i dont like it at all cuz they like talk n say its private n stuff, n i feel like there talking about me n now everytime we hang out it sucks cuz mellisa acts differnt..what do i do?

first of all, never change the peoples names because it makes you look like a dumbass. with all the millions of people in the world how the fuck are we going to know who your two friends are.
ok now. why dont you ask "mellisa" about it? tell her its bothering you and tell her what you see when the three of you are together. this may be something youll want to talk to tina about too.

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ive known this gurl for 2 years now and ive meet all her friends and we bacame friends but lately we do nothing but get into fights... im going to teh same school as them and they wont leave me alone they say i ahev no friends and when i get to ej i will have no friends because i am a skank i dont kno what to do i try ignoring them but they just wont stop......plaez help!!!

beat them up. its that simple. pull out some sweet kung fu moves and show who the real skanks are.

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This girl is flirting with my boyfriend and she is trying to break us up and I really like him and don't want him to cheat on me like my last boyfriends. HELP! I don't know what to do. I am confused.

talk to him about it.

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I have a pet monkey. I also have an awesome girlfriend who I plan to ask for her hand in marrage. I love her a lot and she means the world to me. However.. I had alredy bought a very expensive white gold and diamond encrusted engagement ring. But.. I know this is going to sound stupid and made up.. but my monkey ate it. He seriously honest to god te it! I dont have enough money to buy her a new one.. so what to I do?

wait until the monkey takes a shit and dig it out, and clean it up. your a dumbass for owning a monkey though. a complete dumbass.

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ok there is this boy at skool he really likes me but I dont like him aand he gives me alot of nice things but I dont like him and I dont want to tell him so what should I do and should I give him back his things or keep them???? Please help QUICKLY

step 1. learn to spell
step 2. quit being such a selfish whore

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Okay, I'm not totally sure what I want to do when I get out of high school. I have interests in many different things and its hard to pick one career. Lately I've been interested in serving time in the Navy and studying journalism/film. I'll probably serve time for about 4 years and then when I get out, go into that field and possibly get a job at a movie studio. But I also have an interest in acting. I've been told I'm really good, and I know a lot about it (I've been to many studios, watched MANY things be filmed and I've been an extra in a few things). Do you think that I would make it (well, you've never seen me act or whatever, but with a good background and a back up career do you think I could make it?). I don't believe that, in order to make it into show biz, you have to study theatre. Maybe take a few classes (which I've done and plan on taking more in the future) here and there. I know I won't be a star and be known over night, I enjoy commercial acting (aka in front of cameras) rather than theatre acting. But do you think I would be respected after serving 4 years in the Navy (when I get out, I'll only be 21-22)? I'm just wondering if this plan sounds stable or does it sound too wacky (I know anything is possible, etc.). Would you be interested in a good, talented actress (who'll be fit, btw) who served in the Navy? Please tell me what you think of this career plan. I'm 16/f

why dont you just become a stripper and make a shitload of money. then buy yourself a producer and director and whatnot and have them write up a movie where your the star. then youll make a shitload more money a hundred times easier than your origonal plan.

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ive been sad for a while and i just want to be happy again but i dont know how? isnt that sad to hear. i dont know why i am sad and i cant seem to figure it out. it might be that i relized everything i want gets messed up soo therefore i never get what i want. my friends try to help me out and it seems to work but once i leave them im sad again. Also i have fun times its not like im always sad its just after i have fun i get more sad then i was before. has anyone felt this way....and do u have any advice to help me feel like my old self?
thank you so much to those whose have advice for me!

i have the same problem. exact same problem. i dont really have too much of a reason for being so sad and unhappy, but i am. i have lots of fun when im with my friends but when im not around people who are making me laugh then i feel unhappy, unwanted, useless etc. BUT i dont know what to tell you. im still trying to figure this out myself. if you get an answer, or find something that helps, let me know.

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well i met this guy about a month ago and i didn't see him to now and we really had fun hangin out together...but he's not a good kisser :\ i guess cuz it was his first time but how do i tell him without makin us both feel stupid ??

if your so great just keep kissing him and eventually he'll learn. or just be like "hey i know some cool tricks" and maybe he'll start using them too. if you know any of corse.

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Hi. I have a really bad cold and i need a way to get better by tuesday. I have to go back to work on tuesday and i went to the doctor but she could only give me something for congestion but not my throat or body aches. My throat is the worst...is there anything i can do to help m throat, its very scratchy and sore when I swallow...

yea im paralized from the waste down and i need to get better by monday because i want to participate in my school track meet.

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