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Q: I'm 13 ans my boyfriend is 17 is that wrong? I love him and he loves me and he is super nice to me and does not nag me about sex he said its all up to me and we have talked about all that! So is it wrong????

Well soon enough he will be illegal to be going out with so you have to think about that but no its not wrong but its not right either-trix

Q: well my friend is spending the night with me!and my sis was going to dothan tomorrow and i was orignally going with her but instead we were gonna see if i could go to my friends house that is spending the night with me i dont know what to do casue i feel bad that i'm not going with my sister who should i go with? my sister or my friend?

I think you should maybe go with your sister it would hurt to go and spend time with your sister maybe she wants you to go but you probably made her feel bad when you told her that you were going to stay with your friend and i am sure your friend will understand-trix

Q: I am sure that this auestion has been asked before but I'd like some answers pertaining to my exact situation. I ussually hate online advice forums, but thougth I'd give it a try before I critisize it. Ok, so enough, here's my problem.

My best friend is a girl. She (and I) are 15 years old. I've known her for about two years now. We have been through so much together and help eachother out in so many ways that I see our friendship permanent unless I personally screw it up. When we first met, I immediatly liked her and wanted to date her. When I found out she felt the same way, I planned on asking her out. But some stupid girl found out that she liked me and proclaimed it to the school and also wrote a letter from me (which I didn't write) to her asking her out. Then this menace of a girl embarrased her in front of the entire cafeteria by starting a chant of "ask her out (then my name)". After that, we just became friends and never really brought it up again. It's been two years since then and we have both had at least one boyfriend or girlfriend. I am starting to really like her and it haints me that we never even gave it a shot. But I am not sure if she likes me more than a best friend or if she would agree to go out with me. She is the only person I trust and I can't give her up as a friend, which is why I haven't risked our friendship by asking her out. So, where do I go? What do I do? What do I tell her? What will she say? If she refuses to go out with me, will our friendship be awkward and ruined?

Well maybe you could just take her to the movies before you to are a official couple just do things like that but make sure you both know it means more then just being best friends though. If it seems to be going well I advize you to ask her out but just tell her how you feel being that you 2 are best friends it shouldnt be extremely hard just a bit hard and she will probably feel a bit wierd at first because what happaned with the whole chant thing but thats what i would be like to but if she doesnt refuse to go out with you then your good but if she does say you understand because you wouldnt really want to risk the friendship on loosing such a good friend-trix

Q: okay I asked a question about the same guy a while back but I really need a new answer!Okay I wrote about a guy that I love and he had a girlfriend then and now he doesnt,should I tell him I like him even though he took another girl out to the movies?His sister is telling him I like him am I making a mistake by letting him know or what?Also he has told me he liked me b4 but I couldnt say it back but I have kissed him b4(his idea!)Any advice?!

My advice would be to tell him-trix

Q: I have this friend who is in North Carolina. She is going down there to visit with family and stuff. So, she's coming back up for one day and going to Missouri. While she's in Missouri she's going to miss our Tobacco Days Tournament. She's the one on our softball team that always keeps everyone fired up. I don't know what I'm going to do without her there. Please
help!
*Bethany*

Have her right a fire up note to the whole team-trix

Q: okay i like this guy awhole lot! and hes been on vaca for awhile now.. and EVERYDAY he calls or texts messages me. his text messages are like "you just ran through my mind. i just wanted to say hey." and junk like that.. does this mean he likes me back?

Most likely you should tell him you like him through a text sense he is a text kind of guy lol-trix

Q: I'm going to a new school in fall. How can I make people like me there?

Wow same thing im going to WFHS... im going into 9th and its grades 9-12 so... that makes things a lil bit harder what i am going to do is just be friendly and smile and say hey to anybody thats what i am going to do-trix

Q: My mom always has me wearing what she thinks is cute. I told her I want to change to like a punk style but she wont let me. I want to be comfortable in what I wear but I cant get her to except my style!!! How should I explain this to her again???

Tell her what you exactly told me.. i wouldnt take no for answer if i were your mom-trix

Q: hey! umm well ive bin with my bf for 10 months now and like i love him more then anything!! hes 19 nd im 15 and i no he loves me tooo but like i dunno just all of a sudden it feels werid like i feel like were fallin apart and i dont want that to happen cuz i love him more then anything!! i reeli need sum adice on like wut to do cuz i reeli dont wanna lose him, he meens everything to me!! plz help!! maybee we just need sum tyme alone..or sumthin i dunno just plz tell me wut i think!!! =(

Well first off take the time of day to talk to him about it no matter how hard it may seem to do but it really helps... i know from experience and believe me it gets alot off your chest. And maybe you both could just take a short break and see what happans between that break and you could decide weather you want to keep going out or you dont want to keep going out-trix

Q: * I really wana have a bf.. and i just dont kno where to go and meet guys that'll like me.. my friends say im pretty but a guy has never came up to me and asked for my # or something... i dont kno what i should do to get a kute guys attention.. help?!

Go to parties or to the skating rink or the pool-trix

Q: Does anyone know any sad songs maybe something that makes you or someone u know cry? The name and who sings it?

Tears in heaven-eric clapton or every step i take-?

Q: ok so ive been dating this guy for almost 7 months. hes great but i dont see us going newhere. i think he deserves better and i should end it for his benefit. also, i dont think i love him like i thought i did. i dont want to be with him nemore.i think i love the fact of not being alone and having someone care about me. the problem is, he actually loves me and i feel like i have been leading him on. i dont know what to do or how to tell him its over. i still wanna be friends. i hope he doesnt go back to drinking and drugs*which he quit for me* i cant tell him in person cuz it would break both of our hearts to see eachothers faces. i never wanted to hurt him. were not right for eachother. but i dont wanna be alone. what do i do or say? i need MAJOR advice! thank you.

Just dont make it a official breakup just call it a break and see what happans from there just say you think you guys rushed the relationship a little to fast more then you had in mind. And if you guys dont go back out that you will be the best of friends and you'll hang out no matter what but my best advice would be to not go out wtih someone right away-trix

Q: There's this girl that likes my boyfriend a lot... She always tries to break us up and she won't take no for an answer... He says that he doesn't like her but whenever I'm talking to him online he ignores me most of the time to talk to her... Do you think maybe he likes her, or do you think he's just trying to get her off his case? (15/f)

It may be a little bit of both you never know ask him how come he's ignoring you and if he is doing it to just talk to the girl-trix

Q: it says my pic is over 15k so it can't be uploaded... doesn't neone know how i can fix that!!!!! please please help

If you have adobe downsize it thats what i use-trix

Q: How do u get rid of Acne scars??

My friend has a few scars but as far as scars go i've never had scars but i would just use cover up or maybe check online for that sort of stuff SoOo sorry!!-trix

Q: I have been having these major break outs around my hairline and on my nose..I have tryed alot of stuff that just dont seem to work any ideas?

Oxy works great-trix

Q: im 16/f and i weight 110 pounds. am i really really skinny???

Yeah kinda... depends on how short/tall you are though-trix

Q: i have a problem with my weight. people in my school make fun of me. what should i do?

Go to the gym-trix

Q: hey i need to lose like 10 pounds by the 21 of feb. any ideas?

You could go to the gym-trix

Q: I think I eat too much food. I'm kinda overweight and I always find myself eating even when I'm not hungry! I know I shouldnt but i just love the taste of food! what to do?

Run it off afterwards-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"