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Uh Oh..WhAtZ GoIn On BeTwEeN uS!! =(
hey! umm well ive bin with my bf for 10 months now and like i love him more then anything!! hes 19 nd im 15 and i no he loves me tooo but like i dunno just all of a sudden it feels werid like i feel like were fallin apart and i dont want that to happen cuz i love him more then anything!! i reeli need sum adice on like wut to do cuz i reeli dont wanna lose him, he meens everything to me!! plz help!! maybee we just need sum tyme alone..or sumthin i dunno just plz tell me wut i think!!! =(
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If there is some falling apart i think its because you are to young to know you love someone. you should see othere people, but still see him like friends because you dont wanna lose him i just think you are to young for him, and to know what love really is
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Well first off take the time of day to talk to him about it no matter how hard it may seem to do but it really helps... i know from experience and believe me it gets alot off your chest. And maybe you both could just take a short break and see what happans between that break and you could decide weather you want to keep going out or you dont want to keep going out-trix
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That kind of thing happened to me, it kind of felt that maybe he's just saying he loves you because he feels he has to at that point of time in the relationship... it's just a stage it will pass if you are REALLY in love, just give it a little time...
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This sort of thing happens in relationships that last for any significant amount of time. People grow and change, especially when they are younger, and if by chance they grow in separate directions or begin to move apart, it's completely normal. I think that the best solution is to take a short time apart, a week or two, just to see if it is truly that you have grown apart or if this is being caused by tension and distractions from other things. Whatever you do, just be ready for the outcome, whatever it is. I know that you love him, but if it doesn’t work there is no use hurting the both of you over it, so be honest with yourself, and keep your head on strait. Who knows, this could be temporary! Don’t worry about it, things will work out for the best.
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Well, 10 months is a long time to be with someone at your age, so there are two things that might be happening. You may be getting bored with each other or you may have not been spending as much time with each other. Talk to your partner and see how he feels about it, then depending on what he thinks you could either have some time apart or go out more.
Good luck :)
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