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Question Posted Wednesday August 4 2004, 1:14 pm

I have this crush on a guy. He's really sweet and were really good friends. Only problem he lives in a different town. It's the same state but different towns. Neither of us can drive so we can't see each other and the only way we can talk is on my cell phone. I want to go out with him but I don't know about the long-distance deal. What should I do?

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LTkaterinaSC answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 3:06 pm:
not beeing able to see your boyfriend,is really hard. and especially if yall live in different towns!! ok even tho u like this guy alot and everything, honestly i think it would be too hard for yall to keep a good relationship if yall never see eachother! i reccomend just staying friends, even tho it will be hard! but ull find a guy in ur town! hope this was helpfull!

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PryNcEzzLiSSa answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:55 pm:
LONG DISTANCE HUH WELL DONT WORRY IV BEEN GOING OUT WITH THIS GUY FOR OVER A YEAR AND HE LIVES IN FRENCH CAMP N ILIE N STOCKTON WE TALK ALL NIGHT EVERY NIGHT ....I LOVE HIMTOO DEATH..SO JUSS DO IT CUZ I DIDNT THINK ME N HIM WERE REALLY GUNNA WORK OUT BUT ITS BEEN OVER A YEAR!..SO GOOD LUCK "OSSO143@AOL.COM";

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jeanine278972 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:39 pm:
its better not to get into a long distance relationship. It seems like they never work. Thats cause they are sooo complicated. U never get to see each other.. and u never really know what the other person is doing. Unless u want to take a risk like that.. i wouldnt recomend a long distance relationship.

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dontgetnobetter9 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:16 pm:
Ive done the same thing many times! and believe me its complicated. Tell him how u feel and see if he feels the same way. If he doesnt then dont bother. But if he does then try it. make plans with him in advance like to go to a movie or something on the weekend. if things dont work out just stay friends!

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Karen answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:07 pm:
Long distance relationships really don't work out so I suggest that maybe you could meet up at the mall or some kind of plaza where you guys can hang out. Also, tell him how you feel about him and maybe you guys can start a relationship. Hope I helped!

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shweetxtemptati0n answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 1:49 pm:
long distance relationships dont really work out. Especially when both of u can't drive. I think u should just keep talkin to him tellin him how u feel. Mayb at least one time u guys could find away to see eachother. Ask friends that drive if they could drive. Besides that I dont think a long distance relationship will work

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cRazy_Ox_baBy answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 1:39 pm:
You shoudl try it then, if its a reasonable drive then you could meet at the othas house or somewhea in the middle like the mall or somethin. if its ova an hour or somethin tho then id reconsider goin out with him.

<3 ChaNtaL

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reflektionofme answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 1:22 pm:
Long distanst relationships usually dont work out well. It would be even harder to go out with him when both of you cant drive. I wouldnt worry about going out with him right yet. But have fun and hang out. Have your parents drive you to go see him or maybe meet halfway? It will get a lot easier once you guys can drive.

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xxhotsexycutiexx answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 1:22 pm:
look from my experience no metter how much u like da guy or how much he likes u if ur long distance n cant see eachother as much as u want...IT DOESNT WORK!!!...u n him will get tired...will start cheading or arguing...or start likin someone else that is close to u...someone u see everyday..n then conflicts will happen n bla bla...so it doesnt work...but if u wanna give it a try go ahead..n see for ur self :) xoxo effy

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Jane answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 1:21 pm:
*Well, if it's not too far away then wait until one of you turns 16. If it's like 2 hours away it's not worth of bothering.*

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suzie165 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 1:20 pm:
jsut do what your heart is telling you if you really like him i mean really really like him then go for it ive been in the same situation i didnt think it wa gonnna work but i liked him alot so i think you should go for it and see if it works out if it doesnt theres always someone else hope I helped!
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