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bf or friend?


Question Posted Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:01 pm

Ther's this guy I like at my school. We flirt back and forth all the time but its a joke we made a couple of months ago. Just about everyone at school knows I like him. In fact, I'm pretty sure he knoew it to. Some times I sit by him at lunch but he kinda ignores me. I wanna tell him I like him but he just to go out with all these slut girlfriends who would make out with him anywhere. and well if i do tell him and we start dating, I don't want to be compared to all those other ex-girlfriends. Should I tell him??

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tweetyLUVR999 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 12:28 pm:
only if you want to but if he asks you i would tell the truth because if you lie it will end up in a big twisted mess. and if you really wanna tell him but you don't know how just bring it up say sumpthin like ya know i used to like you and then keep goin on that subject and tell him the truth if he asks. sorry if it wasn't too helpful

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orphans answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 10:06 pm:
yeah if he says yes than he wont care if you dont do shit with him everywhere. have some self respect.

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xxhotsexycutiexx answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 3:00 pm:
hmmm well since he ignores u...may be he doesnt feel da same way...so i duno gurl...i would b sure he likes me first b4 i told him how i felt...xoxo effy

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Karen answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:43 pm:
I think you should tell him how you feel. You never know, you could be his first non-sluttyish girlfriend and he accept you the way you are. But if he wants to compare you to his "other girlfriends", just keep him as a friend.

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NicoleMarie answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:39 pm:
Keep him as a friend. If he is dating girls who are "Sluts", then they dont have any respect for themselves. Keep respect for yourself. I think it would be a good idea to let him know how you feel, because it sounds like you are good friends. I am sure he will give you his honest feed back. If he wants to hook up with you, than you need to ask yourself if you can be strong enough to let him go the first time he hurts you. I only say this because it seems like he hasnt has a steady girlfriend for a while. As far as feeling compared. Don't worry about what others think. You know whats up. Thats all that matters. Good luck!

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cheerchic2009 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:39 pm:
TELL HIM!

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lil_kati22 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:18 pm:
i think you should tell him dont worry about being compared to those other girls... it doesnt matter what everyone else thinks it only matters what you think

I hope i helped if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box! : )


Kati

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duckhuntrox answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:15 pm:
well if you realy like him, you should tell him. or it might be easier to write him a note. but just take my word for it- it's so much better to tell him and he not feel the same, than regret it forever. and plus, its possible that he likes you to and maybe he's just being shy. good luck

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