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You see that man in that picture? That is me. I'm metal as all holy heck and I will give you answers so metal, you'll grow a beard. Even if you're a teenage girl.

So throw a question my way? "I like this guy and this guy, what do I do?" PICK THE ONE WHO LIKES METAL! "I've been feeling depressed lately, what should I do?" LISTEN TO SOME METAL! "I need help with my pre-calc homework." THE ANSWER IS METAL!

I can handle it all, I will not shy away from any question. May the metal be with you!

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For halloween I've decided to dress up as a vampire :] (girl btw xD). I've got a black & pink corset, a black tutu and a pink one, and I got this plain black dress which I could wear under the corset maybe? I know what kind of makeup and hair and that but what else could I wear to make it more 'vampirish'?

Does this costume come with originality?

You could always find out where your local goths hang out and study what they where. Their style mixed with fake fangs is guaranteed to be 100% vampire. You also get the pleasure of laughing at goths.

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17/F

Would it be dangerous for me, as a female, to masturbate with a vacuum?

If you were 18, I'd marry you for asking this question.

I'm sure it's fine, and probably a fetish in Japan actually.

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Im a 14 year old girl who has a major crush on her friend who happens to be a cute n funny guy. We hang out in class and i told him i liked him i even asked my sis to ask him if he likes me he said no but continues to flirt, hug, and make me laugh. No matter what i do i cant get over him. I dont know what to do.

I'd love to answer this question, but then I remembered that I didn't see a question mark anywhere, therefore you didn't ask a question. Sorry :(.

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Okay, im 17/m starting college soon. My sister lives about 2 hours away from me but one of her friends moved down to where i live to go to college but not the same one as me. My sister wanted me to start hanging out with this girl. So my sister came down where i lived and we all met up for the first time and she was kinda quiet, but she seemed really nice. I'm not sure if she just wasnt in to me or if she liked me idk we talked for a little bit but no really too much. I have been thinking about this girl and i do want to be friends with her or be in a relationship with her. I have her number but how should i start talking to her?? And btw my sister wants us to go out lol. But yeah she was on my mind all day and I do not know what to say or start off a conversation with her.

Traditionally people start with, "Hi..." but you could always switch it up.

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is it possible to get a blackberry with verizon without getting the extra 30 dollars a month extra for internet? i dont really use or need internet when im away from the house.

It's called getting a regular phone you weirdo. What the fuck is the point of a Blackberry if you're NOT using the internet? That's like a deaf person asking about getting an iPod, or a cripple buying bowling shoes. Why waste the money on one of those if you're not going to use it for the primary reason you'd buy one?

Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't know buying one for the look of the phone was a reason that you're not an idiot.

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...as more than a friend?

We're 17 by the way

When you're the first girl in that group of friends he sleeps with. The rest of them are just there to fill in the void.

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How do you know if a guy has an orgasm? And also I was wondering, last night me and my boyfriend were dry humping and it felt good for both of us so we did it a little more then he like stoppedd and i could feel his penis like tingling or shaking against my leg? What was happening? I asked him if he came he said no.

When semen spews forth from his penis like an epic volcano and an angelic chorus rings out from the heavens, THAT is when a guy has an orgasm.


And by the way, what kind of boring prude are you that he has to get dry humping?

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Where do cute people lurk? Outside of Europe, that is. I live in America. All the adorable people I know are European. So where can I find someone cute lurking? I guess cuteness is relative and depends on your taste, but any ideas/opinions?

Asking the internet how to find cute people is like asking a retard to do your calculus homework. There is a reason we're here (we're not cute) and a reason you're asking us (you have the personality of sand and smell like anus), and all you're going to get is fail (because cute people have lives).



Sorry to break it to you.

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14-f

OMG so i told like my best friend about my ""one night stand" ?????/? am i a slut?

As a 14 year old female talking about one night stands, you are a slut. Once you become a 24 year old male, it wont be slutty it will be awesome and you'll get high fives from your friends.

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So like i'm sorta new at this and i've given my bf a hj but like when he...ahem...finishes it kinda goes everywhere, i've talked to him about how to avoid such a mess but he just shrugs and says theres no real way to avoid it, so like what can i do to like contain this cause i've already had to like wash my sheets and his clothes a few times

You could always block it with your mouth.

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I really need a guy to lean on right now, short term or long term relationship would be good for me :(
But I will probably never find a guy for years because I'm 15 and pregnant, what kind of guy wants to date a girl thats having a kid?
Guys please answer. Be completely honest.

There is no such thing as a serious relationship at 15. Well, if you're mormon and your soon to be husband is 30 and has 4 other wives maybe, but normal people don't deal with that problem. But the harsh reality is no guy at 15 will want to deal with a relationship involving a kid. I'm sorry to say it, but why would they? They're young and wanna fuck (sounds like you were too 'til you fucked that one up). You'll eventually find someone, but it's not going to be for years, like you already said.

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whenever i klick 'upload photos' a window opens telling me that the memory could not be read & then i have to close everything. and at the top of the window it says 'iexplore.exe'
what can i do against this. i tried firefox & internet explorer.

Either Myspace finally installed their ugly filter, or the internet finally realized that Myspace is dead and no one cares about it.

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My boyfriends cum was like clearish but with a blue tint. he is 18 so he definitely went through puberty haha. I know it is usually whitish, so i was wondering if theres anything wrong with this? and does diet effect color? I know its bad if its green, but this was just a hint of blue...thanks in advance

Maybe he didn't eat enough vegetables.

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what are some tips on making out? and what else can a girl do while making out with a guy to make it more fun and get them more excited? and what do you do to take the makeout session as far as possible before like having sex?

1. Be drunk.
2. Lame techno music.
3. Camera phone out.
4. Take pictures while looking at camera.
5. Upload them to Facebook.
6. You win.

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This summer I spent a month with my brothers friend on vacation, he came along with my family. I had already liked this boy for quite some time and naturally being with him for so long caused me to want him even more. Well the last week of the vacation we hooked up, I mean we got up to third base and all and I usually dont see myself as that kind of person doing the whole hook up thing I just feel kind of dirty I guess. Well about a week after we got back he asked me out and told me that he couldnt stop thinking about me and I was the happiest girl in the world. Now we've been going out for a month and a half and I've been super happy but he keeps pressuring me to...go back to third base and I know we've had the physical aspect of a relationship familiarized before but I cant help thinking that 1. its too soon in our relationship to get so hot and heavy, 2. he might just want me because I'll give him physical attention and he might not like me as I like him so much and 3. since he already has gotten me to go to third base with him he going to expect it all the time. Anways I'm just really confused, Im 16 and I feel like maybe I'm too young? I'm not sure, any advice or experience that you may have with this would be really helpful! Thank you so much!

If he runs in and is like, "tits or get the fuck out," he might be looking for some hot and heavy action, and maybe not the relationship thing. Hold off, if he's a dick then fuck it, find a guy who will allow you to do whatever.

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I know this isn't about sex but i didn't no what to put it under lol.


So I think Obama should have never became president
I think hi is an idiot.

So i want to know people who did vote for him why you did what were your reasons?
Cause if you think hes ganna pay for your bills and provide for you hes not.

I just wanna know everyones reason for why they voted for him or why you didn't vote for him.
Also a lot of people including me, Think he manly won cause he is black and i think if that is true witch i think it is i think thats wrong.
My resons are because I think racism is wrong and if people vote for him only because he's black just means your being racist. Now you might note be but your basing your decision on the color of his skin i and i think thats horriable.
I bet if he was a white man he would not of one or he wouldn't of one for the reasons he did.

PLEASE DO NOT TAKE THIS OVENSIVLY IM JUST SPREEDING MY OPINION ON WHAT I BELIEVIE AND I WANT TO KNOW WHAT PEOPLE BELIEVE OR THINK.

Hopefully Obama will fix the nation's education and it will benefit you. I'm not sure words like "ovensivly" are actually words.

Now, you keep bringing up the point that "you think (which I think is a joke, there is obviously no activity in that brain of yours) hi(sic) is an idiot." Under what grounds is "hi(sic) an idiot"? Did you hear your parents say that? Did you hear the news say that? Did you hear the idiot hot guy/girl at school say that? Obviously you didn't come up with this thought on your own, and if "your" going to bash the internet about Obama, you should back your shit up.

Obama is not an idiot. He is actually a very well spoken man. Doing everything he promised? Nope. Ruining our nation's relations with another country? Yup. Managing to socialize health care without causing Civil War 2? Nope. Ending the war? Haha. Inviting people over to the White House for beer then choosing a flavorless domestic light beer like Bud Light? Seriously Obama, you could do a whole lot better. He did call Kanye West a jackass. That has gotta be worth at LEAST 5 points.

Oh, and yes, I did vote for him. I do not take it back for a second. Was he the best candidate to run this country? No. He was a lesser of two evils, and yes I know the lesser of two evils is still evil. I think I'd rather have Hitler run the country than Satan himself. He won (according to you he won "manly"), and since you are obviously a 14 year old retard who snuck on daddy's computer when he wasn't looking and decided to play with the big boys, prepare to hear things you don't wanna hear. Prepare to be told that your opinion doesn't matter (which it doesn't, turn 18 please). Prepare for another three plus years of Obama while you sit on the internet and bitch.

Will you even be 18 by the next election? I hope not. The last thing we need is you "spreeding" your vote into this country and infecting it with stupidity. Come back once you've studied some shit.

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where can i download free music.

i tried limewire, frostwire, and bearshare but i didn't like any of them.

does any one any good music downloarders?

Pirating is illegal young one, I am not going to tell you how to illegally download free music. You're going to have to figure it out or make friends with a nerd.

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it's been about a month since my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex. i did have my period but it was about a week earlier than normal and it only lasted about two and a half days, and it usually lasts 4-5 days. My period is usually very regular as well. i've been getting nauseous more easily if i eat or smell certain things, and i get carsick a lot easier. I've looked on the internet and i'm just not certain, could it be time for a pregnancy test?
17/f
please only answer if you have advice, i don't need opinions on protected sex.
Thank you

Might as well do the test.

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I am 18/f and I just recently lost my bladder control. I have never really had this issue before, but I find that I wet myself almost every day. When I laugh, or when I realize I have to go I barely get to the bathroom in time. This is so embarassing and horrible, I like to go out with my friends but I couldn't handle it if I go caught (I might have already and I am mortified). What can I do? Beside going to the doctor, I can't afford that right now.

If you stop consuming liquids, you'll eventually stop peeing.

Or go to the doctor. There probably isn't much else you can do.

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♥Ok so i found this website by my friend mysteryjay.
Anyway, My boyfriend lives far from me and he says he wont cheat on me but i cant be a 100% sure because he lives so far away. I cant be there to be sure but he says he wont cheat on me.
Also we wont to be together forever but his parents and my mom doesnt want us to be dating. My mom wont do nothing but his mom doesnt like me cause i am black and live in a different state. My boyfriend is white.
So we wont to met in real life and live togetehr forever. But do you think this is possible because We live so far away and right now i am the only one with the cellphone and i can only call him over hsi grandmothers phone which he is barely over there. I really do care and for him and want to now if he cares and for me too. He says im his true love and i say he is mine too.

Q:1. you think he will cheat on me?
2.Do you think we'll ever met?
3. Do you think we will be able to live together forever if we met in real life?
4.Do you think he really cares for me and wants to be with me forever and i am his true love?

It sounds like you're both fairly young. Why would you beat yourself up over a long distance relationship when you're a teenager? You'll find a love other than him.

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