ive been sad for a while and i want to be happy again
Question Posted Tuesday May 24 2005, 7:32 pm
ive been sad for a while and i just want to be happy again but i dont know how? isnt that sad to hear. i dont know why i am sad and i cant seem to figure it out. it might be that i relized everything i want gets messed up soo therefore i never get what i want. my friends try to help me out and it seems to work but once i leave them im sad again. Also i have fun times its not like im always sad its just after i have fun i get more sad then i was before. has anyone felt this way....and do u have any advice to help me feel like my old self?
thank you so much to those whose have advice for me!
christianbaby answered Tuesday May 24 2005, 8:39 pm: I went through the same thing. I didn't want to be around my family, only my friends. When I was with my friends I was really happy. But when I came home I just wanted to crwal under the blankets and never come out. My mom made me go to a psychologist and I had to go on anti-depresants. I want to get any help but I did and now for the most part I am really happy. I mean I still have my down moments but I have gotten a lot better.
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LexiLA00 answered Tuesday May 24 2005, 8:35 pm: Hi and hello. Ok so i understand what your talking about and how difficult it is to keep yourself up when there is no one around to comfort you. I believe this is something you have to conquer on your own, and it will not be easy. However you have to really want it and the truth is it may get worse before it gets better. I think you are depressed, but if you want to truly be happy the work is all dependent on you. Just believe in yourself. Something that works for me is quotes. They provide good inspiration. Also, think of how lucky you have it (not saying you have it great, but if you have a nice roof over head, and food on your table then you have everything to be thankful for) My apologies if your life doesn't contain all these fulfillments.
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cUrLyHaiReDcUtiE16 answered Tuesday May 24 2005, 8:13 pm: heyy .. im not really sure what your going through all i know ist hat it is some type of depression you should see a doctor thats the only advice i cann give you
horsesare666es answered Tuesday May 24 2005, 8:06 pm: You sound a lot like me. This may sound mean... but i was an attention whore for a bit. You might be going through the same thing. Everyone said i was borderline n depressed but i never got treatment or talked to any counslers and i'm fine. it's just a patch of life you have to go through. if you really want to be happy you can be. i think you might be seeing all the attention people get when they are sad/depressed and you want it too.
That is what happened to me and i felt exacly the same way.
gl n try to pull through.
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*ashlee* answered Tuesday May 24 2005, 8:05 pm: i have the same problem. exact same problem. i dont really have too much of a reason for being so sad and unhappy, but i am. i have lots of fun when im with my friends but when im not around people who are making me laugh then i feel unhappy, unwanted, useless etc. BUT i dont know what to tell you. im still trying to figure this out myself. if you get an answer, or find something that helps, let me know. [ *ashlee*'s advice column | Ask *ashlee* A Question ]
sourpatchkids379 answered Tuesday May 24 2005, 7:35 pm: Hey!
Hun, this might be hard to hear but you may be depressed. There is not a real start to depression, most doctors will tell you it is a chemical imbalence in you brain i would recommend talking to your parents and then going to a doctor and possibly getting some medication. Best of Luck!
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