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Does anyone know how or even if u can delete your sn on AIM? (link)
u cant...xoxo effy


anyOne knOw any depressinq lOve sOnqs? Or b/f,,g/f lOve sOnqs?like anythinq hip*hOp Or pOp.nO cOuntry :-)
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truly madly deeply, by savage garden, or suddenly by billy ocean...or i knew i loved u b4 i met u by savage garden...hmmm theres a lot :) xoxo effy


hi, i have a neighbor and i like him alot and i think he knew before i called him and really told him what i felt and i asked him what he thought and he asked me if he could get back to me...do you think he WILL get back to me? :-/ i wana know i cant stop thinkin about it!!! (link)
may b...but that was kinda harsh though...u tell him wut u feel n he b like "i'll get bak at ya" well may b he had something to do or somewhere to go..or a family problem...i dunno...either way i mean damn dat was harsh! (i think) hmmm i dunno he might not call but he might call...:-/


I'm only 13, but i need to save up some money 4 my Bestfriends birthday. But what i want 2 give her is really expensive. It's like 70 bucks! But i know it's wut she wants more than anything else. So, does anyone have any ideas for how to raise that much money??? thanx (link)
babysit for someone...may b in ur neighborhood...tell ur mom or ur dad to hook u up...make a deal wit ur parents...do something for them so they could pay u...i've seen in my school wut ppl do is...they buy a bunch of lolypops for like $2.50 and they sale 1 loly pop for $1.00 n some for $1.25...(i'm talkin bout if ur school starts on the 11th this month) xoxo effy hope i helped


ok me and my bestfriend get in alot of fights but we dont wana be seperated and i dont no wat to do (link)
talk to her...may b u guys need to chill a lil n distance ur slef...i'm not sayin dont talk to her at all but u kno find new friends n stuff :) xoxo effy


My sister and i sing. And we sing well. Sometimes friends and family will ask us to sing but if we are not together, we feel uncomfortable doing it alone. Alot of the times we need a few drinks to loosen us up. How do you get over the fear of singing in front of large groups and also how to do it without someone? (link)
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well i have this boifriend and i have een goinout wit hym for over 3 month n i really like hym and people told hym that i have been kissing other guys and i havnt so how do i get hym to belive me (link)
well u tell him that ppl are talkin n if ur so clear on dat one...talk to him n tell him that...wut ppl sayin aint tru...n w/e w/e...he has to trust u...n give u another chance...let him check up on u...n wit time he will belive that ppl just like to talk n make up shit...if he doesnt give u another chance then it wasnt meant to b...forget him... also did ppl say dat to him infron of u? if they did...then u should've stand up for ur self n bla bla...but if they didnt n he sayin dat...he might just say dat cuz he doesnt feel da same way no more n he dont wanna break ur heart by telllin u that so he just made that up to make u feel responsible...feel me?!?!? so hmmmm i dunno think..xoxo effy


My best friend has been acting really weird lately. My other b/f just got home from Kansas the other day and she wouldn't even play with us. She didn't talk to me on the way home from her play and she always wants to do stuff with little kids then hang with us. Whats wrong? (link)
talk to her...see wussuh may b she has a problem...if u talk to her n ur sure she has nothing..then may b she distancing her self from ya...i guess u've to find ur self another best friend :) xoxo effy


how do you give a good blowjob i want to make my bf real happy for his bday? (link)
i aint an expert on dat one...i dunno wut to tell u...wrong person to ask...xoxo effy


hey r u a virgin? (link)
i'll let u wonder on dat one :) xoxo effy


Ther's this guy I like at my school. We flirt back and forth all the time but its a joke we made a couple of months ago. Just about everyone at school knows I like him. In fact, I'm pretty sure he knoew it to. Some times I sit by him at lunch but he kinda ignores me. I wanna tell him I like him but he just to go out with all these slut girlfriends who would make out with him anywhere. and well if i do tell him and we start dating, I don't want to be compared to all those other ex-girlfriends. Should I tell him?? (link)
hmmm well since he ignores u...may be he doesnt feel da same way...so i duno gurl...i would b sure he likes me first b4 i told him how i felt...xoxo effy


y r all guys the same! their all perverted dirty playas! god! i met this guy online he really proved to me that he would never b a playa never do drugs never drink! sounds like the perfect guy right? well wrong! once a slutty gurl walks by or w/e they always ditch the good gurls for them!! why is that? all guys r the same!!!! y can't there just b more sweet and sincere boys! i mean thats all a gurl wants!(well me n e ways) (link)
hi...well let me tell u something UR SO WRONG!!!! listen not all guys are the same...u just havent found that "mr.right" one...i use to think the same as u did...(even guys never ditched me or anything) but i still thought that guys were perverts n w/e w/e....till the day i met my baby....he the sweetest finest awsome guy there is on earth...he is not a perv....n not a playa no drugs no nothing...he is THE PERFECT GUY...FOR ME at least...n he would b for anyone i garantee u dat one...i'm just so glad i got him though :)) so give it time...that mr.right will come ;) when u least expect it ;) xoxo effy


ok i am 13 5'6' and 116 pounds. girls in my grade that are bigger than me spread rumors that i am anorexic! i am not at all. my guy friends (who are like my only friends these days) say " what the f**k u eat as much as a guy" and its just my body type. how can i get people to stop these ridiculous rumors?! (link)
who cares wut they say...just be like DONT HATE...n take it as a joke
wit time they will stop...xoxo effy


guys wut could a gurl do that will turn you on? and make you wanna get wit her? (link)
hahah even though i aint a guy i know wut they want...they want u to wear something sexy...show some skin...dat turns them on a lil bit...n make them want u...also...u've to have the personality that they want ....n b funny n not boring...cuz if they think u hot n they holla n they chill wit u once...n shit..n see that ur boring or u kno w/e then that will drive them away...hahah n if u have a b/f n u wanna turn him on or w/e...i've hurd touchin him round that "spot" turns guys on...touchin their nipples...u kno playin wit them...hmmmm kissin the neck is da spot...n lickin down the stomache going rite next to the "spot" n then goin up again...will drive him nuts...then if u wanna give him lots n lots of plesure ...just sux his d*ck lmao :) xoxo effy


Does any1 know any fast ways 2 build up muscles in ur arms and/or stomach? If you have any ideas then plz let me know! Thx! (link)
eat healthy n work out as much as u can...thats if u wanna b helthy...if u want a fast fast way...i've hurd steroids work...the thing is that on top of dat i've hurd they make ur d*ck smaller...so think bout dat ;) xoxoo effy


hey some of my friends are doing this thing when they all gang up on me and its really annoying and im not sure if they r my friends still and a lot of ppl say 2 just hang out w. the guys bc none of them r like the girls (talking about eachother) should i or just play it cool and stay w. my "friends"? (link)
look if u dont feel like they are ur friends....fuck dat...forget them distance ur self...i'm 17 (not that old ) but from my experience frome life...i c that guys are much better then gurls b/c gurls get jelous...gurls are weird....i've only like 5 gurl friends..(good friends) the rest are just a "hi" "bye" thing...guys dont hate on gurls...so they dont relly talk shit..or do stupid things like gurls do...feel me ;) so xoxo effy


I'm 13 and a girl I hate dumping people and my boyfriend like me a lot and I dont really like him any more does any one have any good ways to dump him I need help with out breaking his heart...thnx (link)
the best way is make him not like u by acting the way he dont like a gurl to act....dats da best way...if u distance ur self u'll still hurt him...either way i dunno he will still get hurt
but if u act the way he dont like a gurl to act he will stop likin u
n will break up wit u :) xoxo effy


I have this crush on a guy. He's really sweet and were really good friends. Only problem he lives in a different town. It's the same state but different towns. Neither of us can drive so we can't see each other and the only way we can talk is on my cell phone. I want to go out with him but I don't know about the long-distance deal. What should I do? (link)
look from my experience no metter how much u like da guy or how much he likes u if ur long distance n cant see eachother as much as u want...IT DOESNT WORK!!!...u n him will get tired...will start cheading or arguing...or start likin someone else that is close to u...someone u see everyday..n then conflicts will happen n bla bla...so it doesnt work...but if u wanna give it a try go ahead..n see for ur self :) xoxo effy


I usually give advice, but now I need advice...I'm gonna be a freshy in about 3 weeks and I want some tips (besides "be yourself") on making friends, my problem is that I'm REALLY shy and I always think I'm going to say something stupid. The h.s isn't that big (1,100 students) and all of my friends are going to this h.s, but if I don't have any of them in one of my classes I want to be able to meet new people..

Any tips would be greatly appricated, btw I rate (link)
look...dont worry that much...the same way u feel the rest of freshmans in dat school feels da same way....so they gonna b a lil shy at first and everything but wit time they'll get tired of it n they'll talk n bla bla...a smile will grow in to a hello n then so on....just who ever is next to u smile n
try to make a canvo like "wuts ur name" or w/e w/e ...wut middel school u went to ...or w/e...cuz everyone in ur classes will b a freshman...well it depends...unless someone failed that class n its repeating it...but mostly it will b full wit freshys n they are lookin for the same thing n they feel da same way u do...so dont worry that much :) its no big n u'll see that ur self :) xoxo effy


what are some good background websights? (link)
go to google...n search for "backgrounds"
or "animated backgrounds"
it will give u a bunch of sites :) xoxo effy




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